If you are convinced there is mutual desire to get back together, discuss how you should do this with him. The two of you should avoid getting entangled in each other's divorces, though you can talk about it. In the meantime, there should be low-intensity contact between the two of you. Now that you boith have had experience in marriage, you wonna ask yourselves very honestly what is it that you would like from each other once you are both free. Be prepared to be as frank as possible so that you do not get hurt again, certainly not in the near future.
2006-11-08 17:19:40
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answered by 1967 2
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Try to save your marriage. (Unless there was abuse or adultry in the marriage.)
If you do end up getting divorced, don't start dating until your children have graduated high school and are out of the house.
Think of your children in this situation. Imagine the confusion they would go through by not having their dad around, only being able to see him maybe once a week, and on top of that, having a new guy in their life that they don't even know. If your ex husband started seeing a new woman that would hurt them even more having some new lady in their life that is not you.
Please try to stay together.
2006-11-08 17:12:37
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answered by elfie_joey 1
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Simple. Have the phone conversations, do the emails, but DO NOT be seen going anywhere that could be questionable....hotels, houses, mutual friends homes, etc. You can be seen in public together, riding in a car together, but do not go to any places that could be misconstrued on any level......otherwise you risk losing your children in the divorce and you and I both know you don't want that. from a guy sitting across the table from a lawyer.... good luck.
2006-11-08 17:01:29
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answered by Anonymous
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it easily relies upon on what you intend on doing once you flow out with the females. in case you're doing issues or % to do issues that are geared in the direction of single existence, then you definately are easily too immature to be a newlywed with 2 toddlers. Yeah, I do agree that mothers % time faraway from residing house. I made pals with different mothers and we took turns observing each and each others toddlers and it replaced into unfastened. I did this throughout the time of the week day, from time to time extra suitable than as quickly as each week, so while my husband replaced into residing house shall we spend time mutually. So, in case your intentions are to get out and function some Mommy time, there is a thank you to do it without conflict. you're a mom and a spouse and could act wisely. If time away is what you %, you're able to try this without going out on a weekend nighttime. you chosen to forfeit your youthful years to be a mom and a spouse and if which potential your social existence gets placed on carry for now, that's what you could desire to do because of the fact your toddlers and your husband come first.
2016-10-21 12:40:41
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answered by ? 4
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Just wait until both of your marriages are final! and over with...then you can contact eachother but keep it as strict friends you dont wanna rush into another relationship after you both just got out of one that could cause some problems...
2006-11-08 16:59:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I agree with waiting until the divorces are FINAL.
After that...YOU will make the ultimate decision.
I beleive in destiny....
Good Luck :)
2006-11-08 17:12:37
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answered by Lovely 2
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just take it slow and see what developes but remember there is a reason wht he is your "EX".
2006-11-08 16:59:33
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answered by twysty 5
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