Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

the prob is i wont be der on my bf's b'day.. i wanna surprise him in advance. we'll have to meet on sum public place since we both stay in hostel wid frnds. can anybody sujjest me wat surprise can i give him??? or wat kinda gift can i give him?? my budget is around 1000 Rs. pls do help me sunn

2006-11-08 17:15:33 · 16 answers · asked by diku 1 in Singles & Dating

The front row of a Willie Nelson concert.

2006-11-08 17:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what it is, but women tend to go FAST with me.. we go out on a date twice, and shes in my room making love to me... I dont know, I guess theirs nothing left to talk about the next day. I guess I get bored then.. what should I do? I mean I french kiss the first date, and maybe have some petting... am I right here? I just thought that would be a good start in the dating process.. Anyway, if you can tell me the best dating process I would appreciate it. My friends tell me that I treat women as Trophies.. I dont think so, i want a relationship... I just am very picky...

2006-11-08 17:13:25 · 5 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 17:11:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been living in the south for about 4 years and I have not encountered this so called southern hospitality. People have been mean to me. I find it harder to make friends. People don't make any effort to get to know you even if you try to get to know them. Everyone talks behind your back and acts like they have nothing against you when your with them. The people are so two -faced. I don't know who to trust. People always have an excuse for their actions. People also like to jump to conclusions without even knowing the facts. I've heard a lot of bad things about up north but when I lived up north I never felt like this. Can anyone agree???

2006-11-08 17:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Friends

2006-11-08 17:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by stacy 1 in Singles & Dating

I often wonder.. .....Can you help me understand?

2006-11-08 17:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by GV 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

first i said to him i love him after thrree months he too told me he loves me too and we talk about our marriage now he is going farway from me i send him mail and ask him if he wants to marry me and love me truly mail me on wednesday but this day came and go he frequently check his inbox on wednesday.
it means he flirted with me i suffered alot because of him i m so weak i cant teach him a lesson i dont want to take revenge i want him back or tell me some tips that i can ignore him.maybe he turn back.i also madeup my mind not to marry in the whole of my life
i m muslim want to learn about religion tell me wat can i do
. moreover i dont want to impress him i just want to abstain myself from love wedding thing.i m a typical girl i feel so much pain two years a long time everything i remember wat he said now wat i say to him but u told me i m not begging for reasons i dont wanto move on like all ppl say i want him back give me tips

2006-11-08 17:08:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A couple: She loves him with all her heart & soul and would never think about breaking his heart. They have a baby but aren't married. He has never found a girl that would be faithful like her. He used to be a player and got his heart broken in a very sad way. He thinks of this girlfriend as the love of his life, his soulmate. They are so in love. But, he constantly accuses her of cheating on him and thinks bad about her and gets all mad. Then, he goes back because he realized he is trippin' and he apologizes. She is so in love and forgives him. How can she make him trust her and believe that she would never break his heart? What does she do?

2006-11-08 17:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by 1love 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I find out what my husband has been doing behide my back on the computer

2006-11-08 17:06:13 · 21 answers · asked by phatgirl194 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i have alot of feelings for this girl, at first it went great when i introduced myself to herm but then ever since then i think i have come on too strong.. she has a good personality, quiet, and my is she gorgeous. i think i need to go back to the friend direction with her so that i can get to know her more and therefore have her be more comfortable with me rather than me keep pushing thigns to happen and end up getting ticked off because things arent working and i get stressed over it. shes really cool, i just at least want to be her friend right now, because when she talks its just really fun relating things with her, but yeah, what can i do now to reverse my coming on too strongness and go towards the friend area so things would be less awkward? k thanks alot in advance =D
p.s. she and i are somewhat the "kinda-shy" before u get to know type.

2006-11-08 17:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by Joktan 2 in Singles & Dating

Explain.

2006-11-08 17:04:23 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've always loved this one chick. she is only a friend right now, not even a very close one, but i am still in love with her. i walk with her to class everyday and i love being with her. i dont know if i should risk asking her out because if she says no it'll just make everything weird

2006-11-08 17:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a unbelievebly frustrating situation. my girlfriend of 8 years broke up with me about 2-3 months ago. she told me that she had been seeing other people off and on for years and prior to breaking up with me she was in a relationship in which she had boken off and she had gotten pregnant by accident. and to top it all off, she told me all of this on the internet. 8 years of a relationship and i get told online. even though our relationship was long distance for the moment, that is not a excuse. i was faithful, i didnt cheat. she didnt have to ethier. but whats really sad is we communicated almost everyday. she went from being a super nice and undertstanding person to a extemeley moody off and on type of personality. whenever i asked her if she was seeing other people and if she wanted to move on, she exploded and made it sound like i had no right to ask her that and that our relationship was ok and she wasnt cheating, but in reality she was

2006-11-08 17:02:41 · 5 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-08 17:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need good advice only. Ok here goes...
My husband's brother just got into big trouble I'm talking court involved. Anyways he is an adult(18) & still lives with mom, she is at her wits end with him & is ready to kick him out. So big bro wants to help. He would have to transfer schools, & live with us. It scares me because he smokes carelessly, I'm afraid he will burn my home down. Also he steals & drinks, not to mention does or has done drugs. I want to help out family, but I don't want to lose my home, or stress out over this person. He has no job & everyone we find is not good enough for him, he has no car, has been caught drinking & doing drugs. If he moves I want to set rules like no smoking in the house, no friends over unless supervised, 9 o' clock cerfew, & a 30 day altamadem to get a job & start paying rent & utilities. Am I being overly b***** about this? Or should I just tell my husband sorry, but no. He is a big family man & I know this would crush him.

2006-11-08 17:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by maximus 2 in Family

2006-11-08 17:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing...its a funky situation. First of all, I dated a guy for 2 years. He went off into the Navy, and things didn't work out, we agreed to break it off. Its been a year since then. Now there's this other guy, who I have been friends with for a long looongg time, he is in the Marines. Both guys are stationed in Japan and BOTH guys will be home around the holidays...and yes, both guys want to see me. I have some left over feelings for my ex, but I have new "developing" feelings for my friend. So what should I do??

2006-11-08 16:59:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend told me her boyfriend's ex is crazy. She said the ex wife is calling all the time causing problems. Threatening to call CPS on them because one of the kids diapers was wet after visitation. Makes them meet at the police station to exchange the kids. The cops even say she is crazy. My friend is nervous that she might lie to CPS and cause a bunch of legal issues/costs that shouldn't happen. Since the ex calls all the time, I told her she needs to record conversations. Is there anything else she should do to protect herself and her boyfriend? The ex to me sounds like a crazy jealous ex-wife.

2006-11-08 16:58:58 · 17 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We both work at the same job. She looks at me and smiles at me at times. She's a nice sweet girl. She flirts with me sometimes. But she has a boyfriend. And she's hitting on me it seems like. Just the way she acts around me and aske's if I could help bag alot. She's a cashier and Im a stocker. Im a nice guy by the way. Anyways I was helping her bag she said "I hope I wasn't bothering you". And I said "no". Then she said "oh well you'll get over it". In a nice way. I think she's starting to realize that she can push me around and get her way. But Im not sure. I used to think of her has a sweet,kind, and caring person. We known each other at work for about 4 months now. I was falling for her. But now I don't know. She didn't even tell me she had a boyfriend. I had to find out myself from someone at work. I heard her boyfriend treats her bad. Maybe thats the reason why she's not so kind anymore. Or maybe she likes guys who tell her what to do. I guess its true. Nice guys do finish last.

2006-11-08 16:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you found out your husband was making comments about girls behind your back?...for example dangg she has some nice ****!...my boyfriend didnt do this to me but my cousins husband has said things like that in front of my brother finally he told my cousin and now shes upset!

2006-11-08 16:57:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Help trying not to pull out my hair. I have an ex who I ran into over two months ago. The main problem is that he and I dated for over 8 years and fell out of contact after my mom died. We have ran into each other on several occasions and always expressed our deep love for each other. Problem is now that he is married and actually in the process of getting a divorce(paper work furnished). Wewould like to start spending time together yet my divorce is just starting. Help! Not quite sure what my next move should be without shooting myself in the foot.

2006-11-08 16:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 16:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by Cutebunny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Dating a lovely man, but both of us recently burnt in relationships so we're cautious but attraction is fierce. I ask what he is thinking about us and he says he wants to leave things as is. I admit i'm not sure what as is means, and he just says again as is. I'm a chicken so leave it be and we talk about other things but I decide he must be saying goodbye. But now I'm doubting, did he mean goodbye or just that he didn't want to move to the next stage but wanted to keep seeing me?

2006-11-08 16:56:39 · 3 answers · asked by KtyD 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends call me blubber cuz i'm a little flabby. i don't want them to though. i cant say stop cuz they won't stop laughin. i hate them, but they're my friends. u c, they is my 6th cuzins so i can't tell them to go away. they call me the following names:
blubber
big flabflab
jigglypuff
fattygnatty
walrus
big blob
yomamma
blubberyflubbery
i cry evry day. im getting depressed. help. PLEEZ.

2006-11-08 16:55:04 · 17 answers · asked by Kimbo ;) 5 in Singles & Dating

After 6 mos, she told me she needed some time for herself which I have given her, but the other night I couldn't take it and cracked. I sent her a text just totally spilling my guts, enought that she stayed home from work that day. She came over tonight. Things felt ambiguous when she left. How long would you wait to ask what I can expect as far as we go? Should I even ask or just see how things unfold?

2006-11-08 16:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I was in love with my ex for almost 1 year. 4 months ago we broke up. I'm 17 now, but i loved her. And i stil do. Well she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him. We dont talk anymore, nto even close friends. Well today my friends were in class with her and started talking about her. "Yea, you hear luis got sent to the office today" And she overheard, then started apparently 'growling' , but i think she just got mad. I dont know if she still loves me. She has a new life as i have. But i still love her to death, even if she doesnt love me in return. I mean i want a relationship with her, but there is this other guy she is trying to 'get with', and i dont know its just dusturbing to see my once what i called wife with another guy.. when that guy should be me. She broke up with me. [Now, i've almost got a girl myself (i had one but i duped her after the 2nd week) but i would rather have my Ex-Ex. what do i do. Forget about her? I'm sure she knows what i feel.

2006-11-08 16:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by Jordon H 1 in Singles & Dating

I was always under the impression that that the brides maids should not be married when standing for the bride.What about the maid of honour.Married or not?

2006-11-08 16:52:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-08 16:51:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have the most amazing boyfriend and he is so nice and understanding. He does almost everything perfectly. But one of his best friends is my good friend to now. My boyfriend goes to a different school and i can only see him like one or two times a week. His friend i see every day at school though. I always catch myself staring at him and i dont know why. i wouldnt want to break upw ith my boyfriend for him. because i love my bf and his best friend is the biggest flirt and hes really obnoxious. plus hes never had a girlfriend before. But i think he likes me because when i started going out with my boyfriend he stopped talking to me for a little and would ignore me when i saw him and tried to talk to him. I dont want to take a chance and dump my amazing boyfrind but I cant help but feel like i should. can someone please help and advice

2006-11-08 16:51:01 · 4 answers · asked by walrus 2 in Singles & Dating