whats some topics to talk about besides school, work, and what she likes to do? i just met this girl and cant seem to have much to say?
like things girls like to talk to guys about.......
any suggestions?
2006-11-08 16:01:59 · 10 answers · asked by john doe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's hard to think of things but, as a girl, I know what we like to talk about. Movies, TV, stuff like that. Current events, but don't bore her with political stuff. Find out what she is really passionate about and talk to her about that.
I'm passionate about skiing. If my boyfriend was a skier, we could have some truly engaging conversations. Find something you have in common, something you're both experts on.
Talk about things she's passionate about, breaking the ice will be easy if you do that.
2006-11-08 16:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bubble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about her family? Does she have sisters and brothers? Memories of when she was younger? Look around and see something that might prompt you. Like if you see a tree say "I had a huge tree near my house when I was little - were you a tree climber?" ASk her about her plans for the future - girls always like to talk about that. Like does she ever want to own a house? What kind of house could she imagine herself owning? Does she have career plans? Would she want to travel? What countries would she like to see?
Please don't take offence to this but usually if I met someone and we didn't have very much to say to each other I would take it as a omen that a long term relationship would not work. When I met my husband we both had so much to say to each other that 8 years later we still can't stop talking.
2006-11-09 00:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by reno girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look all you have to do is flirt and talk sweet but if you want some real conversation watch the news ask her about somthing you hered about and share your thoughts on the subject it can be a great way to bond with her when you share the same thoughts or it can be a healthy little fun debate good luck!!
2006-11-09 00:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about what you usually talk about. What interests you? Maybe you have some common interests. If you don't, then you probably find eachother boring and you should look for another more suitable mate.
2006-11-09 00:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just like to talk to guys about things that interest him or things that interest me. tell her about a cool movie you saw, or something neat that you did and she's bound to have some kind of story to go along with something that you've done. if you're just sitting there in silence, then maybe she's not really into you...
2006-11-09 00:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just listen, ask her one question and let her go on and on. MAKE SURE YOU LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS and not just hear it. that makes a huge impact of girls
2006-11-09 00:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by jpiccoch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like it when boys talk dirty to me, find out what she's into, and if she is, go for it! then yall might get into something sexual, and if your big enough, yall both turn out happy.
2006-11-09 00:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies, rock bands/music, TV shows, books, internet, hobbies, sports, ...............
2006-11-09 00:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what her favorites are (books,movies, and such) and then go based on that
2006-11-09 00:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick the girl on the butt
2006-11-09 00:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by wondpook 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋