ok i have a new girl. she's great to me and she's the best thing thats happened to me in a while. this isn't really a huge deal, but i would like her to shave her lady parts. going down on her is like making out with don king. whats the best way to get her to do this without offending her?
2006-11-08 16:03:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up.
2006-11-08 16:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a weed whacker to bed with you...she'll get the hint. Yes, I'm Kidding. Depending upon her age, just ask her. And if you are too embarrassed to do that, then rent the movie "scarey movie" and when the scene comes up where he goes down on that one girl and the hair stands up everywhere, make a subtle comment on how you prefer pubic hair nicely manicured. And if that is not an option, then make a night of trimming each other up a bit. All depends on how comfortable each of you are with your sexuality honey. Or you could just show her your question and she'll get the hint. It's amazing what we women will do for our men!
2006-11-09 00:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yours first, then when you ask her, she can see you've already done it. Honestly, she will appreciate it for the same reasons you wish her to do it. However, this must be maintained on a daily basis to prevent stubble and "whisker burns" and also because it itches when it grows back in. A hint: rub a stick of deodorant on the shaved area afterward to prevent red bumps that are quite uncomfortable.
2006-11-09 00:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Is it sex you're all thinking of? Well, you don't appeared to be like a good guy! Can't you wait, coz you just know her recently? Anyway, just tell her that you always can't seem to find her right spot, coz you often got missing in the middle of hunting for her hotspot. Does she mind to cut down the forests? Hope this is not really offensive but more amusing to make her understand!
2006-11-09 00:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her to shave them or trim them down? Did you know it hurts to shave such a tender spot? Do you shave yourself down there?
I don't think you've been going with her long enough to ask her to do that; but if that's all you care about, go ahead and maybe she'll dump you. (Why do you have to be so insulting by saying "don king". You appear to be crude.)
2006-11-09 00:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's very understandable. first, realize this may be a completely foreign idea to her. so broach it honestly and gently. and offer to be shaved, as well.
my husband and i (we've been married 22 yrs) shave each other. one, it's easier and two it can be pretty hot, itself! trust me, you guys can have quite a mouthful of hair yourselves!!
i've found it's easier to keep it shaved; shaving every 2-3 days rather than waiting too long & having it grow back....cuz then it's really itchy & annoying. after trying it, if she wants to continue, trust me, it is so much nicer, she can always get waxed and forego shaving for several weeks. good luck!
2006-11-09 00:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by kb1123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put some music on, get in the tub and hand her a razor to shave you,don't be scared it will only hurt a little if she slips
2006-11-09 02:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by joeandhowie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has any kind of feelings 4 u she wont get hurt with u if u just come out and let her know how u feel most femals not get mad at thing like that if they r not kids
2006-11-09 00:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she likes for guys to shave or be hairy then tell her yeah i like it better when girls shave... my bf told me he wanted me to have some hair when we first started doing things like 3 years ago. it shouldnt bother her if you guys are close
2006-11-09 00:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a discussion you going to have to have with her. There's no other way around it. You know her better than we do, so only you know how to approach her on that subject. Just be nice, thoughtful, caring...
2006-11-09 00:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by revenueforge 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
f u
u think that doesn't hurt
u will always offend a woman when u say that
no matter in what way u say it
just leave her instead of hurting her
2006-11-09 00:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋