I been dating this guy off and on for five years. We always seem to to get back with each other when we run across each other or we call each other. I can seem to let him go. I keep falling back on him. What should I do? He said he is not the person I once fell in love with.
2006-11-08 15:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Simplelife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stay as far away from him as possible...okay when a guy says he loves you but hes not in love with you...its like a brother saying they love you,...its not going anywhere...you going back to each other means that he proably doesnt have anything better to do...and your just love struck and yall two are aech others comfort zones...you really need to let him go...as hard as it may be.....goodluck sweetie...remember time heals everything
2006-11-08 16:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then let him go. Don't call and if you run into each other, friendly hi, how are you, see you! You need to get out and find someone else, both of you fall in love and take it from there. You're wasting your time with him and life's passing you by in the meantime.
2006-11-09 00:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. If he is saying he's not the person you fell in love with, then that's most likely a clue that he's not interested in a serious relationship. And if he says he loves you but isn't in love with you, you will probably never have anything more than an on and off thing. You cut it off and get over him.
2006-11-09 00:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not serious about you. Five years is a long period of time to decide if you want somebody or not. He is simply playing with your feeling. May be the sex is really good but it is misleading you a lot. Concentrate your energies and thoughts on somebody who can really appreciate you. I know it will be very difficult for you to do but it is time to break up your old habits and association and start fresh. You will be OK............Do not worry.
2006-11-09 00:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by torontofabsingle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing to. I have now moved on and when he calls me I push the ignore button. I could care less.
2006-11-09 00:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....you have all ready wasted enough time. I was in a similar situation...dumped the ex....and now I am married to a great guy.
2006-11-09 00:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to let you know that you have no future with him. He is fond of you, but you are not his dream girl. When he is ready to settle down it will be with someone else.
2006-11-09 00:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means the sex is great but he thinks your a s l ut.And who wants one of those.
2006-11-09 00:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋