Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

(girls answers please, for some reason, u girls seem 2 help more..) i she is ALWAYS on my mind... i already knew this, but i just realized how freakn crazy im goin.... ther waz this little incident when i went to see her for the first time in over a month and she didnt even kno i waz goin to visit her.. wont go into details bout the incident but when she found out bout it, thers no reason y she wudnt think it was sweet for me to try... but i got worried as h*ll that she wud be mad at me for some reason... absolutely NO REASON she wud possibly mad, but i was soo worried that she wouldnt call me anymore... ive lost my mind!!! thers other things like this i do, but i do them ALL the time!!! i have several things to keep me busy and hobbies and stuff, but every other thot is about her... iz ther anything in this world that can possibly loosen up my crazy mind a bit? it feels good to think about her, but im afraid im makn a fool outta myself cuz of thinkn bout her soo much... wat do i do?

2006-11-08 16:17:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I work with who's really smart and funny and he seems kinda interested in me. He looks at me a lot. Seems kinda nervous around, etc. Anyways. We were both at a show of a band we like and he talked to me about that, and we talked about a book also. I'm interested in him, but since he's kinda shy I don't want to scare him away.
So what should I do to keep things going?

2006-11-08 16:16:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 16:16:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this girl i used to go out with and i love her to death but we broke up for like 2 weeks and we were bout to start dating again but this other dude asked her out and i still love her and she still loves me and her family treats me as if me and her are married. Should i wait for her or not??

2006-11-08 16:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by Rick M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 16:13:59 · 24 answers · asked by heavenlyfemm 1 in Singles & Dating

.. he is so perfect?

2006-11-08 16:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted a question about this girl before. Its my best friend's step sister. When I go hang out with him and her she flirts and acts like she likes me. And when we are by ourselves in front of the school or something she will flirt. But what pisses me off is when we are in school, and she is around friends and stuff she avoids me. She might talk but not long at all. It really bothers me. I wanted to tell her how I feel about her, but im not so sure i want to anymore.....depressing.

2006-11-08 16:13:37 · 13 answers · asked by Supafly 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard it all from women, to quote Christina A., "What a girl wants, what a girl needs?" So what is it?

2006-11-08 16:11:52 · 23 answers · asked by droopydog88 3 in Singles & Dating

Last time I was there, two months ago for the birth of my granddaughter, I was thrilled seeing her and my daughter, but distressed by my son-in-law's frequent yelling, ranting, fuming. I also worry about the amount he drinks and the effects of his behavior on the new family's emotional and physical safety. It's a dilemma, because I love my grandchild and daughter, but the idea of staying with my son-in-law gives me "fight-or-flight" feelings. When pressed as to why I didn't want to return just yet, I told my daughter my problems with his behavior, and now they are both upset at me...

2006-11-08 16:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when a girl said that she dont have any intimate feeling about you how do work on that

2006-11-08 16:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by yard kid 1 in Singles & Dating

... get him out of my mind?

2006-11-08 16:10:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people say that they are not racist, but if in a park at 8pm, and two white dudes come near you and start to ask you directions, dressed bad, or the same 2 dudes are black?? please tell me that you would not have more fear with the black brothers instead of the white ones. we all have it in us? who dis agrees?

2006-11-08 16:09:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

that I am leaving for Perth, WA next week?
the reason i am leaving is because my girlfriends uncle has a health problem and needs her at the moment, and she needs me there, she was going to arrive today but didn't because of this issue....so I am going to fly there from Launcston, Tas early next week.
Also to add stress to what we both already have me and my parents had a big domestic last night which made this more urgent.....anyway i would like ideas on how to tell my parents I've had enough of their **** and am leaving and not comming back apart from during holidays..

so ideas please people

Mitch

2006-11-08 16:09:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive been with this guy since i was 13 and now im 18! yea i know a long time. then to find out that he has been cheating on me with this female that lives far away from us litterally across the nation. she told me she was been with him for 2 years. and i confront him about it and all he says is im sorry i didnt mean to fall in love with her. and the next thing he tells me is that hes still inlove with me and stuff. im hurt so much hes all i know and i dont know what to do its like he droped me at the drop of a dime. it hurts so much

2006-11-08 16:09:47 · 8 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am SO confused. I am 17 and in highschool. In several of my classes there are these guys that are constantly joking with me and teasing me. One guy in particular, just happens to be a smart-*** but is sweet and cute and I kinda like him. Well, anyways, he is always teasing me and poking my sides or grabbing my shoulders or saying sexual innuendos, etc. He told my other guy friend that I was "hot" which I know means nothing. Yesterday he came up to me and gave me a really good hug, and I felt a "spark" ya know? Do you think he felt it too, and why is he always teasing me?!! I had a guy friend once tell me I was "fun to tease"--why would someone be fun to tease?? Is that bad?

THANKS!

2006-11-08 16:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Weve been going out for two months, and basically we see eachother every day, go to the same church, and go on a date every weekend, but we havnt kissed. Weve held hands and crap, so i was just wondering, is that a bad thing?

2006-11-08 16:08:45 · 19 answers · asked by Eplic 2 in Singles & Dating

I love looking at a man's face (among other things) and exploring his features. It's been said that men aren't that worried about that. Now, I know you like our boobs best, but the face is the bit you see most often. Are 'they' fulla crap?

2006-11-08 16:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by The Mad Shillelagh 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 16:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by laxman khusu 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee' and I have been together for 5 years. We are 18 years old. We dated all through highschool. Anyways... I feel I am more "ready for the world" than he is. I know the value of a dollar.. and he doesn't. He wants to spend all his hard earned money on his system for his truck, shoes, clothes..etc. He is very irresponsible with money among other things.. I try to teach him things about being responsible. I am going to college to be an RN and he didn't go to college, he just works full time. Should I try to lead him in the right direction and hope he will change... or do you think it matters? In other words, Is it possible for a irresponsible man to become responsible?

2006-11-08 16:06:32 · 19 answers · asked by Britni Gayle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have a new girl. she's great to me and she's the best thing thats happened to me in a while. this isn't really a huge deal, but i would like her to shave her lady parts. going down on her is like making out with don king. whats the best way to get her to do this without offending her?

2006-11-08 16:03:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. 3 months ago he lost his job and can't find another job CZ he has no social security number. we've been living together for 2 years and now i have to pay for everything and it's starting to bug me, what should i do? don't know whether to keep waiting or tell him to call when he gets a job!

2006-11-08 16:03:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has short spiked hair that he puts gel in to keep it standing up. He's not in the military so its just his preference. He's in his early 30's and has been wearing it that way for a long time. I would really like to see him change it but I don't want to hurt his feelings or seem insensitive. He is so handsome except for the hair.

2006-11-08 16:02:28 · 4 answers · asked by keywordsearch 1 in Singles & Dating

whats some topics to talk about besides school, work, and what she likes to do? i just met this girl and cant seem to have much to say?
like things girls like to talk to guys about.......
any suggestions?

2006-11-08 16:01:59 · 10 answers · asked by john doe 2 in Singles & Dating

can any man trust women after his trust is broken 5 times..? its all about unfaithful partner..should i give 6th chance?? pls help me i am shattered.

2006-11-08 16:01:44 · 15 answers · asked by Raj B 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got back from a swim meet and i didnt do so well. On top of that, my dad put me down a lot about how i swim. Also, he connected my swimming inconsistency with my grades at school which arent that bad at all. Im getting a 3.4 GPA right now but my parents (dad especially) make it seem like im failing everything and will never succeed or go to college. Im so sick of them. Also, my date for a dance to whom i was really sweet and nice to continued to say bad things about me which she started a really long time ago. How do i stop this crap? Im so sick of everybody! I always get put down and never encouraged by my own parents. Wtf should i do?

2006-11-08 16:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can anybody tell me why SOME guys are just plain jerks and they use you when along along you think he loves you?

2006-11-08 16:00:02 · 12 answers · asked by hannah r 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got out of a relationship and I have been really in the mix because I was dating her for like over a 1 year now, and she actually approached me lol so I was wondering how can I get in the mix with girl, like my friends and I go to clubs but im always to shy and I just sit there and hold my drink and watch others, im too scared to death to approach someone to dance and to be honest i dont think i can do it, what some ways I can just get back in the game and have confidence im too scared of rejection so I dont think i can approach a girl, what can I and what should I do?? thanks in advance...

2006-11-08 15:58:30 · 15 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 15:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by itsyouandmebb 2 in Singles & Dating

I been dating this guy off and on for five years. We always seem to to get back with each other when we run across each other or we call each other. I can seem to let him go. I keep falling back on him. What should I do? He said he is not the person I once fell in love with.

2006-11-08 15:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Simplelife 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm ambivalent about it, I think it's both good and bad. Good: keeps you away from actually having sex (staying abstinence). Bad: It's kind of unfitful in a religious sense.

what's your opinion?

2006-11-08 15:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating