2006-11-09 18:44:52 · 24 answers · asked by John F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i got over that a bit ago i got a nice gal but im tired of all my friends coming to me wondering why chicks are so disfunctional and im running out of answers quite franly
2006-11-09 18:54:23 · update #1
Because many girls have grown up in households that were abusive in some way (physically, emotionally, or sexually). They become "comfortable" with abusive treatment, and many come to associate pain with love. Other girls grew up with absentee fathers, so they end up with guys who are unavailable in some way.
2006-11-09 18:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by BeenThereDoneThat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is entire BS sorry. i'm sorry which you had a bad batch of girls folk on your courting background, yet no longer all women folk are like that. I mean, you're nevertheless fairly youthful, and the girls you date probable did no longer understand what they actually needed. once you're an adolescent, issues could properly be all approximately having somebody to be with purely for the sake of asserting you're in a courting. in some cases, you purely must be single till you findout who you particularly are. i'm able to assure you that no longer all women folk are the comparable. and that i'm hoping you do no longer decide the different lady you meet according to those you have had those stories with. that must be the incorrect thank you to think of. Edit: possibly the concern is with you. If the girls you have been courting tend to love jerkish habit and don't appreciate you, why could you proceed allowing them to take earnings? have confidence it or no longer, some women are purely after particular issues. and those look those you have been attracting. attempt to stumble on a woman.
2016-10-03 11:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by duchane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women like a bit of rough....some women also like to be treated like a lady, but bear in mind that being a nice guy you would also have to add some excitement to the relationship, and still do things to keep the woman's interest sparked, you only wont keep a woman if she loses interest in you, and if everything seems boring, and too predictable, and remember if you both have nothing in common it still wont work anyway.
2006-11-09 18:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I would understand this as well. I was a nice guy and lost a woman - she dumped me for what I believe was a man that smoked like a chimney and apparently was abusive.
I think what happened in my case was that she expected I would be everything to her and even in a good relationship the best guys can't always be everything within conscience. So she dumps one to try and find the missing components in the next man.
2006-11-09 19:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun, you have to relize that girls are scared of guys that treat them badly. My mother just got out of a horrible relationship with her ex-husband. He was abusive and a drunk, but he threatend her and told her she would pay; and you know where he is now? Jail. So girls are scared of guys that treat them like crap.
The nice guys, I have no idea why a girl would dump a nice guy, mabey they weren't her type or something but I am so gald I'm in a good relationship so I don't know why someone wouldn't.
2006-11-09 18:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's partily because the nice girls don't know guys are interested and think they're nice and someone to be with and nice guys, well that's because the girls that are mean and just want to use people find them easier to walk all over, unless you mean they can't keep the nice girls, in which case i think it would depend on that individual
2006-11-09 18:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find a good answer to this one, let me know! I've been wondering that for YEARS.
My theory: Girls are stupid and don't know what's good for them until after they've been treated like crap for many years and then wake up one day and they're 40 and in a crappy marriage and stuck with 4 kids to feed.
2006-11-09 18:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mister_Shhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murphy's Law.
I've known so many nice guys who go out with girls that are worthless, no good, using B****s.
Then they become emotionally damaged because of the bad relationships they had and no nice girls can even date them any more.
In short: It happens both ways.
2006-11-09 18:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get attached to a guy who hits them its very hard to explain. For someone that is not in the relationship its easy to say u need to leave this guy but u cant u see what no one else can see, u see the nice side of this person that in the depth of his heart he is a good man and he loves u
i was in a situation like that took me six years to get out of it
2006-11-09 22:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by Tiny T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is also men that do the same crap. i had bf's like that and guess what i became maean and o m g guys also like em when u treat them like crap..but to me thats a turn off because its letting me know that he really can't stand for himself..hang in there buddy ull meet someone that will truly love you for you and appreciate you. thats what keeps me going..
2006-11-09 19:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by thatswhoIam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋