Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

2006-11-09 17:58:12 · 4 answers · asked by bingungki 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 26 years. We married young, right out of high school. During our marriage my husband left 3 times and threatend to leave at least 4 times.

During the good times, he is loving, attentive and my family really likes him. The first two times he left was in the first 7 years of our marriage. Each time he left he called about 2-4 weeks later and begged to come home. The first time I took him back no questions, I really loved and missed him. The second time I made him live in a seperate house for six months and we dated. Things worked out and we went for about 17 years without him actually leaving, however, he did threaten to leave.

He has now left again and said it was because he doesn't want that much responsibility. He wants to spend money when he wants and on what he wants without having to talk it over with me. The problem is he spend far too much money and we were quickly heading to bankruptcy.

He wanted to come home, I said No. Mistake?

2006-11-09 17:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by smilealot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I spoke with her last week. We have been together over three years. Last week she told me she loved me and everything was great. She is supposed to meet me at the airport next week. I called her back and her cell is straight to voice mail. I didnt say or doing anything to cause this. I email her everyday. It is hard to receive calls here because my cell doesnt work. She is very mature over 40 with two children. Her last email said I love you and you are in my thoughts and prayers. Help I am confused?

2006-11-09 17:55:15 · 16 answers · asked by jamesmadison78 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 17:55:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who told me she'd rather be with a Hot guy even though he's lazy and an asshole than with a much less attractive one who is a hard worker and a sweetheart!. Who would u choose? A: The Hot jack *** or B: The average sweet guy and why?

2006-11-09 17:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by muffin198486502 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 17:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so theres this guy that i like. but then i found out that he doesnt want to be in a relationship right now. he doesnt know i like him.
right now we're friends. not close friends but we talk on aim and talk at school yada yada yada~ and so yeah. i was thinking that maybe being his friend will help bcz i really like him and i was thinking of just waiting ya know? so, can you guys tell me if this is a good thing or not? got any tips?

2006-11-09 17:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by xkawaii 1 in Singles & Dating

i was told the web site is alexis photographs.com

2006-11-09 17:53:17 · 2 answers · asked by ken and his boys 1 in Weddings

Girl 1
5'4, 125 lbs
brown layered hair
bright aqua blue eyes

Girl 2
5'5, 93 lbs
Curly dark brown hair
Dark brown eyes

Girl 3
5'7, 137 lbs
blonde hair
blue/green eyes

2006-11-09 17:52:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I have been friends with my friend Tracy since 5th grade...well she moved to a different school 4 miles away from my town. Well at our old school, she was always the prettyist (out 0f 30 girls) which are school doesn't have much pretty girls anyway. Anyway I have a guy who I am starting to fall in love with. Well the other day she asked my if she could ask him to be her friend on myspace. Well I told her that I would tell him to add her and she said that would be fine. Well I don't plan on telling him, should I be worried that she is going to ask him after I told her. Well know it's bugging me that she is trying to get my guy.

2006-11-09 17:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Becca C 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, why? Is it something to do to brag, or is it an FYI kinda thing... and how many will anyone admit if they're on the small side?

2006-11-09 17:51:08 · 9 answers · asked by jae 2 in Singles & Dating

i for ur birthday u have been wanting something really bad but you get the total opposite like u want a car but u get ur mom's old nasty car what do u do? u get really mad and yell at the people but then they surprise you with a brand new range rover how do u talk to your parents again?

2006-11-09 17:50:25 · 9 answers · asked by poojahere4u 2 in Friends

Guys choose between these options, no if's and's or but's:

1. Big boobs, unattractive face.
2. Very small boobs, beautiful face.

I know looks don't matter, just seeing which things guy see as more important as far as physical appearance goes. THANKS!! :)

2006-11-09 17:48:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you get when u fall in love ?
A guy with a pin to burst your bubbles ?
Is that what I get for all my troubles ?
Shall I...... ever fall in love again ?

2006-11-09 17:47:46 · 13 answers · asked by Balaclava Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to do an essay on random opinions, please help me with yours! Thank you!

2006-11-09 17:46:22 · 18 answers · asked by muffin198486502 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyways ther is an other girl thats going out with my friend and this girl is my ex...

every time I walk by her she looks at me and when I look at her she looks away, and when I hug another girl or kiss another girl she get mad at me and asks why I kissed her...

So what I'm asking is what will a girl do if she is trying to get you back?




Thanks'

2006-11-09 17:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been going out since 2 months. we are each other's life. i told my mum about her and she got angry bcoz we are of different religion. she told me either i quit her or i forget my family. she said if i don't stop all contacts with her, she'll kick me out of the house. i told my gf everything but we just can't break as we love each other so much. we can't live without each other. if my mum knows that i'm still going out with her she'll kill me.... plz help me. i really don't know what to do.!! i love both my gf and my family. plz i badly need your help
p.s im 16 years and my gf also

2006-11-09 17:45:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today is my birthday and, tho i saw my parents and they did celebrate last weekend, they did not call today. should i call them and if so, what do i say?

2006-11-09 17:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Family

It's rare that I like a guy. Like, I'm 26 years old and my last crush was when I was 10 years old. Now, I'm completely head over heels in love with this guy in my office. The first time I saw him, I liked him and it grew to become more intense as time goes on since we get to spend time in gatherings with our common friends and colleagues.

I was heartbroken when I found out he has GF. The girl is rich, beautiful and kind. I'm kind too so I ask myself why does she does to have everything when I'm a good person too and I've never had any BF in my life and no guy has ever asked me out on a date. But I'm good friends with his GF.

Now, he and his GF have broken up and his GF went to Italy to live there for a while. I can see the effect itt had on him. He must love her a lot. I'm not really happy they broke up bec. I know that I still don't stand a chance with him. Also this means there'll be a new girl in his life. What should I do to get over him?

2006-11-09 17:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

I come from a country where arranged marriages are the norm. And when I emigrated to America, I was so excited to get away from that—to marry someone because of love! But now I don't know. I look around and see everyone here getting divorced, or having a lot of relationship troubles—much more than I ever saw in my home country.

I still want to choose the person I want to marry, and I have met him on http://bbwcentury.com/best but I'm wondering: Do you think there's something we can learn from arranged marriages about how to stay together?

2006-11-09 17:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive liked dis guy for 2-3 months & hes a really cool person.i love that he is taller than me[i am also tall] he makes me laugh alot.&so many people think we are related[we are not] today wen i was talking to him one of his friends walked by was like,"awww" and looked right at us.ive been getting to know him alot better than before.hes a freshman & im a sophmore.we are both really into sports.we dont have any classes together.we see eachother during all passing periods.wierd thing is...3 days ago was the first time he ever hugged me and now everytime we see eachother we hug & ive noticed that after one of my classes hes in the class right next to me, he used to never really walk slow & lately hes been walking slower w/ me & puts his arm around me sometimes... like da other day.. he said he forgot something so he walked back but wen he got to me he turned around & said ohh yea i gave it to my friend.iono if dat da truth o not.can you help me out i think he like me but iono do u think so?

2006-11-09 17:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The woman I love is a lesbi@n and lives with her lover. I really love this woman and she told me that she might convert to bi with me if I do all her housework for her. Its been six months now and I she still doesn't let me kiss her above her ankles. I am getting really tired of cleaning her house and buying them dinner etc. Is there anything else I can do? I have already tried, chocolates, flowers, diamonds and poetry. Please help

2006-11-09 17:41:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an interesting relationship with my ex. Since I moved out of the state, when I go to visit my kids, I stay in the house with them
(sometimes while the ex is still there, but of course different bedrooms). Now I pay a lot for child support and I split expenses on the house with my ex, so that when it is sold I can get half back. In addtion, since I prepare meals from the kitchen, sometimes i willl buy my ex take out food. My ex tells me that this is in exchange for "housing". Does anyone else have this relationship with their ex or am I justbeing a "nice guy"?
(I'll also do chores)

2006-11-09 17:41:24 · 15 answers · asked by pedidoc43 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I myself have only two good friends, I had a great friend, when I was 15, but she does not talk to me much anymore.I have a good friend that lives close by in my State, but we only talk maybe once or twice a week.But my very best friend in this whole wide world is in Arizona, right now!

2006-11-09 17:41:21 · 13 answers · asked by Marna S 4 in Friends

these people keep staring at me and like just bump me when i walk past pretending they`re tough. help!

2006-11-09 17:40:17 · 8 answers · asked by ninegoingontwentynine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 17:39:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't get it. Guys brag to their homies about how they can get dat gurl but y'all don't know what to do wit her once you got her. Y'all literally act EC when it comes to gurls or relationships! Having a relationship is not rocket science! Y'all see it as the only way ima keep dis gurl is if i spend money on her, and cause y'all don't know how to act. Y'all never have a answer to anything! And the lamest excuses in the world!! We want y'all to actually be there for us! Not just buy us gifts. If you know were not happy try to find out why. Don't just think we'll she's PMSs so i'll just wait a couple of days. We want y'all to actually ask questions to seem like you care to a certain extent. Is that too much to ask?

2006-11-09 17:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 17:38:16 · 15 answers · asked by dicky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how to dress or go where to find a guy in high school.(We are a middle- high school)

2006-11-09 17:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 17:38:02 · 4 answers · asked by *****heart***** 2 in Singles & Dating