The woman I love is a lesbi@n and lives with her lover. I really love this woman and she told me that she might convert to bi with me if I do all her housework for her. Its been six months now and I she still doesn't let me kiss her above her ankles. I am getting really tired of cleaning her house and buying them dinner etc. Is there anything else I can do? I have already tried, chocolates, flowers, diamonds and poetry. I even told her I wouldn't mind sharing her if thats what she wants. Please help
2006-11-09 18:30:12 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mat babe....leave her and come to me. You don't deserve one like that...You can spoil me rotten and I wouldn't complain...I will make you do all my fantasy though, but not step on your dignity...
All my kisses, mmmmwwaaahh....
2006-11-09 20:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mat hunny, you need help. There are several girls out there who would die to have a man like you, and here you are throwing yourself away to two ungrateful sick lesbos. Don't do that, don't be a servant to those that don't love you, rather just move on.
It will hurt at first, and chances are that if you have played cinderella for this long, the two wicked lovers will call you back but dont listen to their, "oh we will love you this time" or even if Lesbo kisses you, DONT DO IT.
Find someone worth it. Someone who will treat you right. Someone who will love you the way that you love them.
I too am in the process of walking away from a guy who does me wrong and hey, Im single again, living life and enjoying every second of it.
2006-11-09 18:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way a person is going to change if they themselves decide they WANT to change, and that is only the first step, sounds like she is just using you for her chores and other things. My suggestion is to find a way to get over her and move on with your life, because even if she WAS bi to begin with she LIVES with her lover, what makes you think she'll choose you over them now? When all she has you doing is her chores, and buying her gifts, and won't even let you kiss her above her ankles....
2006-11-09 18:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Shi*t!??...So what else does it take for YOU to get the messege into your head that you should let go of her then?
Start having some self respect and move out and on with your life and find someone else unless you enjoy being used and day dreaming that there might still be a chance.
Good luck.
2006-11-09 18:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you see through a binoculars the events that take place in the adjacent bulildings after lights off!
Notice what is happening there!
Mostly she will understand and start cooperating!
If not, take back all your gifts either by hook or crrok and leave all your damaged matetrials, rags and leave the place or ask her to quit (incase the place belongs to you). You have to be very careful while you do it, your lawyer can assist you for such drastic step!
2006-11-09 18:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that can't be love. You shouldn't have to be buying her stuff and cleaning up after her in order to win her over. Honestly, you shouldn't have to WIN anyone over period. That put you on a rung lower than her. Even if you guys DID get together, she probably wouldn't respect you the way you'd like. Don't try to force it. If it's going to work it should be mutual from the start.
Then again, that's all my opinion. I might just be full of ****. However, I have seen Chasing Amy a couple of times. If you haven't, it's applicable and you should see it.
2006-11-09 18:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by J Bents 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel so sorry for you. She is using you BIGTIME. I know its hard but you need to forget about this woman. Its like me asking a gay man to become bi. He will never lose interest in his male mate even if i offered to clean his car!
Im so sorry to see you have been so hurt, but learn from this mistake and move on. There are plenty of other fish in the sea and she isnt even worth the love you want to share with her.
Good Luck and give your love to someone more deserving.
2006-11-09 18:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by gr33n_3y3d_grrl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she's using you so bad man and that's f/ucked i wouldnt buy anything else but a bottle of chocolate sauce and go get in bed with them lol either that or (there is a risk getting the cops called) catch her off guard sometime and grab her gently pulling her to you and if she lets you, kiss her a few times and see how she reacts but if she doesnt want to be pulled to you best bet would be to let go
2006-11-09 18:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by Brad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not have a million or so of money relating into the trillion of dollars, then catch a plane real fast. Otherwise you cannot convert her cause she will always keep this action going on cause man if she is a lesbian then she is out there.
2006-11-09 18:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't always get what you want. She dosn't like you or other guys so you have to live with it, she is probably laughing at how stupid you are acting; cleaning her house? Thats just sad.
You can't force anyone to do anything unless you put a gun to her head. She dosn't like guys and live with it, it was her choise.
2006-11-09 18:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man youre dreaming the impossible dream, but youre sweet and really a masochist at this point. youre already tired go love yourself first before any woman, or any lesbian out there, man save some for yourself, youre too drained, get out of there and try living a real life!!!
they are just using you, you cant change someone who doesnt want to change
2006-11-09 18:35:07 · answer #11 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋