so i have alot of feelings for this girl, at first it went great when i introduced myself to herm but then ever since then i think i have come on too strong.. she has a good personality, quiet, and my is she gorgeous. i think i need to go back to the friend direction with her so that i can get to know her more and therefore have her be more comfortable with me rather than me keep pushing thigns to happen and end up getting ticked off because things arent working and i get stressed over it. shes really cool, i just at least want to be her friend right now, because when she talks its just really fun relating things with her, but yeah, what can i do now to reverse my coming on too strongness and go towards the friend area so things would be less awkward? k thanks alot in advance =D
p.s. she and i are somewhat the "kinda-shy" before u get to know type.
2006-11-08 17:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by Joktan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with her. If you think you came on too strong, take her out to a nice dinner and explain yourself. Tell her you were so eager to get to know her better you let your heart act instead of listening to your head. Tell her you want to be something more, but you want to take things at a pace that is comfortable for the both of you. If its meant to be, it'll be. Give yourself a little credit, at least you are trying to read your woman's heart. If she's not interested, then you could do better anyway! Lots of women out there would love to find a man like you!
2006-11-08 17:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you already said everything. Just back off a bit. Keep doing
the freindly thing, this way both of you start off as freinds and
if a relationship starts up then it'll last longer. Everyone should strt off that way. This way you can see if your compatible. Go
have fun with one another. Keep an open conversation this way
both you and her can get to know one another. Don't rush into
a relationship, let it happen naturally. So Good Luck and I hope
everything turns out just the way you both want it.
2006-11-09 01:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend zone is not a bad place but not a good place either if you want to have a relationship evenntually. There has to be an air of anticipation, that you may flirt with her at any moment while in the friends stage or you will be relegated there forever.
2006-11-09 01:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is herm? are you shy or too strong?
2006-11-09 01:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really love her?.......how lucky is she? oaky the best thing is find the time she is alone and explain yourself.............if you dont have that guts.........do this..........just text her..................tell me if its work...........iam talking through experience! wish you luck and romantic days ahead.
2006-11-09 01:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by babyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-09 01:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by emmachoclab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋