Hi girls! I would want your honest opinion on this topic. I was with this guy and his girlfriend and he started to talk about how he has sex with his girlfriend. She said “I can’t believe I am putting up hearing all this” and left. He then sat down and said “come on pal let’s play Playstation 2!” She then comes in and started to say “why is it you are always doing your stuff and not ours?” And then they go into this fight in front of me. She then started to say other guys are better than him and he replied he knew girls better than her. She leaves to her room and he started to show me his martial art moves. That’s their reaction to that question but I felt it was kinda like watching a soap opera even though they are 28. What about yours or have you ever experienced such an argument?
2006-11-06 18:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any man that respects their girlfriend or even women in general would not do that. This guy is acting like he has to prove something.. he thinks this is cool and thinks of her as soley a sexual object - not a person. He is not appreciating the other things she has to offer - he is just obsessed with this one and feels some sick need to talk about it. If he does it again in front of you, I would interrupt him and tell him it is inappropriate to talk about her in front of her or at all and that sex with someone is and should stay private.
When I started to read this, I thought this was a 12 or 13 year old question - seriously, from the way you described the situation. That does not say much for their maturity and it sounds like neither of them should even be in a relationship when they are still that immature at 28. I would let this guy know it is totally inappropriate - maybe he doesn't get it or something. My bf would never do that - ever and no, I have not really seen anything like that.
:o)
2006-11-06 18:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember stepping on my ex-boyfriend's feet, but not stomping it, I didn't want his friends know I was hurting him even though he was hurting me in front of them.
Now....if I happen to be around his usual hangouts and I see him talking about how we got it on in bed, I will just "***** slap" that fool! Women like their privacy and their boyfriends should respect that! Of course we can also get into the conversation of how awful that moment was and that our guy only last five minutes! That should get men to keep it quiet!
2006-11-06 18:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by ddDan86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that they are both behaving so childishly in front of their
friends although you said that they are already 28. If I were that girl, I would walk off and avoid that kind of argument in front of our friends to avoid embarrasement.
2006-11-06 18:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to respect herself and get away from him. He is a no good jerk and has no respect or concern for anyone but himself. I hope that they never have any children together. The poor child would suffer endlessly. If this guy is your friend you could do better.
2006-11-06 18:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you sure they are 28? looks to me they are barely teenagers..very immature.
2006-11-06 19:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being so nosey and worry about your own life.
2006-11-06 18:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that is disrespect
2006-11-06 18:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope...
thats annoying...
gross
gross
gross
2006-11-06 18:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by akoaypilipino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋