It's so uncomfortable and annoying everytime these backstabbers come and say hi to you and put up those fake smile as if we're the greatest friends on earth. They thought you didn't know what they did to you behind your back but you knew.
2006-11-08 06:09:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop being friends with those hookers! Seriously! Just ignore them completly, when they say hi, dont waste your breath and say "hi" back because you know its a complete lie. When they walk by you, just pretend like you dont see them. Find some true friends, friends who wont backstab you, friends that are real and honest, and friends that are genuinly good people, there are tons of them out there. If they were really your friends, they woulnt be doing this in the first place, drop these losers.
2006-11-08 06:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boo let me be the first to tell you anyone you catch talking behind your back is fake and you don't need them in your life. If these so called friends are letting certain individuals talk about you , you should cut them off because if they were your real friends they would defend you on the spot never mind any of the drama or B.S. remove phony people from your circle and I'm sure you'll have more reasons to smile
2006-11-08 06:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by light skinned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of them they are not really your friends if they talk about you behind your back there is a big difference between friends and associates a true friend is more like family. Females expeacially are famous for talking about there so called friends in life you may find in the end you have very few "FRIENDS". Not saying not to hang with these associates but just be aware of their actions and and expect them to do what they do.
There is a saying that people are put in your life for a reason ...
Sometimes its just for a season and occassionally its a lifetime.
2006-11-08 06:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they talk behind your back what makes you think they are your friends? Everyone needs friends but if that`s the best you can do then you may be better off on your own. Find some new people to make friends with.
2006-11-08 06:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't being friends but backstabbers,why are you still friends with them?Leave them,find people that care about you and like you for who you are.Stop wasting your time with these people.People like that I've confronted with their behavior and usually moved on.True friends don't treat each other like that or trash each other.Chances are they are probably doing it to each other not just you.And the first ones to whine when it comes back to them,they can dish it out but usually can't take it.My advice,don't play the game and simply move on.You deserve better.
2006-11-08 06:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally confront them and ask them why they felt that they had to talk behind your back and could not say it to your face. I would ask that they lose false smiles and gestures of kindness because they are obviously not a very good friend and then I would stay away from them.
2006-11-08 06:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you let them do it without saying any thing you deserve everything they say about you. But a real lady confronts drama ina sophisticated way. that will shut haters the f*ck up.9 times out of 10 they are not your friends anyway!
2006-11-08 06:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Scooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk bad about them to their face I don't get uncomfortable, I love the fact at seeing them get uncomfortable at the fact that they don't intimidate me with their two faced back stabbing ways I love calling em out because their jaws usually drop and they start to stutter it's fun really.
2006-11-08 06:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by MOVING 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't your friend if she talks about you so I agree get new friends. And tell them by the way I know you B itches were talking about me.
2006-11-08 06:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few things
talk to them and see if they lie to your face. if they lie to your face tell them they are so low class you will not even argue with them, but you will not be friends with them any more
there are many other people out there, that are looking for new friends
go
leave them
good luck
smile
2006-11-08 09:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋