this really hot guy just broke up with his girlfriend and is now dating me. the old girlfriend used to be my best friend-but not anymore. should i be happy that im with him or be sad i lost a friends ship?
2006-11-09 18:35:39 · 18 answers · asked by coolness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys come and go, but good friends are forever.
How will you feel when you are the ex and he is dating whoever is your best friend now?
2006-11-09 18:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by gatheringplace2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your best friend then you should be sad about that, because friendships are what really matters, you never know about boyfriends or girlfriends, at least not until you get married and even then half of them end up divorced. But anyways, especially with your best friend, she must've been important to you to be your best friend right? If her frirendship means more to you then going out with this 'hot guy' then mend it, because unless this guy has more then just looks then it probably isn't worth a best friend
2006-11-10 02:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are both sad and happy, that is a sad feeling. does the x want him, she will never really trust you again, if you know he still has feelings for her that are deeper than for you, you might as well get rid of him now, he doesn't really care for no one but himself anyway, breaking up a best friends isn't a way to show you he cares. it would also depend on how long they went together also. take care of your own feelings right now, because no one else will from here on out. pray!
2006-11-10 02:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really sad that I lost my best friend. Boys come and go. But a great friendship is hard to find.
2006-11-10 02:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad you lost a friend. Dump the dude, be friends with your friend. Any guy who would date an exfriends already a scumb bag, and you for deserting your friend, don't rank high on a scale of good behavior either.
2006-11-10 02:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by jinxintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as true love in this world.If there was it would be .005% of the world. The most important thing in life is friendship. Without friends you'll live a sad life.
2006-11-10 02:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by chesscrazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believe that you should seriously consider wether this gl was truely your friend or not. if she is truely your friend you and her could have come to some way of deciding wether its a good or a bad deal. why are you dating him? becasue hes hot? that sounds vary selfish. so also consider wether it is worth waisting time on a relationship entirely based on appearance. that is were trust and pride and other verry inportant criteria will conflict the relationships you will have, not only with your friends but with your immediate relationships(boyfriends, girlfriends)
2006-11-10 02:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by ADHD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad that you lost your friendship.. Relationships come and go-- obviously look at what happened to your x friend.. Friendships should be there forever..
2006-11-10 02:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,i think that u should be both happy and sad but if ur friend had lost her boyfriend by her own fault,there is no need to be sorry for your friend,but if you think and you are feeling guilty that you have snatches your friend's boyfriend,you should faithfully patch them both together,but i think you should sensibly choose your answer from these two possibilities!
2006-11-10 02:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be concerned that you might be a rebound girl, (yes - even if he broke up with her.) or that he may be using you to try to hurt her feelings.
2006-11-10 02:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋