I am in a unbelievebly frustrating situation. my girlfriend of 8 years broke up with me about 2-3 months ago. she told me that she had been seeing other people off and on for years and prior to breaking up with me she was in a relationship in which she had boken off and she had gotten pregnant by accident. and to top it all off, she told me all of this on the internet. 8 years of a relationship and i get told online. even though our relationship was long distance for the moment, that is not a excuse. i was faithful, i didnt cheat. she didnt have to ethier. but whats really sad is we communicated almost everyday. she went from being a super nice and undertstanding person to a extemeley moody off and on type of personality. whenever i asked her if she was seeing other people and if she wanted to move on, she exploded and made it sound like i had no right to ask her that and that our relationship was ok and she wasnt cheating, but in reality she was
2006-11-08 17:02:41 · 5 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she played me like a fool. i feel like a total idiot. her attiitude now is soo unbelievable. she acts like i dont exist, she's all happy about having the baby, almost as if, it doesnt even register what she did to me and how she did it. all she cares about is having the baby. granted, i am moving on, i have no choice, but she owes me something, a phone call, a explination or something. the years of helping her and being faithful to her only to be dumped online!!!. i am sooo mad. its almost as if all this worked out pefectly for her. she doesnt have to call me or give me a explanation, she acts like i never meant nothing to her. i gave up alot to be with her. she begged me to not cheat on her and to be honest with her and i do, and this is what i get!! just the thought of another man touching her , i cant seem to get out of my mind. why she told me she was pregnant confuses me. why would i want to know that?? and she knows i care for her. how can i get over this anger??
2006-11-08 17:13:37 · update #1
Her guilt made her angry. Move on.
2006-11-08 17:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Craig, you need to find yourself a lady that will not betray you like this one did. So its better you found out now. Can you imagine if you had 20 years invested into the relationship. 8 years is alot of time. So you now have learned from this and you need to move on. What your girl did was really inexcusable. I mean come on she had the balls (excuse the term but it makes the point) to cheat on you but not the balls to face you and tell you to your face. That is about the lowest I can think a person can get. Especially telling you on line, that is just the chicken sh&* way out. Good Luck Craig, and I have faith you will find someone a hell of alot better than what this one did to you.
2006-11-08 17:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was full of B.S she was tryna make you feel guilty when it was really her doing the dirt. i know its not that easy to move on but hey apparently she doesnt care for you the way you care for her. Find yourself somebody who really appreciates you. She will realize that she lost a good one in the longrun!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 17:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kenya Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as hard as it may seem its time to move on .........if she took your loyalty to her and bash it in to your computer screen then she is not worth it ...........i have been with my man for 8years and i cant even see my self telling him such a thing online that's just not cool ..........move on and find someone that is going to love you and be loyal too you don't waste your time on people like that ...........good luck
2006-11-08 17:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question? or just venting?
2006-11-08 17:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by snoboarder2k6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋