2006-11-08 06:53:01 · 4 answers · asked by Sierra B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not and never will cheat on him in any way he is my only love and it hurts to think he is so insecure with me i dont know what to do people tell me to leave but that is not an option i dont know how to reassure him and would love to hear some options.
2006-11-08 06:56:58 · update #1
he is not cheating on me. i know this he is just insecure.
2006-11-08 06:58:00 · update #2
we have been over and over and over this so many times for so many months i love him so much i will deal with this as long as i have to to be with him but its so depressing i dont know what to do
2006-11-08 07:00:57 · update #3
i dont have friends or hang with anyone which is not a problem for me he is my light i love him more than everything and anything i know it is codependant and not the most healthy thing i am fine with my isolation but not fine with his insecurity and comments about my "dates" cause they are with my mom or work, im a hair stylist.
2006-11-08 07:14:58 · update #4
i reassure i am allways available i try not to get to mad at him i just want him to be happy even if it cant be with me.
2006-11-08 07:20:44 · update #5
when i tell him im not cheating on him he says im lyeing to him
2006-11-08 07:55:39 · update #6
he really doesnt have any reason to wonder about meim constantly thiking about what it will be next that he is going to accuse me of and how i can help him feel better
2006-11-08 08:25:40 · update #7
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
2006-11-08 06:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sticky place to be put in my guess is that he has been cheat on before and you hang with your Friends without him and probably have allot a guy Friends or you cheated on someone to be with him. I could be wrong but I doubt it.
There is nothing you can do at this stage it will always be in the back of his mind which means you guys will not make it most likely sorry but I speak from ex. If you want to try to keep him (which is not the best thing in the long run but you probably don't care) Just try to not bring it up he will so try to ease his mind don't get offensive when he does let him know how you feel that you would not do that etc. Also you may try to find out why he feels that way. You know it could be that he has or wants to cheat on you or be with someone else which is why I say not to try but I don't know you so I would expect nothing but what I have seen which is you'll try an make it work
2006-11-08 15:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Since birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels this way, because past relationships with females have always not worked because of cheating and he still feels as though it could happen again. He probably knows deep inside that you are really good to him and would never cheat but when you go through someone cheating over and over it makes you think that its gonna always happen. Maybe you should sit down and talk to him about it, tell him that you cant change what has happened in his past, but you are his future and you can be there for him now. Make him know that there is noone else you want to spend your life with but him. If that doesnt help, he will come around when he realizes that you are the best thing in his life. GOd bless you.
2006-11-08 14:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i feel that way too sometimes. my girl makes me wonder i mean i've been cheated on before. alot. and he probably feel like me he just doesn't want to be hurt again. he;s just worried. just check in with him often while you're out only go out with the friends of yours that he thinks he can trust. don't do anything ever to make himthink that you;re going to cheat on him. just talk to him about it. you just have to re assure him and make him feel confidant within himself and about you.
2006-11-08 15:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋