The woman I love is a lesbi@n and lives with her lover. I really love this woman and she told me that she might convert to bi with me if I do all her housework for her. Its been six months now and I she still doesn't let me kiss her above her ankles. I am getting really tired of cleaning her house and buying them dinner etc. Is there anything else I can do? I have already tried, chocolates, flowers, diamonds and poetry. Please help
2006-11-09 17:41:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel sorry for you. Please ignore this woman completely. Stop calling, coming at her place and most important stop being her slave! I think she is using your feelings and making a fool of you. I know that love is a feeling you cannot control, but you have your pride. If you go on like this you'll end up hating the lady. Stay far for a while and maybe she'll come and look for you. Good luck.
2006-11-09 17:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by pegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with her and take her walking somewhere. She won't know it's a date. If she asks don't lie. Tell her it is. If she kinda blushes then she is turning a little twards you. (If she doesn't, then tell her that you liked her and you know she is a l.esbian and tell her what a loser you are so hopefully she feels sorry for you. Then go somewhere romantic but not to romantic. Then hopefully her girlfriend won't think anything and they will break up some day. Then you might be able to sleep with her and you ask her if she likes boys better. Hopefully she will say what you want her to say.
2006-11-09 17:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by PoT_hEaD_lAdY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...leave. She's not going to "convert" for you. She's using you. Get the hell out of Dodge and find a straight woman who really wants to spend time with you.
2006-11-09 17:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by grizabellamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person isn't going to change unless THEY decide to change, and at this point it just looks like you're being used, and I'm sorry, but you best just forget about her and find a way to move on.
2006-11-09 17:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is tell her you do all this work and really just want a little nookie. Hopefully she'll invite her lover and you can get a three-way going! Score!
2006-11-09 17:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Misterman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mat what are you doing? you must be in love... its not going to change and she is not going to turn bi for you, the best way to sort that out is a party with a lot of alcohol!!!!
2006-11-09 17:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jaylaw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like neither one of them wants to be bi. They just want someone to clean and buy food.
2006-11-09 17:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's playing you like a fiddle xD You can't change people. My sister tried to change her ex boyfriend cause he was an athiest and she ended up getting really hurt. You just can't do it.
2006-11-09 17:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you see you are being used. Find youselve another girl and forget this woman, she will never charge. If you marry her she will cheat on you with another woman.
2006-11-09 17:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting into a new relationship
2006-11-09 17:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋