ive been with this guy since i was 13 and now im 18! yea i know a long time. then to find out that he has been cheating on me with this female that lives far away from us litterally across the nation. she told me she was been with him for 2 years. and i confront him about it and all he says is im sorry i didnt mean to fall in love with her. and the next thing he tells me is that hes still inlove with me and stuff. im hurt so much hes all i know and i dont know what to do its like he droped me at the drop of a dime. it hurts so much
2006-11-08 16:09:47 · 8 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time heals all wounds. maybe not all the way but it will lessen with time.
young people dont always know what they want so sometimes it is a good suggestion to not commit so young. you be okay.
2006-11-08 16:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweety, here is one thing that you need to check out from a different perspective. Look at the outside in, in other words,"Your eighteen, and you have the rest of the world to accomplish." This guy obviously just wanted something different but still have you on the side. Do the respectful thing and go find yourself someone who wants you and only you. If I could find a woman who can do the same for me, I'd be showing her off to all of my friends and family. Just keep your self-respect and watch out for them rebounds.
2006-11-09 00:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years. and i can see and tell that hes probably a little bored by the routine of the relationship that when another girl made advances on him, he cant resist. when he said he didnt mean to fall in love with her, i suppose he had wanted to play her out at first, and then accidentally fell in love. it happens.
i suggest; drop him like a dime. make him prove that you are still the one he loves. and to know this, you probably have to distance yourself from him first.
2006-11-09 00:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what.. your guy is a waste of time.. don't you think it's time to let him go and give him to someone he'll be happy with.. maybe he's not happy with you anymore that's why he fall in love with that gurl.. but your guy is so stupid that he loves that guurl but he can't let you go.. that's why love is so stupid cause even though your hurt still you accept the person that hurts you.. because you love him that doesn't mean you're still going to forgive him.. move on gurl!.. there's a lot of guys who will love you more than your guy loved you.. don't be stupid enough to let him hurt you once again..
2006-11-09 00:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lheki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all should temporary part ways, to get on with your own life and to reassess your feelings for each other. Maybe that would be better for everyone in the long run.
2006-11-09 00:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out for one thing......
i mean your an adult now......
so kool it for a slot!
heres what to do.
your 18 so i suggest you realize the fact that men mature slower then women.
what he did does not mean your notway better then the other girl.
*** her actually.
in a few months youl forget all about this guy because someone else is coming your way to sweep you off your feet,
are you even prepared for this KNIGHT?
2006-11-09 00:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like that can hurt but just get up and go on its easyer said then done but what als can u do if u dont look 4 love it will come to u
2006-11-09 00:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE IS HARD TO LET GO OF THE
FEELING THAT YOU HAD. BUT TIME WILL HEAL ALL WOUNDS
JUST GIVE IT TIME, STARTING DOING THINGS FOR YOUR SELF. GOING OUT WITH FRIENDS. SINCE YOU 18 GET
YOUR EDUCATION. BUT DONT JUST DWELL ON WHAT
HAPPEN. IT WILL GET BETTER. AND YOU WILL FIND LOVE
AGAIN. AS YOU GET OLDER YOUR VIEWS ON LOVE WILL
CHANGE SO HANG IN THERE.
2006-11-09 00:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋