I need to do an essay on random opinions, please help me with yours! Thank you!
2006-11-09 17:46:22 · 18 answers · asked by muffin198486502 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah, and please tell me why you think that age is the right age.
2006-11-09 17:49:08 · update #1
There is No 'Right' Age!
We All mature at Different Rates!
Our Ability to Judge Our own Judgment increases with age!
Hence why Younger Folk who leap into marriage do tend to mess up!
Hope this helps You!
2006-11-09 17:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right age to get married. However, there are a few things that need to happen before you get married.
1. You need to be financial secure. Remember, you're not just supporting your habits anymore, you have a spouse to worry about now too. Not to mention, pregnancy can happen anytime.
2. You need to be mature enough to realize the difference between lust and love. Too many young people marry for lust, and end in early divorce.
3. You have to truly know the person. A lot of people get married after only a few months of dating, and realize later that the person you thought you were marrying was only a charade.
Other than that, there is no definite age that marriage is the right thing to do. Age is a number, just like height, or IQ, or number of words you can type a minute. Would you marry someone because they could type 400 words a minute? Of course not, so why would you marry just because you've reached a certain age? It's a trivial, arbitrary and meaningless number.
2006-11-09 17:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by pantelone19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say 27. Reason...you finish high school at 17 or 18. Then, there's 4 years of school (at least), which makes a female 21 or 22. Then, there's the work your way up the corporate ladder, or open your own business, or even graduate school. Approx. 5 years should be devoted to you and your interests before you give your life over to another. So...that's why I think 27 is an ideal age to be married. Good luck on your essay.
2006-11-09 17:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my private opinion that marrying more youthful than 21 is an overly deficient alternative. People relatively do have to be impartial adults earlier than committing to an entire life with anyone. From a while 18-21+ is the time to be in your possess. Learning who and what you're all approximately. I bought married at 22. I had already been out and in of the Navy, traveled the sector and used to be commencing tuition. I knew myself and used to be in a position for the accountability and seriousness of marriage. A well chew of twenty-two 12 months historic persons are not in a position for marriage. They are nonetheless finding themselves. That is ok.
2016-09-01 10:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right age to get married? Well depends on each State's laws...
I say a responsible age, like over 30...by then you know, the birds and the bees, you've been educated, you've had your fun, you should've grown in a choosen career, understand good credit, built your foundation of goals, and by then, you would have found true love...
Hope this helped!
Good Luck with the essay.. :)
2006-11-09 17:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any age after you meet the person who you think you can tolerate being with in all situations for the rest of your life, a long, long, long time.
If however, you just want a wonderful wedding day, or as you fans of Oprah the idiot and the dangerous call it "My special day and bugger the groom and what my dad has to pay for it".
Pretend there is no divorce and when you are old enough to make the decision to spend the rest of your life with another person, reasonably happily hopefully, then you are old enough to be married.
Good luck with the school work and in life in gereral.
2006-11-09 17:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, that is a hard question. Because when you think about it, many younger adults are much more mature and know what they are doing, than many other older adults out there in this world. So, I mean I would say 25 or so, but many people at that age aren't mentally or finacially stable, but also there are many people that are older and aren't either. so therefore, I would say any age, but it just depends on the person.
2006-11-09 17:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently not 35 cause that was when I married the nut job I got divorced from. Possibly at 48 which is when I will marry the hot, great guy I am with now. Basically......the time is when you meet the person you are right with.
2006-11-09 17:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think age matters, its how mature the people are. I got married when I was under 18, for me that was the right time.
2006-11-09 17:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think the age factor is important.....it should depend on how they feel towards each other and whether they are both ready for the commitment of marriage.....
i got married when i was 32 some may say thats old...but until then i never met a person i could foresee spending the rest of my life with...
2006-11-09 17:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋