my name is 'blubber'?

Question

my friends call me blubber cuz i'm a little flabby. i don't want them to though. i cant say stop cuz they won't stop laughin. i hate them, but they're my friends. u c, they is my 6th cuzins so i can't tell them to go away. they call me the following names:
blubber
big flabflab
jigglypuff
fattygnatty
walrus
big blob
yomamma
blubberyflubbery
i cry evry day. im getting depressed. help. PLEEZ.

Answer 1

Loose some weight or find new friends.Your friends sound like pieces of crap!

Answer 2

That has happened to me too a long time ago. Yeah it was really depressing but hey, you don't deserve that.... No one can do that to you unless you let them. Tell them what you feel the next time they do that again. They won't know unless you tell them. Perhaps they thought it's okay for you 'cause you're not doing anything. You might show them that you're kinda hurt but maybe it's not enough.They probably think it's nothing to you though it hurts you well inside. Hmm if I can recall, I actually told my friend how it hurt me. She apologized, but we're still friends. Telling them how you realy feel won't ruin your friendship. Don't be afraid to make a stand. Besides, friendship is not just all about the good times. If they won't understand, then maybe you should think if they're still worthy to call friends. It doesn't matter if you're cousins. What kind of family or friends are they if they keep on hurting you?

Answer 3

people's attitude towards fat girls just aren't gonna change.

sorry cuz i dont really think that being overweight makes a girl as unattractive as most guys do, but to be completely honest with you and help you out i will give you the cold hard truth.

1. they're not gonna stop.
2. if you find new friends, and they'll just pick up right where the old ones left off
3. your friends have a more favorable view of than other people do.

your true options are this... stop letting it bother you and realize we all have something about us that makes us vulnerable to others.

or the only way you're really gonna be happier...

change your lifestyle forever and shed as much of the excess jiggle as possible by eating mostly protein like meat and fish and you need to exercise daily and i dont mean "take the stairs" or any of that dumb **** either.

45 min of cardio b4 u eat anything in the morning every freakin day without fail.

weight training after work or school

no carbohydrates after 6 pm period

1 cheat day per week where you eat whatever you want (within reason)

dont add pain to your life by taking the advice of everybody who, is gonna come on here and tell you to blame it all on your friends and accept this life.

fat girls just arent that happy, being made fun of hurts, being rejected hurts, and being passed over by guys you like hurts.

im not trying to be mean, i gaurantee if you take the advice i gave you here you'll be happier than if you tell your friends off and continue on because you're gonna get way more of this from mean-*** people out there

Answer 4

Even if they are your 6th cousins you need to tell them to get the skinny winny selves away from you before you give them a big flabby black eye. Talk to your parents about this and see if they can put a stop to the bad way your cousins are treating you.I hope that you find some people to spend time with that can treat you nice like you deserve to be treated. Dry your eyes and laugh at their silly willy ways!

Answer 5

6th cousins? who cares? tell them to get lost and find some new friends. instead of hanging with them go somewhere and do aerobics, just dance around for about 12 minutes at a time so your heart beat goes up and you break a sweat. do this everytime you feel bad, instead of crying and putting up with them, go put on some music and dance your @$$ away. if you do it by yourself it doesn't matter if you can really dance. just bounce and jump and swing your arms and kick and let out all your frustrations. you will feel a lot beeter about yourself and you will loose weight too! you will be looking hotter so you will attract a lot of new friends and life will be good!

Answer 6

Ok look kiddo, here's the thing. If it's a big deal to you than it'll be a big deal to them. Embrace the blubber. Be who you are and accept yourself. If you do that others will follow your lead. If you act like it doesn't bother you than it won't be as funny. It is great fun to tease others. You know how it works. If you don't like it just roll with it. If you're no fun to tease anymore they'll move on to someone else. Than you can have some fun!

Answer 7

Do not cry baby
People always do that but show them u do not care
Show them that u like the way u r
they will leave u
how old are u ?
I am a big man but I do not care
I believe in myself and I do like myself very much

Answer 8

Fisr of all no matter if they are friends or family, they shouldn't be callin you names...i suggest that you confront them about it and tell them how hurt you get when they call u such names...if they don't understand and they don't stop, then i suggest you stop hanging out with them and that you put your foot down...its enough to hear it from strangers, then you have to hear from your close friends or family members...and remember no matter what you look like, it whats the inside that matters...good luck

Answer 9

Tell them the truth! Tell them to f*** off, let them know how you feel. Or just ignore them, they're apparently trying to get your attention or make you mad, so don't let them get to you. If they don't get a reaction, then it won't be as amusing anymore. If matters get worse, tell your parents or their parents, if that's too embarassing, than talk to a counselor! Good luck sista!

Answer 10

Tell them honestly how name calling makes you feel. Invite them all at one time to your home and just tell them how their name-calling makes you cry and that you care about them and hope they care enough about you to call you by your name, or a nice nickname that you choose.

If they don't call you by name after that, then they aren' t worth your time. Avoid them and make new friends who will respect your feelings.

Answer 11

Ignore them......i used to being called lots of 'uncute' names.....
sure i hate the people calling me these names.... but confronting them isn't the best way - i know cause i used to go to their faces and told them to stop calling me names.... the next thing i realised they've come up with other new names...like 'miss-though-not!'....so eventually i just ignore them....and they'll stop at one point......be patient...