Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

My problem is this that I was proposed by a collegue some time back and he did not belong to my region. I have noticed his nature and found that quite good and arranged a meeting with my brothers and parents. Now this happened almost 1 1/2 month ago and now I am almost under pressure to take decision on my marriage issue. There are 2 more proposal from my region and caste but since I have observed my collegue's nature very closely I feel he understand me and we'll have very few problems. Now family is not agreeing to this collegue's proposal and want me to agree to any other person's proposal from our side. I do not want to take any step without my family agreeing and supporting me on my decision. So there is a clash of point of views. What should I do so that no one is hurt. I am almost crushed under this burdon. If any one can help, help immediately. bye

2006-11-06 18:15:28 · 14 answers · asked by kiran t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi there!

I just got asked out on a date by this guy I don't know very well, but who has always seemed super sweet. I'm excited, but nervous, as I am just coming out of an intense yearlong relationship. Its been 6 weeks and I've done a great job doing everything I need to do to move on. But as many of you know, some days are better than others.

I really feel like I want to give this new guy a chance, but I'm worried about being fake or insincere. I'm also not one to bring up the past too soon with a new guy, but maybe thats the right thing to do? What do you think?

I heard that if you're with the right person, it doesn't matter how recent your past is...do you think this is true? Or am I kidding myself and I really just need more time? In which case, should I just come out clean with this guy and ask if we can just be friends for now and check back with eachother in a bit before dating?

2006-11-06 18:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by SummerPixie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:14:46 · 4 answers · asked by marcguks 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the deal. I'm 21 years old, I got in a relationship in nov. of 2005, its now nov. of 2006. we fell in love really fast and she moved in with me 2 months after we began the relationship. In april which was 6 months later, I proposed to her in hawaii. I really do lover her, but my past keeps coming up in my mind. Before i met her i was always partying having many relations with women and always loving it. I was always the hit of my high school and university, being the party boy and the guy that got all of the women. I constantly question myself whether i should go through with this or not. we have alreay booked the hall, church, dj, and pre-paid the dress. My family loves her, her family loves me. I am very confused. I just question myself whether i want to party more, or if i should go through. I really need some advice. It's not like I can ask my parents. Thank you

2006-11-06 18:11:40 · 20 answers · asked by buddha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you women like going down on a guy or no? and why?

2006-11-06 18:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old male in Iowa on probation (so I cant leave) I have a cock roughly 6.5 inches long and 2 inches in diameter I know how to use both it and my tongue well enough to make a woman scream in pleasure all through the night and am trying to find a way into porn of some kind (amatuer or pro) can anyone offer advice?/experiance as far as I know porn is not illegal in Iowa.

2006-11-06 18:08:39 · 11 answers · asked by friendly male9969 in IA 1 in Singles & Dating

After 3 1/2 years with a guy, whom we both lost our virginity together with, I broke up with him (went to college, long distance thing got to me). In that next month I dated another guy and had sex with him. Then I realized I made a HUGE mistake and got back together with my x. He took me back right away, said he had been crying while we were apart and all his family said he was depressed too. Now I love him more than ever, but the guilt is killing me. even though we were not together, I feel like i cheated cuz sex means a lot to him and he swore to only do it with one girl. I never told him because it will only hurt him, and there is no way he can find out unless I tell him. I think about telling him but then when I imagine how crushed and broken down hes going to be, I cant ever imagine to go through with it. I know everyone make mistakes and I should let it go BUT HOW???? HELP PLEASE!

2006-11-06 18:06:43 · 29 answers · asked by Mari 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so basically there is this guy who is a friend of mine and he went off to college outta state, we were never close until just recently when we started IMing each other,we can't seem to hold a general conversation but when it comes to talking about sex related activites the conversation is great. I've made it clear to him that I have religious values about no sex before marriage, yet we still continue to talk about what kind of activities we can do when he comes home. I am fine with the conversations because they are funny and fun. Does he think he's getting something from me when he gets home? Is this relationship going to be all about sex since thats all we can talk about? Please help me because I don't want to lead him on to thinking anything sexual is going to happen. Do you think he is just becoming closer because of the conversation topic? PLease Help all

2006-11-06 18:06:15 · 26 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:05:56 · 2 answers · asked by ganesh p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:05:36 · 18 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and he know sthat I like him and he shows signs that he likes me but he's playing really hard to get. I have to make most of the moves (like telling him I like him). I know he is really shy has this got something to do with it? What can I do to get him to make the moves?

Thankyou

2006-11-06 18:04:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was starting a relationship with this guy and suddently he pulled away, said he couldn't explain at that time and left me with a broken heart, it's been a while now, he's been calling me so we can talk. Should I go?
He has been the love of my life since I was 8, lost him for years and reunited with him when I was 15, and now at 24 this happens please help

2006-11-06 18:04:01 · 12 answers · asked by lysa24 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:02:50 · 13 answers · asked by bittu_rathi2002 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend from highschool always finds a way to contact me even if a year goes by somehow we reconnect. He tells me he loves me and that he cant leave me alone. He is highly manipulative in my opinion so should i break it to him harshly or just change my # or not answer his calls

2006-11-06 18:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by libra love 2 in Singles & Dating

k this is the problem what do u guys do when something really bad is gona happen to you at school whether u get humilated or smashed and u know that its going to happen what would u do i usually face my fears, what about u? (not saying that i dont wag!! lol)

2006-11-06 18:02:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i.e. the guy you'd be with if you hadn't met your husband/fiance/current long time boyfriend etc. Why do you think this happens (reminiscing about the past relationship etc. etc.)?

2006-11-06 18:02:27 · 7 answers · asked by Mishy 1 in Singles & Dating

Serious relationship

2006-11-06 18:01:21 · 14 answers · asked by marcguks 1 in Singles & Dating

2 great nieces and nephew was sent to my Nov. 16, 2005 because their father is in prison and mother is a drug addict with numerous other problems. Public Aid gives $202 cash and no food allowance. I have tried to get additional help to no avail. Does anyone know where I can get additional help, especially doing the holidays. Help, please

2006-11-06 18:01:09 · 7 answers · asked by getquik 1 in Family

fix it?

I sure do. Everyday!

2006-11-06 18:00:16 · 18 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

my mother in law hates me...i dont know why...but i guess i have not lived upto her STANDARDS..ot whatever...
finally me and my hausband after 4 years are moving into my own house...only 10 days are left for that...but she is not tlaking to me and giving me a lot of attitude...i wanna leave and goto my oms and stay there till my new house is ready to live in..
u think it is the right decision..
my father in law will do whatever my mother in law says....i have no support sys there...sometimes not even my husband..
please help

2006-11-06 17:59:55 · 15 answers · asked by happinezz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When my boyfriend is in the mood I can have sex like... 3 or more times a day!! seriously- I just LOVE it! The only thing is he is not always in the mood... But if I could I would have sex morning, noon, and night!!! Is this a little too much??

2006-11-06 17:58:29 · 29 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 17:57:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have not met one another(we have seen fotos of each other) though we live in neighboring cities.I met her through chat and now we are pretty good friends.In fact now we interact more through smses than chat.But not once have i called up bcos she does not want me to. She says she is not comfortable with it.Its over 2 years now we literally look to each other when we have problms and discuss them or share our day to day stuff too but still over smses.I always like to talk and talk with her on chat and smses.I enjoy every bit of my interaction with her.
What I want to ask is shud I call her up without her wanting me to? Is it not time that we met? I would surely want to see if this relationship can grow further.But at the same time I dont wanna lose her as a friend due to her misunderstanding me which happens in many close friendships.
Can anyone especially girls suggest how can I go about this?Its difficult to predict how a girl wud react hence I am asking the girls for some answers

2006-11-06 17:57:26 · 15 answers · asked by birdy1980 1 in Singles & Dating

she is dying she has cancer and now i am so broken up i can barley get out of bed anymore but my brothers hate her and my dad doesnt talk to her anymore so i have to take care of her and i love her so i dont mind it really i just dont know how to act i need to be strong for her but im breaking down! and im only 17

any advise?

2006-11-06 17:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my weight is 62kgs.. want to loose 5kgs more....that to in a month as my marriage is approaching nd i've been asked to do so and i want to slim out ...please help me out

2006-11-06 17:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by sony 1 in Weddings

2006-11-06 17:54:54 · 6 answers · asked by j4 1 in Friends

There is something I would like to ask her.
Something about problems.
Something about real life.
Something about friends.
Something about memory.

2006-11-06 17:54:04 · 2 answers · asked by zatemood 1 in Friends

He said I could choose what we do.

2006-11-06 17:53:46 · 21 answers · asked by Kelly Madison 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is it a guy will not answer me? He knows I have a BF but I told him my BF told me I couldn't talk to him anymore because my BF knows I like the other guy very much. I told him the guy I cared him too much and I should'nt talk to him anymore and to answer me if he can understand this but he won't answer me..why? because he doesn't want trouble or he cares I told him I can't talk to him anymore why can't he just tell me what he is thinking? I don't think he wants me for his GF so why can't he answer if he is a friend...he told me he could never be angry ar me...so WTF

2006-11-06 17:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

i m talking about mostly not for all boys.

2006-11-06 17:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Singles & Dating