I used to be a very open fun loving person but then I got hurt in a few relationships. Now Im always doubting/analyzing myself, and I constantly wonder if/how people are judging me. I can't even go on my myspace page sometimes because I don't want to change something that might make me look bad (I know that sounds stupid), and would rather remain a mystery.
2006-11-09 18:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have to remember your old self and how much fun you use to have. Women suck and can rip out the heart of any man. If anything they did not deserve you and you did not deserve to be treated the way you were and hurt so bad. There is so much to live for and eventually you will find a girl that deserves to be with a guy like you. I don't know you but everyone has somethingn special to offer, find out what that is and hold your head high. Be confident in yourself and everything else will fall into place.
2006-11-09 18:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find that fun loving person again! It won't be easy but it will be worth it to regain such a wonderful part of yourself.
Play the remember when game... remember when you made people laugh so easily? Relationships are tough and I'm sorry you had a couple of rough one's. Don't be afraid, try again because your sould mate is out there and looking for you too. You can only be happy if you remember who you are... Fun and Loving!!
Good luck!
2006-11-09 18:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by smilealot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't worry about what other people think about you and get your confiedence back as lack of it will show through your personality and you will not get far with anything or anybody in life as a "looser" personality is not very attractive to anybody or any situation....
Get going...c'mmon..
2006-11-09 19:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have a woman buddy because of the fact your afraid to look undesirable. Im particular you're a astounding guy or woman and any woman could be chuffed as much as now you in case you provide up putting your self down. No woman whats a guy with out self belief. you notice your self as a loser and so will individuals. you ought first of all the way you experience approximately your self. Low self-well worth - right this is what to do: Low self-well worth feeds on detrimental innovations so do not bask in self criticism. Why are you waging conflict against your self? examine self talk and silence your inner decide. you are able to % to delight your self that's solid to you care approximately others thoughts yet are not your desires only as significant? do not forget your self! do not attempt to be like somebody else. This finally ends up in loss of self well worth and self belief. you're unique and you will't be somebody else. try to enhance yet do not criticize your self for not being as effectual, proper, narrow or as common as somebody else. Take existence and your self much less heavily. Failure only ability you're actually not effectual yet. all of us fails previously succeeding, do not look on it as failure yet as a ability to studying. consistent with hazard you only desire a transformation of course. problems make you greater advantageous in case you are attempting to triumph over them. self well worth, self belief and assuredness boost once you concentration on your desires and desires. You should stay existence as you like. that's not selfishness as what you like does not harm others or preclude them from residing existence on their words. concentration on your successes. lack of self belief feeds on your thoughts of failure and inadequacy. bear in innovations the quite effectual issues you have carried out on your existence. reward your self once you do prevail. i'm hoping this enables
2016-10-21 14:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make yourself feel better when you value your own opinion of yourself higher then others'. In other words, who cares about what people thinks.
2006-11-09 18:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by chesscrazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jonj, the stupid!
Understand the surrounding before you open your $hitting mouth, otherwise, some other $hitting mouth will $hit over you!!
Always remember "Your self esteem is sitting in your mouth" !!
Take care!
2006-11-09 18:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i do the same thing! and no is not stupid.
2006-11-09 19:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by thatswhoIam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question?
2006-11-09 18:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋