Heres the story--
I am 20 the guy I am seeing is 9 years older than me, which is not an issue we are both at the same points in life. The thing is when we go out in public he always ends up feeling bad people say things like "why is she with someone like you" or they give him wierd looks & random people we do not even know have even went as far as writing REALLY BAD stuff on his vehicle & jumping him with baseball bats when we left the movies. I modeled for several years so I am a pretty girl, he is very good looking too if you ask me but the thing is he is overweight & thats why people treat him this way. This is the first guy I have dated since my husband passed away & I want it to last. I have 2 children he doesn't have any but he really loves my children & treats them like they were his & we have a great time around the house with the kids.
Hes the perfect guy for me I don't want him to get hurt because of me anymore, what should I do? I don't want him to go away because of this!
2006-11-09 18:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by Hot Mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I modeled starting when I was 15. I got married when I was 16. I have 2 kids under the age of 2.
2006-11-09 18:17:45 · update #1
Opps under the age of 3. I hit the wrong number! lol
2006-11-09 18:20:09 · update #2
I get the same reacton when i go out with my husband
i too am overweight he is not
he is tall good looking and younger than i
some of tehe things that people say are really cruel
i try not to think about the things that i hear but it
really helps that my husband reassure me that he is here with me and no one else
we have made it work
with a little reassurance your man will overcome these cruel things that people say, as your relationship grows
2006-11-09 18:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by angels kids 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're 20, you modeled for a few years, have two childrens, and your husband pass away? I don't buy this. May be more realistic if you were 30.
2006-11-10 02:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Convince your friend that he needs to take an interest in protecting himself and those that he loves. You cant just continue to take punishment from criminals and let them get away with it. He needs to sharpen up on his self-defense skills, or obtain a concealed weapons permit in order to defend himself. Otherwise a move away from your city might be necessary.
2006-11-10 02:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why care what other people think? if they give him a dirt look get closer to him it alway bugs the crap out of people.if that dosen't workjust think that people are jeolous because he is a great guy and you desreve him.
2006-11-10 02:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by shorty_sarah_zamora 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe you should find someone who is a little closer to your age... if he's the first guy you've dated you shouldn't settle something better might come along.
2006-11-11 04:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i cant belive people are that shallow -that F$cking S7cks @ss
9 years is not that older
have him take krav maga
2006-11-10 02:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋