2006-11-09 18:04:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well hmmm...I caught my husband of 21 years cheating...1st I told him you see my body- you will never touch this body again! 2nd I moved out & 3rd I Filed for Divorce! I gave him the house & everything in it - I didn't want any of the memories associated with it, I gave him the cars, all I took was my clothes and my sons and half our savings! I was more then fair cause I didn't want him to ever be able to say I took anything from him or let him be able to say I distroyed his life. I didn't ask for child support or alimony either. After the Divorce I got full custody of my sons & moved out of state & on with my life and watched him lose everything I gave him! The House, furniture, the cars, the money...the other woman!... everything "POOF" - GONE! He lost it all within 14 months of our Divorce all on his own! ***(I owned a new home, bought a brand new Truck , had plenty of money in the bank because I found a really great paying job all within the same 14 months.)***Now 7 years later he lives alone in a roach infested 1 bedroom apartment and his life keeps spiraling downward at his own hands. Then I remarried a really great guy 2 years ago and my life just keeps getting better. Now when I see my EX I ask him...Well how are you doing Keith? I let him know that our Sons & the grandkids are doing great & Then I ask Oh by the way I am just curious... was she worth it? Then I just walk away! Now that is how you get "ULTIMATE REVENGE" on your EX. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 07:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 02:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question;I caught my wife 3 different times.The last I couldn't.I moved out of the house and started all over.My heart was torn apart,but I didn't let anyone know it.Soon after I moved out she served me with divorce papers.I signed them and 6 months later it was final.I started over slowly just dating once in awhile.I went to Eharmony and found ladies that liked the same things I did.I dated for awhile and found a nice lady.I have been with her for 2 years now.She will not cheat on me she's just not that type of lady.It took awhile to find her but I did.You should try it Most my single friends have and all our happy.
I wish you the best I know how you must feel,just remember you are better off without him.Once a cheat always a cheat.They just can't stop once they do it.Look out for yourself make you the most important person in your life. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-09 19:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by plysocr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always thought the best revenge is to be above it -- show that you're the better person who won't stoop to his level.
Ann Landers always said you have to decide if you're better off with him or without him. So if your answer is without him, file for a divorce & get on with your life and use better judgment in selecting your next husband.
2006-11-09 19:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Judith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no better revenge then getting the hell out of that marriage
2016-04-26 19:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well back in the day my husband was cheating and I cooked everything I could possibly cook that gave him bad breath and gas.
When I made spaghetti I made big meatballs for him, medium for me and small ones for the children. He felt so special that I made him large papa sized ones.....but I laced his with so much garlic I couldn't sleep in the same room with him.
I cooked lots of cabbage dishes and Brussel sprouts and cold slaw and also cucumbers as they made him belch (not burp) for hours after, but he still ate them. Oh and raw onions in salad in cold slaw. Get him twice on the cold slaw. Hamburgers with garlic and onions....then go to curry dishes...and when you cook fish fry it but sweetly ask him to come talk to you in the kitchen and fry it hard so the fish smell gets in his hair and clothes for that evening..
if that doesn't work I also laced his condoms with Ben Gay. I would unroll (back then they came in little envelops) them and paint her side and let it dry and re roll and that was the hottest piece she ever got I'll bet
I figured if a woman wanted him bad enough and she would put up with his flatulence and breath she could have him.
Til the divorce I entertained myself doing these things.
Gee I'm out of practice and can't remember everything.
2006-11-09 18:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by onedot.darling 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
revenge? You could not do his laundry or cook for him.
Or put to much salt in his food or sprinkle itching powder in his shorts. LOL
Make him baby sit while you go shopping by yourself.
Make him sleep by himself.
Slip some salt peter in his drink. LOL (then he wouldn't be having a woody for awhile.)
Well, if he is doing this all the time I would not take it. I would tell him it was me or the highway. Why would you want someone who wants more than just you?
I wouldn't stoop to his level though. Your better than that.
2006-11-09 18:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-02-06 16:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Inge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have revenge on your cheating husband, by not cheating at all, if you will cheat too you will only destroy yourself, take revenge by forgetting about him and his whereabouts and living your life as happy , and as active as you can, make yourself more beautiful, more alive and vibrant, have new friends, decorate your life , make it feel happy and do not include him, if he sees that you are successful and happy without him,that will really make him think twice. and in return you would be better and happier,dont mind your husband he is not worth all this trouble instead improve yourself and your world, you dont need to prove anything to a cheating husband, but you could atleast make your life better
2006-11-09 18:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋
By moving on and not saying a word. You getting past him will be the last thing he'll expect.
2006-11-09 18:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by Leslie R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋