It's rare that I like a guy. Like, I'm 26 years old and my last crush was when I was 10 years old. Now, I'm completely head over heels in love with this guy in my office. The first time I saw him, I liked him and it grew to become more intense as time goes on since we get to spend time in gatherings with our common friends and colleagues.
I was heartbroken when I found out he has GF. The girl is rich, beautiful and kind. I'm kind too so I ask myself why does she does to have everything when I'm a good person too and I've never had any BF in my life and no guy has ever asked me out on a date. But I'm good friends with his GF.
Now, he and his GF have broken up and his GF went to Italy to live there for a while. I can see the effect itt had on him. He must love her a lot. I'm not really happy they broke up bec. I know that I still don't stand a chance with him. Also this means there'll be a new girl in his life. What should I do to get over him?
2006-11-09 17:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you have a chance with him? If you just think you don't or you think you aren't good enough for him then I think you need to work on improving your self esteem first. That could be why you haven't had any other boyfriends. If you don't feel like you deserve love then you send that vibe out and guys won't respond to you. Trust me I didn't think I was worthy of a good guy for along time and dated a whole list of losers before I found a great counselor and worked on myself first. I am now happily married to a great guy. Too bad it took me till almost thirty before I realized I was the one sabatoging my love life.
2006-11-09 17:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by blacksun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date your gal friends out more often. Treat him as a friend and date him too. Don't let him think that you are interested in him. Just let him think that you know he is upset and just want to cheer him up. He may not want to be in a relationship that quickly since he just broke up. If he thinks you are using this opportunity to get him or you are interested in him, he may try to avoid you. So this is your chance to start as a real good friend of his. If in the end, it is not meant to be, at least you can still be his good friend.
2006-11-09 17:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cool Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you can't be the next girl?
Spend time with him. Help him feel better about himself. Let him know you're interested in him. Maybe he doesn't have a clue. Most guys have blinders on when they're in love - they don't see the girl in the corner crying because he's with the wrong girl.
If you're scared to let him know, just be there for him. If he has any possible interest in you, it'll come naturally. If he doesn't have interest in you, then you need to walk away and find someone else for yourself. it's painful, but you'll feel better about it in the long run.
Good luck!
2006-11-09 17:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by grizabellamom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might want to pick love because riches are interesting for therefore long because that is interesting to be wealthy and then that is purely potential for figuring out to purchase a diverision to distract from the authentic emotions of melancholy, loneliness, bitterness, purely to call some..... Love is the starting up of each and every thing it really is solid and organic. Love is what everybody needs Love is what everybody desires Love is what God has for everybody God is Love
2016-11-28 23:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to treat him as a friend only and nothing more. Don't think of him as anything else. My last girlfriend I was with was one of my best friends for the longest time. She liked me and continued to try to get together with me aggressively until I gave in. After a couple years she was a bit controlling and so I had to dump her. Now we rarely talk. If he doesn't want to be with you and you continue to try to get together with him, you might just be pushing him away and could lose him as a friend.
2006-11-09 17:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Misterman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, the worst that can happen is he says no. At least then he will know your interested, it sounds like you have already made his decision for him.
-NmD!
2006-11-09 17:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaar abtum boodhi ho gaye ho old silly lilly gal
kuch hindi filmaine dekho idea jarror milega
2006-11-09 17:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a lot of attentions... with your honest attentions, i'm sure soon or later he will know how much you care of him..
2006-11-09 18:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋