y do the closed friends fights often whose fault is it ?

Question

is it misunderstanding in btwin thm or is it they love each other so much

Answer 1

hahahha nitya, it happens. and that too in between closest of friends also. even i sometimes misunderstood my best friend. but u know.... even if u fight with ur friend......... u must always remember some points....

always be the first to forgive..... always be the first to call ur friend...... always be the first to listen......... always be the first to accept that u were wrong and he/she was right....... and never have any ill thot abt it.... and u will see........ u two start talking again as if nothing happened.

its also the mantra for life.
have a nice day

Answer 2

Close friends do fight and have misunderstandings. True friends always work it out and it does not really matter who is at fault. Fighting and resolving the problem helps the friend learn about each other the friendship will be stronger and healthier for it.

Answer 3

Often the cause of most fighting is jealousy. Although you may not think it, your best friend could be jealous of you over something. maybe your hair, maybe your parents. I always say, jealousy make you nasty, so the worse you fight the more jealous they are. You should take it as a compliment. You should be flattered. And rember that 2 wrongs dont make a right. Also you are close friend so you know each other very well and therfore know exactly which buttons to push to tick you off.

Answer 4

Hi,

fighting is actually sometimes good...U will be actually saying WHAT!!!R U MAD!!! It is a chance for u to understand and feel her shoes and after the fight normally u guys will be happy friends again.This allows ur friendship to go deeper...BUt sometimes when we friends fight is very irritating and we blame the others for the cause.The truth is we r at fault as well which caused the other to be mad at u and causing a fight...


here is a poem for u...

I've seen the light
And it's in you,
In everything you are
And in everything you do

It's a perfect light
That shines for all to see
It radiates from you
And has pierced the heart of me

The light is from a friend.
It's a light that keeps me warm.
It lets me know how loved I am,
And keeps me safe from harm

To you my friend I am thankful,
In each and every way.
For you lift my spirits up,
With every passing day

To know that you are there for me
It makes me feel alive
Because it is your friendship's light
Upon which my love thrives

"Thank you" isn't good enough
But they're the only words I know
It is your light of friendship
That gives my world it's glow



JUST try to bare the tragedy and be happy when is over!
Peace out:)

Answer 5

oh yes finally someone asked this question- I fight with my closest friends but then suddenly after that we all start having a feeling that we did something wrong and both the sides want to make up - I guess it's because of both love and misunderstandings

Answer 6

hello nitya ! this is all over in the world with friends, that they always fight and with each othe but its all bcoz of the depth and hidden love b/w them, which some times convert into fighthing to realize them both that "where it is Fight , there is a love" not the misunderstanding. (:P)

Answer 7

i got the same problem. mah best friend and i fight alot. and it just is happening recently. last week i just had it because i felt i cared more bout her then she did bout me. and i told her this and whoa it wasn't pretty. but point being. its all misunderstanding and lack of communication. we fight becuase we care. and the end of it all it just might bring you even closer

Answer 8

Everybody needs space for themselves once in a while.