I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I knew he had a drug problem and he quit for me and for himself. But I found out that while we were dating he took drugs again. Even though I knew in the back of my mind, and even asked him about it, he still lied to me.what should I do? I cant just let it go, I need to confront him about it. But how and what do I say?
2006-11-06 18:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell him that you are aware of his addiction problem, and offer to get him help. You can only help somebody that wants to accept your help. Your relationship with him will always come in second to his addiction with his drug of choice. You need to move on and leave this realtionship in the past. You may always love this guy, but not all love relationships are meant to last a lifetime. This is not a good healthy relationship for you. Cry a little and then pick yourself up, gather your self-esteem and move on and find happiness elsewhere. Take care of you. I wish your boyfriend luck, he'll need it! He has a long road ahead of him, before he will ever be ready to share his life with someone else.
2006-11-06 18:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think better of yourself and just move on. A person who wants to stop using drugs must want to do it for themselves. Understand that first and foremost...secondly, you are enabling his foolishness simply by wasting your time dwelling on a A_ _ hole. Don't become one with him...a good man is out there...keep it moving and live your life.
2006-11-07 03:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by No shame, No game 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to discuss it with him? You broke off the relationship with him, the fact that he never asked why makes me think he knows darn well why.
2006-11-07 02:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not have a relationship built on lies. Ask him again and if he will not be truthful to you move on.
2006-11-07 02:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP his ***! he lied and denied... tell him you are not for self-destructive guys and that life is 2 short to be waisting time with lye rs
2006-11-07 02:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by lysa24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. Stop wasting your time with him.
2006-11-07 02:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋