Weve been going out for two months, and basically we see eachother every day, go to the same church, and go on a date every weekend, but we havnt kissed. Weve held hands and crap, so i was just wondering, is that a bad thing?
2006-11-08 16:08:45 · 19 answers · asked by Eplic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also- i wont release my age for the fact that no im not very young ill just say 14-18 if thats ok :)
2006-11-08 16:15:21 · update #1
Also- itd be my first kiss- hers too
2006-11-08 16:21:03 · update #2
No, but be assertive and kiss her... she's probably just waiting for you to make a move, dont be scared it will work out.
2006-11-08 16:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a bad thing and you are a respectful boyfriend. She at least knows you like her for more than just physical. I don't know how old you are but she will give you clues when she's ready for you to kiss her. Start slow like kiss her forehead or top of her head for a few dates, then her cheek. If she doesn't respond in a bad way after the cheek, go for it on the next date. Only make sure that it is a simple light quick kiss on the lips. NO TONGUE.
2006-11-09 00:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not at all. Maybe you were just hesitating, and seeing that you are not making a move, your girlfriend is hesitant too. But it' s neither too late nor a bad thing. However I guess that you must start something. It' s time that you kiss her. It' ll be great for both of you.
2006-11-09 00:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I happen to think that it is something that is dependent upon age. If you enjoy each others company, no need to rush it. just have a good time with each other is the ways you are currently used to!
2006-11-09 00:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its a bad thing, but i just wonder if you are really feeling this girl...maybe you are waiting for the right time to give her a kiss so if thats the case then ok...if it isn't then you need to see if this is the girl that u are feelin for...good luck!
2006-11-09 00:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by indiekajol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it.. Your doing everything right for now; If you are looking for more then what do you what a nice girl or just someone that puts out take your time life is to sort as it is so enjoy what you have for now..
2006-11-09 00:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Pappa_Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... man.. i take my hats off to u! lol... i dunno but this is mi XD i just simply love kissin the one i love... lol.. guess u gotta make the first move... take it slow... kissin does't have to be a french kiss... a kiss on the cheek, forehead can get things started slowly... but dun rush things k? cos it's gonna be both yer first kisses... make it as memorable as possible... best at some place damn romantic...
2006-11-09 00:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you are taking it very easy... But a small kiss would not hurt.. just a small sweet one.. she will remember .. and you too..........
2006-11-09 00:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it just best when you dont kiss, unless she asked for it.... cuz when u start kissing then the next thing you know, your doing it.... then it 's just a spell.
2006-11-09 00:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by liyana s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl has had previous bfs that were prude and she wants it really badly, then yes. but if not then ur good. ask her friends what she wants, it worked for me, and we had our 1st kiss.
2006-11-09 00:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by cpc_2591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋