what would you do if you found out your husband was making comments about girls behind your back?...for example dangg she has some nice ****!...my boyfriend didnt do this to me but my cousins husband has said things like that in front of my brother finally he told my cousin and now shes upset!
2006-11-08 16:57:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would be upset to no girl should ever have to find out that there man are saying little comments about other girls its good that your brother told now she knows what she has..i mean i wouldnt want my family holding back things that my boyfriend did or said behind my back
2006-11-08 17:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is now between the husband and cousin - stand back and stay out of it. He shouldn't do that, but your brother shouldn't have upset your cousin with the info. best would have been for the brother to say - hey dude, that's not cool, you're married.
2006-11-09 01:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i mean guys look but they should keep there comments to there self as long as he is not touching then your cousin should be fine but don't just blow this off take it as a warning because it is a reason to get mad and if he is making comments like that then there is a chance that he might be doing something else so just watch your back
2006-11-09 01:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by kris_robinson_7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Firstly guys will be guys..Havent we secretly also drooled after that hunk who walks beside us. Some of us, say it some dont. Maybe he doesnt want to hurt ur cousin, and it could be some guys tok. If you take all these too seriously life becomes very difficult to live.
2006-11-09 01:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Maheswari M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'd be terribly upset that my husband is so crude and disrespectful of me enough that he can make comments like that to my own relatives and make them (and me) think that i'm not enough for him. i'd be so ashamed of him and his behavior. finally, i'd reflect on his physical flaws and have my cousin tell him that i periodically comment on some men's exact physical traits where his flaws are, like, "oh my gosh! look at those firm abs!" like i'm so obsessed with them
2006-11-09 01:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by out of my wit's end 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that happened to me I would be upset too. I think it's disrespectful for him to make comments like that.
2006-11-09 01:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband does it in front of me, but then again so do I. We have our own rating system. It's a fun game.
2006-11-09 00:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It degrades the feelings that you have for him.
He should keep his comments to himself from now on.
Others will begin to think that he puts you on a lower scale.
They may begin to limit their interaction with you because of his comments.
2006-11-09 01:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
unless a man is blind the thoughts are always there and most of em speak whats on thier minds my theory is i may be on a diet but i can still look at the menu i accept my hubby lookin at women and having unpure thoghts hes a person not a machine they cant be rewired or rebooted
2006-11-09 01:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
mOst of the time, a man is unhappy with his wife's figure and is indirectly suggesting that she look more like that other girl, but many times, he is just making her jealous. I do it to my girlfriend all the time
2006-11-09 01:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by agnobles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋