She is 3,and there is never a time that people on the street don't notice her.People will take fhoto of her and touch her alfro hair and tell her that she's pretty.At times i feel like i'm a mother to a superstar.I'm so concern bout how she will behave when she's bigger.Sometimes she is sick of the praises and will give one look at strangers.I'm so worried bout her character.Will she be spoilt?Anyone who experience this,do you have any tips on how i can train her to be more polite?and how can i bring her up with grace.
2006-11-09 17:26:33 · 3 answers · asked by ike mie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be sure that she gets the most praise, love and appreciation from you. Otherwise, she will seek the attention from anywhere and anyone possible, which could become dangerous as she gets older.(possibly shaping her relationships with men). Assure her daily that while she is certainly beautiful on the outside, a pure and giving heart is what is most important. Explain it to her like a pumpkin. They are beautiful in the fall around certain holidays, but if the inside is rotten and nasty, it doesn't do anyone any good. She's 3 so she is very impressionable, and especially susceptible to mommy's wisdom. What you tell her now will plant a lifelong seed. Let her know that you love her with all your heart, but you will not cater to her. Tell her that hard work and dedication along with compassion and a great attitude are what will help her succeed. Just be consistent and she'll appreciate her beauty, but will learn character building lessons (and integrity) which will last much longer. Be encouraged and keep planting those seeds of wisdom. She'll be just fine. Best wishes.
2006-11-09 17:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a very special little girl - she has you for her mother. I've never had children & I know you'll be getting some wonderful advice. But I would recommend getting a book by T. Hazelton (or Hazelwood). I'd seen a few of his shows & he was wonderful with advice about the psychology of a child. Would parenting magazines be helpful, do you think? Read, read, read.
2006-11-10 04:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things changes, whenever the child is like this when she is still young that means when she grows up it is going to be the opposite! did you ever notice that even when the child is pretty when she is young, when she grows up its either she become more prettier or ugly. let your child have fun because her happiness is what matters most, she will be fine when she is matured and knows what she really wants in life!
2006-11-10 01:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lorato m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋