Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

ok so i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and im trying to break them up so how do i get them to break up and him to go out with me?

2006-11-08 06:19:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want someone that will like me for who i am not what i look like i will be the best girlfriend that u can find. I have reddish brownish hair, glasses right now but fixing to get contacts pretty soon, brown eyes, freckles, big boobs and a big butt, 5''3, 190lbs

2006-11-08 06:19:00 · 2 answers · asked by sara c 1 in Singles & Dating

one is 14 the other is 17 how do i stop them from argueing all the time.
(I will not kill them tho)

2006-11-08 06:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I MOVED IN TO MY BEST FRIEND'S PARENT'S HOUSE ABOUT 3 1/2 MONTHS AGO I MADE IT VERY OBVIOUS I WAS ONLY STAYING UNTIL I GOT ON MY FEET AND COULD GET A PLACE OF MY OWN AND I PAY RENT @ THEIR HOME. AFTER I MOVED HER OLDER BROTHER AND I GOT REAL CLOSE THAN STARTED DATING AND WERE IN LOVE NOW YA SOON I KNOW BUT WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR LIKE 15 YEARS. I'M READY TO MOVE OUT IM ON MY FEET AND STABLE AND HE AND I ARE VERY SERIOUS AND WE HAVE DECIDED TO MOVE IN TOGETHER. WE ARE TO MOVE IN, IN 15 DAYS HIS MOM IS VERY ANGRY WITH US NOW...SHE IS AGAINST ANY OF HER CHILDREN MOVING OUT SHE WANTS THEM TO STAY @ HOME HE IS 24 AND HAS NEVER BEEN ON HIS OWN BESIDES 2 YEARS @ COLLEGE THAN MOVED BACK HOME I'VE BEEN ON MY OWN SINCE 18. I DON'T WANT HER TO NOT LIKE ME SHE'S LIKE A MOTHER TO ME AND I'M SO THANKFUL FOR EVERYTHING BUT IT'S TIME TO START OUR LIVES TOGETHER ALONE. I JUST WANT HER TO UNDERSTAND PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-08 06:17:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend is receiving email from a friend of her, he says he loves her and all that stuff. I haven't read those emails but my girl says that she is totally tired of him, because he keeps sending love stuff and all.
Then this guy really wants to marry her.
Folks, I love her, we have plans, but this guy wants to come down town (he lives 400 miles away) with a ring and the whole wedding thing... so my girl wants to talk with him about it, but what should I do?... Just watch to see what happens??.. give me some advise pls thank you.

2006-11-08 06:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by Gabriel Rome 2 in Singles & Dating

friends that talk to you and ignore you after that

2006-11-08 06:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How does a girl know when she starts going out with a guy the guy wants to start having sex or start doing stuff ? Like what are some sign or things he may want u to start thinking he wants it?

2006-11-08 06:17:02 · 5 answers · asked by ~::~Ariana~::~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am i n college and my group consists of 3 boys including me and this girl. I kinda like her and we travel together(she li ves near my house). In college my group tries to go everywhere together.
But i recently got to know from another girl in my class that she had a crush on one of my friends. I could not believe it coz i told her everything abt my past, including my crushes and all but she never ever told me this vital thing, we r in friendship for almost a year. although she said the crush is over and she just considers him as a friend but i m very hurt and unable to trust her now, but i cannot break my group because of this as it is important coz my other two guy friends are nice people. But i m unable to be my own because i m unable to trust her, and now i m insecure about her. wat should i do? believe her and maintain status quo? or break the group and go my way?

2006-11-08 06:16:50 · 10 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

HI, im not asking any of you for any money, but my daugter is due to fly to America for some treatment. She needs a boost of confidence. you can all help by signing her shout box with word of encourgement. you can get to katies site by visiting www.fightingforkatie.co.uk and then click katies web site. please pass on to as many people as possible as its my aim to get her many messages. please no horrible ones she is a very poorly girl. thank you all so much

2006-11-08 06:16:32 · 15 answers · asked by vanessajanecroft 1 in Family

Hollywood preaches love marriages (in every song and every movie) but doesn't love marriage mean "understandings in both sides to help and support themselves" and "sacrifice freedoms from both sides to nourish their love and the future of their children?" How does Hollywood-love-fever affects you and how is it affecting the new generation? Are these man made gods and goddesses flying high because of our craziness for them? or has the love really lost its meaning in the clouds of sex and fame????

2006-11-08 06:15:38 · 9 answers · asked by umeshzun 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are going out for drinks...

2006-11-08 06:15:33 · 25 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 06:15:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i no dat wen u pull a girl u kiss her, but wot do u do 2 her??

2006-11-08 06:14:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 06:14:37 · 5 answers · asked by help you 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out from a friend, but that friend could be wrong. I can't really tell him how I found out because then it will cause fights. HELP!

2006-11-08 06:14:00 · 24 answers · asked by R.F. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have noticed a lot of bad relationship questions and had to jump in on it. Now, if some one is cheating on who, and this person let the other person have sex with that one, and he didn't tell her because she was drunk but he can tell she remembers something when she is sober, my question is are these people really messed up or are they just normal like me?

2006-11-08 06:13:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I knew this guy 4 a long time since like third grade. i just stareted talking to him in my softmore year and he is a senoir. I was going out with his best friend but didnt really like him.I knew i wanted to be with my senoir friend.So my senior friend started to get intimate with me even though i was with his best friend. we kissed and every thing! After i broke up with his best friend staarted taliking 2 this other guy that i soon fell in love with we talke about every thing i was so happy being with him. Then i started talikng back to the senoir and i ended up cheating on him.now the boy i fell in love with cant trueust me even though he knew i still loved the senoir.we broke up and he moved on . what now

2006-11-08 06:12:45 · 9 answers · asked by detroit princess 1 in Singles & Dating

OK.... He has NOT ever been a part of this child's life, and vice versa. He signed the birth certificate thinking the child was his but the baby was born 7 months into the relationship weighing in at a healthy 9 1/2 lbs. My bf thinking this was odd seeing as how they had only been together 7 months began asking questions and the woman admitted that he wasnt the father. Because he had signed the certificate the state of Maine helf him liable for child support. The mother sent in a letter to a department of human services hearing stating that he was not the father. He was under the impression that after the hearing all was resolved, once realizing it wasnt his attempts to remedy this have fallen on DHS'S deaf ears. Do I think he was stupid for signing the certificate when in doubt? ABSOLUTELY. however he did and now I am trying to help him out of a problem that could happen to anybody. This woman is still collecting child support knowing he is not the father, isnt this fraud?

2006-11-08 06:12:39 · 3 answers · asked by amierob2005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are their major differences. Yes I understand the individual differences are whats important but I am not stereotyping. Just generalizing.
How they are different? in terms of behaviors and manners and such..
whats your perspective on this?
I am asking about the MANNERS AND BEHAVIORS, OR CULTURES..please dont give me sexual sh!t
thank you

2006-11-08 06:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ordered my wife from a multinational company and didn't notice until after our honeymoon from Cancun that my wife had a weird squiggly tattoo on her rear end. I thinks it says "PROPERTY OF GYORGI" in Russian or something! This morning there was a dead cat on the porch and I'm afraid we're going to get kicked out of our apartment.

2006-11-08 06:11:34 · 10 answers · asked by Lloyd B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been a long distance relationship which was tough because i really loved the girl. now for some reasons of doubts coming from both ends we ended breaking up. we have both suffered a hard time because the love is still strong. she started partyin', became a very popular girl where she lives and she's met different people and she seemed to have moved on. i have tried to do the same but it wasnt that easy and i stall haven't moved on, i still love this girl. recently we met online and she told me that she met this perfect rich dude and that she was happy. i felt my heart cut in half with nothin to do to fight this. i believe she doesnt want me anymore. what should i do to forget about her and move on as well? i dont wanna hold on to the past all the time and miss on other opportunities. please i need some serious advices, no jokes or insults or immature comments please. serious and people who have gone thru the same ONLY can answer.
Thanx

2006-11-08 06:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by kaydub2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Wanting to get married but have obstacles !!!

2006-11-08 06:10:13 · 14 answers · asked by emanon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I were living in a larger town with lots to offer and I had a great job. After we had a baby, we moved to a very small town to be near family and I gave up my job. My husband still has his job, but I am very unhappy with my new one. Things aren't working out as well as I'd hoped and I've been thinking about moving back to our old town a lot. My husband doesn't want to think about it since we've already moved here. I'm not sure what to do. How do you know when moving is the right decision? What factors should it be based on?

2006-11-08 06:10:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why you looked through it, what would you say? Truly, I just wanted to be nosey. I need to take his cell to be repaired, so I have it with me. OF COURSE I looked through it, and I wont lie about that (if he even asks). I noticed he was deleting stuff before giving it to me.. ALL texts, and some pics. (which was questionable- he tried to play it off, but I didnt ask about that) I was sure that he'd deleted anything that he thought I'd feel uneasy about, so I figured anything left in the phone would be ok for me to look at. The only thing I saw was his call history and contacts list. We swapped phones for the day (I didnt have to "edit" MY phone before giving it to him) & I wouldnt care if he looked through mine. What do you think? Just for the record, we are both in our early 20's and the relationship is considered to be "serious".

2006-11-08 06:09:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's so uncomfortable and annoying everytime these backstabbers come and say hi to you and put up those fake smile as if we're the greatest friends on earth. They thought you didn't know what they did to you behind your back but you knew.

2006-11-08 06:09:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have already decided to save sex for marrige, but what if one day i get caught in the moment, and i have sex (with my boyfriend, not just some guy i meet) and he sees me naked, and thinks that i am ugly, (i am not fat-fat, but not skinny either, more of an average...) and in turn we loose the relationship that we had. no, this has not happend, i am a virgin, and will do my best to remain one until i wed, but there are moments, when we look at the promises that we have made to our selves, and wonder.... i know that this is another reason that i should obstain from sex, and just want to know your thoughts on this one.

2006-11-08 06:08:11 · 14 answers · asked by freshman_no_longer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 06:07:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-08 06:07:04 · 13 answers · asked by piyush 1 in Friends

My 14 year old step daughter continues to steal from me, and I am starting to lose my mind! All of us (her father, myself, and her) are going to therapy & family therapy, she is seen regularly by a doctor (for meds), and has a support team at school. We have tried rewarding her when she is doing well, and we follow through with the consequences when she acts out. She steals everything from make-up, to lingerie (I am an XL and she is a S!) to shoes. She lies all the time. She won't do her homework. She calls her father horrible names and has stolen money from him. We have started locking our bedroom door, but then she just roots through other things of mine in the house. She has been through EVERY box and item I own. She has stripped me of all my privacy. She is getting to the point where she won't even apologize anymore. Her father and I are working well together, but it is putting a lot of stress on us, and we don't know what to do anymore. Can anyone give me any help?

2006-11-08 06:06:08 · 18 answers · asked by Betsy 2 in Family

Salam,
I wanted an advice about my marriage.
I'm a 19 year old guy, and i got married to a 34 year old lady. She was previously divorce and she has 2 childrens, plus she was a christian and she was converted at the time of marriage. But she never learned any prayers nor she believed on the tarika of islam. She was working at that time when we got married, and i told her that i'm not settled yet, so she told me that i will take of things myself and i will earn. I thought that would be ok, she is mature and more experienced she will handle things herself, as for me it might take some time to grow up. But suddenly she left her job after she got preganant, and all the responsibility was thrown on my shoulders, now i dont have enough qualification nor m i earning that much...so i can't pay her house rent and one more thing I never brought her to my house nor my parents or her parents were involved in our marriage. So i cant pay her rent nor m i able to take care of her food and medicines at this time. This is her 6th month. Sometimes I feel she used me...because she changed after getting pregnant, She was alone and she wanted a child, and when she lost interest in my she was changed. Now she is demanding money from me. I dont how to pay that much amount of money every month..I very tensed, She changed after getting pregnant, I feel she is very clever. Well, I need a solution. Please help me out.I'm stuck. Because neither i have any property. This 4 months of marriage has been a hell for me.....I thought something else and things turned out to be really different. now she acts like very cruel woman. She has went out of limits and she also told me that do watever..sell your mom or your brother..but i want money. do you think any respectable or good woman will ever use such a word ? I think she is heartless human being..Who is self centered and doesn't care about my problems at all. Please help me out. EAch day of my life has been like hell.I want divorce.....

2006-11-08 06:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by zohaib_48 1 in Marriage & Divorce