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2006-11-08 17:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not going through what you are going through, but I do have that man who is my booty call. We both agreed that if feelings were to come that we would tell each other and then figure out what to do and then be strong enough and mature to accept what ever we decide. Some women can't be booty calls because they go in it thinking the more he has sex with me then he will want to become mine when the truth is he is having more sex with you because you are making it more available.
You messed up by getting into a booty call relationship that you were not able to handle mentally. When you first noticed those feelings you were suppose to back off then not hide them and hope he comes around. There is this old saying "you can't turn a ho into a house wife" so one of the things that helps me not get attached to my booty call is that saying. I feel like if he ever decides to feel more for me fine, but if not that's ok to because I have no expectations based on our relationship being a booty call. It's sad to say, but you let yourself get caught up. The only fix for this is to leave him alone all together.
2006-11-08 17:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a booty call is when you call a platonic friend.
he is using you
you were using him.
you changed the rules of the game which you were totally happy with until you wanted more and did not get what you want.
You need to boot your booty call. Be NICE. he did nothing wrong. Be honest. Just say you know your great but i want a relationship now not sex and this set up is now just confusing to me. But it isnt you.
then move on.
You can get another booty guy if you want.
2006-11-09 01:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Johny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the problem w/ booty calls, it starts out for fun and someone ends up liking the other. i think guys are good at keeping things at bay like this. You agreed it was for fun and they usually stick w/ it. i would stop seeing him altogether because unless you want to tell him you really want more it's not going to happen.
2006-11-09 01:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
using you...isnt that the purpose of a booty call in the first place
2006-11-09 01:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by twysty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is time to find a new booty call. you like him he don't like you that way. Booty calls ...aka... nsa are meant to be just about sex. no emotions, no attachments. Now that you like him let him go while before you get hurt. "Live and let live" :)
2006-11-09 01:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by konala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen babe that is not using, it became that when in yur mind you start havin feelings, y u think they call it BOOTY CALL, you can not except a booty call to fall in love when you might not b the only one on his list, when u took on that roll you suppose to be a solidier hon it suppose to be just wht it is. sorry but it is wht it is. good luck stop sleeping with him before you get hurt more.
2006-11-09 01:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by imjustagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why people should do "booty calls", they're a bad idea!
2006-11-09 01:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad fact is that the majority of women equate sex with love and realationship. Men can have sex without emotional attachment. It is a physical release from stress and tension by ejaculation. They can get it on then move on without guilt. Alot of men will masturbate or have sex just to make themselves relaxed enough just to go to sleep. It's just natural law. However, you don't have to be a receptacle for his emissions and release. Respect yourself for the goddess that you are and reserve your charms for someone who'll love and respect you.
2006-11-09 11:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by mysticleah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens? It would hurt... for awhile, but accept that some good things never do last.
2006-11-09 01:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋