Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

i'm just 19 and never been in love. so how can i be in love

2006-11-06 18:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by Aester G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, but i thinking of cutting him loose because of a female at work. My boyfriend constantly checks out this girl and i have caught him flirting with her behind my back. This makes me really insecure because when i met this guy i was in really good shape, but since, i have gained 50 pounds. This girl he oggles, is in top notch shape. This is not the first skinny girl he checked out. He has even told me prefers skinny women, is he abusing me as well? I know i am not ugly because i have had alot of men after me. My boyfriend also gives me alot of Food too, Why does he keep me well fed , then gawk at less attractive skinny women, i DONT GET IT!

2006-11-06 18:57:26 · 19 answers · asked by jen w 5 in Singles & Dating

What they are seeing with closed eyes, their ideal man in s_x or something else

2006-11-06 18:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad invited me and my bf to go to jamaica this past march.we had to pay $1000 each.and we did.it paid for all airfare,hoteland food expenses.we had to meet at my bf's parent house because we all lived fairly far away and that was the closest place to the airport.so we did..i was there nice and early and so was my bf.but my dad and his gf were late because his gf wasnt ready to go.we ended up missing our plane by 5 mins so we had to get new plane tickets which were $280 a piece...we didnt bring any credit cards or other ways of paying so my dads gf charged them to her credit card and we said we'd pay her back.well about 2 weeks after the vacation my dad and hisgf broke up and she wont talk to him, wont return his calls.before they broke up she asked for my phonenumber so we could pay her and she got it.she hasnt called me yet but my dadmisses her and thinks she wont talk to him because we and i owe her the money for the tickets.she hasnt called me. wouldnt she call if she wanted it?

2006-11-06 18:55:19 · 34 answers · asked by tinkerbell20 1 in Family

Yet he seems to think his money will keep him happy even though he treats other people like crap. Are wealthy people normally like this or does he have issues?

2006-11-06 18:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Friends

He is grounded for 2 weeks from the phone and the computer, which he is 15 with a girlfriend and his life right now is the phone and computer. My question is, he mainly stays in his room and watches t.v. while he is grounded. I try talking to him about normal every day things when he comes out, but he talks to me like he doesn't like me, which I can understand right now, so is it wrong for me to just let him stay in his room and not speak to him? I don't want to give him the chance to be mean to me, but I don't want to think I am ignoring him either. It's like when he gets punished/grounded, I am the one that is made to suffer for it.

2006-11-06 18:51:33 · 21 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Family

I need to know the best way to break the ice with a waitress at Chili's, Im a 19 year male, and a waitress that works there is about 18-19 years old, shes is gorgueos, and I believe she is my soul mate!!!!!!! It was love at first site, im wondering how can I break the ice with her, how can I find more information about her without approaching her, Im shy!!!!!!!! and they dont wear name tags!!!!!! it sucks!!!!! if I knew her name i could like drop her a note saying how much i liked her, but wihtout that vital information im stuck. I thought about going to lunch one day and requesting her as my server, what do you all think about that idea?

2006-11-06 18:49:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"live like you'll die today... dream like you'll live forever"

2006-11-06 18:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by James Blond 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I are together for 3 years. We are also planning to get married soon. However, there are things that I have not told him about my past and it is obvious that he is interested to know about my past. However, i think my past will only destroy us. Since we are already talking about marriage (and I have this idea that your husband should know everything about you), should I tell him about the past knowing the risk involved?

2006-11-06 18:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by Eunique06 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi girls! I would want your honest opinion on this topic. I was with this guy and his girlfriend and he started to talk about how he has sex with his girlfriend. She said “I can’t believe I am putting up hearing all this” and left. He then sat down and said “come on pal let’s play Playstation 2!” She then comes in and started to say “why is it you are always doing your stuff and not ours?” And then they go into this fight in front of me. She then started to say other guys are better than him and he replied he knew girls better than her. She leaves to her room and he started to show me his martial art moves. That’s their reaction to that question but I felt it was kinda like watching a soap opera even though they are 28. What about yours or have you ever experienced such an argument?

2006-11-06 18:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In rare cases I have seen a couple of guys who has two girlfriends at once. One of my friends has two girlfriends (holding hands one on the right and left). The three make themselves a cute couple. For the girls they feel a standout couple for him and didn’t mind at all. All three also share the same bed which I also witnessed. I too once went on a date with two girls at the same time and we all held hands. They didn’t mind. I am not sure how you would feel about that? Would you allow that? Lets be open and honest about it.

2006-11-06 18:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cute behaviors when they were small.

2006-11-06 18:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told Cupcake that I was sorry I had dinner with her friend
(just a friendly dinner) and she said that I'm full of beans.
what next? Flowers? A vacation? She said I'm borderline stupid.

2006-11-06 18:42:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

5 years, three and 1/2 yr old daughter, yelling, abuse, I pay for everything even though he has a job? He manipulates....

2006-11-06 18:42:23 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 3 1/2 years with a guy, whom we both lost our virginity together with, I broke up with him (went to college, long distance thing got to me). In that next month I dated another guy and had sex with him. Then I realized I made a HUGE mistake and got back together with my x. He took me back right away, said he had been crying while we were apart and all his family said he was depressed too. Now I love him more than ever, but the guilt is killing me. even though we were not together, I feel like i cheated cuz sex means a lot to him and he swore to only do it with one girl. I never told him because it will only hurt him, and there is no way he can find out unless I tell him. I think about telling him but then when I imagine how crushed and broken down hes going to be, I cant ever imagine to go through with it. I know everyone make mistakes and I should let it go BUT HOW???? HELP PLEASE!
P.S. I swore never to do anything like that again, I want to marry this man and I made up my mind

2006-11-06 18:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Mari 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:38:08 · 14 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:35:40 · 8 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:35:26 · 14 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a married wife with two kids. He is a married husband to 5 kids. He is 20yrs my senior. I have had an affair with this man for 2 years. He treat me like a true man should. I believed he wanted something more with me but he has left and called me once when his wife was on vacation. I dont know what i should do. am i wrong? should i stay away from him? or am i just his play thing? Help yahoo people tell me what should i do?

2006-11-06 18:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

go ahead and stick it in her when I get home from work... yes I am serious... she'll be asleep and it'll be about 3am when I get there... so my ??? is should I do the whole foreplay thing or just stick it in her (I got a great lube that will let me slide all the way in without her discomfort)??? Ladies have you ever had this done to you?? I'm kinda thinking that she literally wants to wake up to it being inside her and not just me touching her.. whatcha think???

2006-11-06 18:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by mrbubbachowpuss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 18:33:49 · 2 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Singles & Dating

she call him all the time cause she whats to make me mad and cause she know that me and him is going to have another baby he sometime dont come home he like to go out all the time that the only problem we some time have im not a 100% sure that hes doing it and i dont know if she saying that cause she want me to leave him hes a good father and a man but a can trust him and i dont know what to do! cause it dont let me be happy

2006-11-06 18:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 18:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Lyss 1 in Family

Should be hung, I do

2006-11-06 18:25:56 · 18 answers · asked by Cat Woman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i.e. the guy you'd be with if you hadn't met your husband/fiance/current long time boyfriend etc. Why do you think this happens (reminiscing about the past relationship etc. etc.)? Please see additional detail in the same post in "Singles & Dating." Thanks!!! I want to understand why this happens to me and how to stop.

2006-11-06 18:25:31 · 7 answers · asked by Mishy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it misunderstanding in btwin thm or is it they love each other so much

2006-11-06 18:23:25 · 8 answers · asked by nitya 1 in Friends

You can know my place by my previous question

2006-11-06 18:16:53 · 25 answers · asked by timepass_hain 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 18:16:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend started smoking pot a few weeks ago because of major family problems. He wants to stop, but he feels smoking's the only way he'll get out of this mess. I've tried to get him to talk to a counsler, but he wont do it. Please help me help him.

2006-11-06 18:15:44 · 8 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Friends

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I knew he had a drug problem and he quit for me and for himself. But I found out that while we were dating he took drugs again. Even though I knew in the back of my mind, and even asked him about it, he still lied to me.what should I do? I cant just let it go, I need to confront him about it. But how and what do I say?

2006-11-06 18:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5 in Singles & Dating