How can I find out what my husband has been doing behide my back on the computer
2006-11-08 17:06:13 · 21 answers · asked by phatgirl194 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he's using IE, the bundled internet browser for windows.Then you just have to open the IE and hit Ctrl-H, or go to search options in Start-Search-For files or Folder-(search for *.txt) or the easy way.Just open ur window browser n "C:\Documents and Settings\Administrator\Local Settings\Temporary Internet Files" put tat on the address bar then enter.Look into it for any files that he has visited,like some websites leave traces.Just dig it.
2006-11-08 17:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is not a computer geek, you can check on History that's located if you have Internet explorer you can click where the little clock is, right on top. It will show you which sites he went to, and you can check the history from past days. Also you can google him, either his last name as his screen name, but make sure is him, there will be a zillion of people with same name and nickname. Hope it helps, and if you want to spend a couple of dollars you could buy one of those spy softwares.
2006-11-08 17:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a thing on the top of the computer screen when you go online and it looks like a little clock with a arrow inside it actually tells you the history of what someone has been doing on the computer and what websites they visited all the way for up to a month.
2006-11-08 17:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kenya Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts about what he's been up to and he isn't answering your questions, then there are grey areas and there are reasons, unbeknownst to you, for those grey areas. I would question the entire stability of the relationship if there is lack of trust or honesty and openness amd communication. If it's merely your own insecurities, and he has done nothing to cause this, resolve your issue. Your relationship wont be decent and it wont last long without trust. Communication is the key. There should be no unanswered questions or uneasy feelings. Listen to your gut.
2006-11-08 17:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could go to see internet history. you could also install program. but unless you just want to trash him in divorce, if you are not trusting him something is not right in marraige . YOU are not happy. So do what makes you happy. if you are not where you can trust him then something is already making you miserable. And whether or not you find anything, there is already a problem.
i would get a slutty friend to im him to see if he bites.
2006-11-08 17:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Johny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, leave him alone. He is probably just watching porn. Or maybe he has played a yahoo game and found a friend. If he is home every night with you and things are going well, shouldn't be a problem.
2006-11-08 17:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jan G 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just ask him. what are you doing behind his back? or saying? a marriage counseller once told us you should live transparently, meaning only do stuff that you would do in front of your spouse. what a bunch of baloney. the dude needs space.
2006-11-08 17:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is this program, I forget what it is called, that records every letter someone types on a computer and so, with a password, you can secretly check what and who he has been emailing etc.
2006-11-08 17:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by agnobles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can check your history. Go to tools, toolbar and click of history.
2006-11-08 17:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by beaniejo_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Then go to family therapy to figure out why you and your husband have trust issues.
2006-11-08 17:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋