Here's the thing...its a funky situation. First of all, I dated a guy for 2 years. He went off into the Navy, and things didn't work out, we agreed to break it off. Its been a year since then. Now there's this other guy, who I have been friends with for a long looongg time, he is in the Marines. Both guys are stationed in Japan and BOTH guys will be home around the holidays...and yes, both guys want to see me. I have some left over feelings for my ex, but I have new "developing" feelings for my friend. So what should I do??
2006-11-08 16:59:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CHoose. The option is with you. Weigh all he pros and cons. Who is the better of the two as a person? Judge and decide.
2006-11-08 17:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Vas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already broken things off with your ex. If he wants you back, he has to start all over and compete with other guys. Date both. It doesn't have to have to be a secret that you're attractive and there are many guys out there who want you.
2006-11-09 01:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Chicagoan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go with the guy u like more
if u like em the same then find which guy u like more
when u see em
if thats hard then try making a list of what u dont like about your ex and ur friend
and what u like bout em
if thats not goin 2 work then
ill get back at cha
running out of ideas right now
2006-11-09 01:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really think over who you are really most compatible with and who seems to bein your best interest. Although you may be developing feelings for this new guy, if your ex still likes you too, then that may really mean something...
2006-11-09 01:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooo... that's a hard one, I'd stick with your friend, that other creep and you broke it off a long time ago, so you should be over him already! Even if you're not, stick with your gut and leave it in God's hands. Good luck!
2006-11-09 01:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should be completely honest with ur self first yes i know it is very confusing so first clear it out and then confront the two about how u feel about them
2006-11-09 01:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass on the ex and hang with the new dude.
2006-11-09 01:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it up to you on what you wanna do!!! not us! just make sure that you dont play both of them at the same time! choose one and stick with one
2006-11-09 01:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a committment to either one of them, so see them both.
2006-11-09 01:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite both of them at your engagement party
2006-11-09 01:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋