I dont know what it is, but women tend to go FAST with me.. we go out on a date twice, and shes in my room making love to me... I dont know, I guess theirs nothing left to talk about the next day. I guess I get bored then.. what should I do? I mean I french kiss the first date, and maybe have some petting... am I right here? I just thought that would be a good start in the dating process.. Anyway, if you can tell me the best dating process I would appreciate it. My friends tell me that I treat women as Trophies.. I dont think so, i want a relationship... I just am very picky...
2006-11-08 17:13:25 · 5 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh well, you started the fire... now are you regretting it? Haha... different girls want different approaches, you first have to know the girl so you will know how to act/react with them. if they are ok with french kissing and petting on first dates... well there's nothing wrong with it. But for any relationship, a good deal of communication is also needed. You think the girls you had dated and bedded soon enough are easy, because there's no mystery left. If you really ran out of topics, why not talk about your lovemaking and see where you both could improve, maybe then that will give you another date... and another lovemaking... lol... just a thought. Look beyond the sex...
2006-11-08 17:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first things first, I am somewhat naive so my answers will sound naive, but bear with me.
How about you restrict yourself from the whole kissing and petting kaboodle on the first date. If women go fast with you, try and slow them down. Tell them how you feel. And anyways, it is actually your choice on whether or not she goes fast.
If she wants to have sex with you, you just have to learn to say no. And if she breaks up with you on the basis that you didn't want to have sexual relationships with her so early on in the relationship than forget her. If a woman sleeps with you after 2 dates, the most likely she's done it to other men, therefore you could classify her as slutty.
I hope my naivety helped
2006-11-08 18:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by himynameiskim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her that you dont want to jump into sex too fast. A lot of times they act that way because they think it is what you want.
Just because you have the oppotunity doesnt mean you have to. She will have more respect for you, and you will have more repect for yourself if you make it clear that you want to do this by the numbers. You want to take it slow.
2006-11-08 17:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by mig_killing_pigs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't kiss on first night to see how it goes maybe they won't end up in the bedroom so soon
2006-11-08 17:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to bed with them! play hard to get If you need someone to talk to www.luckyjaden.com
2006-11-08 17:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋