one is 14 the other is 17 how do i stop them from argueing all the time.
(I will not kill them tho)
2006-11-08 06:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hiya! Even adult siblings argue so don't worry. It's natural. Teenagers are worse as they are trying to find their own identity. All you can do is sit them down and explain how difficult they are making everyone's life. It is possible to step in sometimes and help them find a solution to their issue but you won't stop the arguing. My brother and I argued our whole lives but when he died aged 34, my world fell apart. Grit your teeth and remind yourself it's normal. Girls in particular seem to fight! Good luck! xx
2006-11-08 13:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you ever seen Heartbreak Ridge?
maybe you should try the Clint Eastwood option..I don't mean making them yomp for 20 miles a day carrying a backback full of kit (though that might actually work if you get desperate)
be strict but fair on them both and then they will be united by a common enemy and be forced to band together...hopefully.
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2006-11-08 06:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a little chat with them. Tell them your feelings about them fighting, they could begin hurting each other physically if you don't take control soon.
2006-11-08 06:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dat's normal for sisters especially to do. my lil sis an i fight all the time but when she's in trouble i got her bac. y not make work together without them knowin....might work or jus ignore an let them blow off steam
2006-11-08 12:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in the fight with them and see if you can get them to turn against you rather than each other. spanking always works, otherwise video take them fighting and threaten to post on youtube and then tell all their friends about it. shame works best!
2006-11-08 06:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got 3 boys. But maybe you should tell them HOW much it's upsetting you, & how they need to grow up & behave, so you can be proud of them. Oh I wish I had a least one girl. I'm so jealous, but GOOD LUCK.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-11-08 07:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by tildypops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ground them, or just ignore it, they;re sisters, they are going to fight almost constantly. besides, in a yr or 2 the other one will be going to college or working so it wont be so bad.
2006-11-08 06:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them fight it over then if that dont lock themin ther room and dont let them out untill thay aree to act there age and that all i know
trust me i got a sis and that what my dad did it works
2006-11-08 06:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by VKF Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are still young kids....give them time when they grow up they will end up loving eachother and laughing at all the things they fought about back in there teen days
2006-11-08 06:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age, it's almost impossible...unless you are able to get them to join forces against you. That promotes comraderie...but it kind of sucks for you.
2006-11-08 06:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by benjilove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋