Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

2006-11-08 07:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by Sir Gentleman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a unhealthy relationship where I am being played by my boyfriend and his female friend who I believe is sleeping with him. She also has a boyfriend but I feel that my boyfriend is just keeping me around until he develops a strong enought relationship with her or when she is free. There work out together, talk on im, phone. I want to break up with him very badly but I love him and feel totally obsessed with him cheating. I can't trust him because I feel it in my gut that he is cheating. I have no proof and this drives me crazy!!!! He told me he wantes me to trust him etc. etc. and that he cares does not want to break up but I can't take it anymore.
I was cheated on in my last relationship and this is just so devestating that it is happening again. but I feel like they are both laughing at me behind my back. I feel like such a fool

How can i break free without feeling the pain. How do I get out of this without having an emotional breakdown....I am just so tired of it all!!

2006-11-08 07:02:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you say it? With what kind of tone? This beautiful moment is important to any relationship. This is your first love, and it is the truest love ever. How would it be expressed and where?

2006-11-08 07:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by otter7 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 07:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, im stevie, im 24 and live in belfast in Northern Ireland and have done all my life, im lookin for women just to chat to as im sooo bored and and seems that everyday all i do is work and come home, with nothin else to do, i have pictures and am very open and honest, so if there are any takers, plz reply to me with yoiur e mail add, mine is steviehotlips@yahoo.com, and no...im not here lookin for secx chat at al!!!!! thank you for your time x

2006-11-08 07:01:09 · 2 answers · asked by steviehotlips 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well today at school i met sum1 i really really like and im pretty sure he likes me cuz we were playing a game as a class and we r on the same team and i was sitting diagnol of him and he kept staring straight into my eyes and he kept smiling at me...and then sumthing funny happened and he started laughing he looked right at me everytime he started laughing...im talking to 1 of his friends online right now and hes saying that he dosent like me but i kinda dont believe him cuz the kid i like is new too...and hes probally kinda embarresed to let a girl kno he likes her...hes really quite...just like me...and i dont kno who to believe my heart which is telling me he does like me but i also dont want to get heartbroken...or do i believe his friend?who is telling me that he dosent like me...im so confused and kinda sad cuz i really really like him more than any other guy i have ever liked...and i really want him to like me and i just really like him and i want him to like me!please help!

2006-11-08 07:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I have loved this guy for 5 years. We met in high school, and I have always cared for him. 3 months ago we had lunch and he said he would always care for me. But he was staring deep into my eyes and I could not help but to feel in love again. Should I tell him I feel this way, before he gets married or should I just try to move on?

2006-11-08 06:59:37 · 27 answers · asked by Tali07 2 in Friends

2006-11-08 06:59:23 · 13 answers · asked by NENA 1 in Singles & Dating

I kissed a friend and after a week told my boyfriend, he says we are over, how do I win him back and convince him it was just one drunken mistake that won't happen again.
He just won't listen to anything I say, but I am desperate for this to work out.
Any advice would be much appreciated.

2006-11-08 06:58:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my man for 1 1/2 years and we are thinking about moving in together. Lately I've been more possessive and jealous. Is this normal? How do I stop? I don't really have any reason to be jealous, he treats me great and has never cheated on me. My last bf cheated on me twice and we had a really bad relationship. I don't want to mess things up now bc of my past history. Any suggestions for how I can stop myself from being so jealous and possessive? HELP!!!

2006-11-08 06:58:06 · 38 answers · asked by Bridal Shower 1 in Singles & Dating

Typically what is the price range for a dj/MC for a wedding reception cost ( about 5 hours). I want to see if Im overpaying...(It is NY)

2006-11-08 06:57:41 · 4 answers · asked by sugarfree_eyes 2 in Weddings

You will all judge me for this. I was seeing my best friends step son for about a year. I'm 30 and he is 18. I know its a bad connection but isn't it up to us if we like eachother?

2006-11-08 06:57:38 · 7 answers · asked by hornyheluk 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, here I go. My parents trusted me with their place and I had a party there and my parents came home three hours earlyer than expected. BUSTTED! Everyone freezes and looks at them. My dad yells "anyone still here that don't belong here in fourty seconds I'm shooting them in the leg." Everyone (includeing me) ran for the door. My dad caught me by the hair (ouch) and pushed me onto the floor and said don't even get up (double ouch). mean while people where still running through the door, kicking me, and I can't even move with out crying.

2006-11-08 06:57:18 · 14 answers · asked by lill_angel_07_88 3 in Family

2006-11-08 06:56:58 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right...about 2 years ago i had a affair with my wifes best friend..we ran away together to Yorkshire ( Her choise , Not mine ) to rent a New Home for us and her 3 Children ( i left mine , and im not proud of it )... anyway , time passed ( a 2 month affair ) and iv been back with my wife and children....
But last week my wife gets a phone call from "My Ex" saying sorry..!..and that she still wants to be friends..! ...My wife talks for over 2 hours on the phone... She is now "Getting Married " and is " As Happey as ever"..... So why is she calling if she is so Happy..???

Why after all this time has she called us....???
Is she wanting something else..? ( Revenge ..? )
To cause a Row between me and my wife..?
To make me fell jelouse...?
She always told me that she would never forget me...!!!
Now i cant stop thinking of her , Just when things were good with me and my wife , This Has came back to "Haunt" me...

Your Thoughts Guys / Girls

2006-11-08 06:56:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was abused by my Dad as a Child and attacked by a boy in College. I also had a man stalk me from the age of 12-19. I have a very hard time trusting men but I am ready to be involved in a relationship with a good guy. Any advice on trust issues and how to overcome them.

2006-11-08 06:55:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girls who I like two months ago and now we're quite good friends. I'm not sure I love her nevertheless I want to try it. So, what's the next step? What should I do?

2006-11-08 06:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by Pavel 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 6+ years. My husband and I are roommates more than life partners and have been pretty much since we moved in together. He is also an alcoholic which has *always* been a problem for us. We have both cheated in the past (I almost left him last year for someone else). I never cheated on any boyfriends or lovers before then -- I never thought I could do that to someone -- but I was so unhappy at the time... I still am. I have been thinking about leaving for a while.

Problem: I met someone new recently through a mutual friend, and I have a HUGE crush on him. He is recently separated; he knows I am unhappily married. He said he plans to enjoy being single for a while until he meets someone he could get serious with. But the other night we spent some time alone together and ended up making out (no intercourse, but... !).

Question: I'm falling hard for this new guy. But by being a "friend w/ benefits", have I already blown any chance for a future relationship?

2006-11-08 06:55:29 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah, so I've been talking to this guy for 9 months and I really like him. He also likes me too. But the deal is, we met on-line and we live far apart from each other. I really want us to be a couple. But the problem is....I'm afraid of this and that.....and I haven't been on the dating scene in a while. What should I do?

2006-11-08 06:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like what do i do? like what does a guy like a girl to do to him...details please

2006-11-08 06:54:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 06:54:16 · 17 answers · asked by runninlate421 1 in Singles & Dating

can you give examples please of things that have REALLY wound you up, and what you did about it

2006-11-08 06:54:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would you fall out over it or have a threesome?

2006-11-08 06:53:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-08 06:53:01 · 4 answers · asked by Sierra B 1 in Singles & Dating

* we've been married for a few months but dating for a few years
* I have a B.A. but work for my father-in-law so job security is no issue
* he has < 2 years of school to finish so we can have 2 salaries instead of one
* we own our own home & aren't struggeling with bills
* my mom does child day care and will watch my children for little -no cost
* I'm ready yesterday and he wants to wait a year so he'll be done school by the time the baby is born.

What do you think? I'm just curious. He's stubborn so I know we'll be waiting until he's ready no matter what.

2006-11-08 06:51:28 · 34 answers · asked by autumn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My therapist says that it is worthwhile to save abusive 12 year marriage because of the history and we have 2 small kids. I told her that I want to leave and she's telling me that I am giving up too easily (we've only been to her twice). I feel that I can't take it anymore and it is not worhtwhile to me. I don't think he'll really change his core, just his behavior for awhile. I am in so much pain because of his verbal and emotional abuse that I go back and forth from strong to weak like I believe I am a stupid, ignorant, worhtless ***** who should drop dead from diabetes. That my kids are so unlucky to have a mother like me, etc. I have a place to go(my mom's), until I get on my feet again. He tells me not to say a word about his 'people', but they can curse me out and he does nothing and agrees with them . I have to make a decision, but therapist is confusing me. She says he doesn't really mean what he says he just is acting from his littleness. What do you think? I'm confused!

2006-11-08 06:49:36 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so to get this clear before I write this, these, what I am asking you to write they ARE NOT for me. I just want to see what you can come up with.

Write a love letter or poem that is really lovey gushy all that stuff for....
a girl with brown eyes
wavy brown hair

2006-11-08 06:49:16 · 14 answers · asked by Sandy 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been trying so hard to get guys to notice me. But every time I try to do that I start to feel that I'm to ugly for them or that I'm not good enough why is this?

2006-11-08 06:49:13 · 18 answers · asked by megan s 2 in Singles & Dating

He calls one of them more often than I would like and she used to be married to a man that we know, I am not usually a jealous person but something does not feel right with this! Please help.

2006-11-08 06:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by SDP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I was wondering what you guys might think. I need advice... Here are some details: I'm married, no children, the house is my dad's, we help him with the mortgage.
So what happened was that there were some repairs that needed to be done inside my house, that's why mom was in my house. She was with the repair man. They were in my living room, they needed to move the dining room table, and accidentally knocked over a glass my husband left on the floor. She called me to tell me about it. I got upset, first because I had no idea she would be in my house, and second because of the glass. My mom frequently goes inside my house. It might be to use the bathroom , or sometimes she just goes in cause she's thirsty, and sometimes she cleans some dirty dishes I might have there, or take out my garbage. I appreciate all these things that she does for me, and I don't want to hurt her feelings. Thus why I hadn't said anything.My husband doesn't like this too much. I am just being stupid?

2006-11-08 06:48:35 · 14 answers · asked by miamiorange00 2 in Family