she call him all the time cause she whats to make me mad and cause she know that me and him is going to have another baby he sometime dont come home he like to go out all the time that the only problem we some time have im not a 100% sure that hes doing it and i dont know if she saying that cause she want me to leave him hes a good father and a man but a can trust him and i dont know what to do! cause it dont let me be happy
2006-11-06 18:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, leave him immediately...and go where? What are you leaving him for, so this girl can have him because you THINK he cheated and you want him to suffer by taking his child away from him??? You'd better get your head together, my dear. You haven't thought this through...
2006-11-06 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not married just walk away. This guy is cheating on you and you're not even married yet. You deserve much more for you and your baby....You say he's a good father but his actions are showing his child he is not.
You sound young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't use your baby as an excuse to stay in a bad situation. Let him go and find your own happiness for you and your child.
Make sure he pays child support and let him have weekend visitation. Then on the weekends he has the child you can do the things you like to do.
peace and happiness,
2006-11-07 02:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had cheated you once, I believe you will lost your trust in the guy. As to whether you should leave him, the decision lies on you. Personally if I were in your shoe, I will want him to make a clear decision on this matter coz if the matter keeps on dragging it won't help anybody in this scenrio.
There is no point for both of you to be together just for the sake of the children as both of you may have more quarrel than peaceful moments and it could affect the children while they are growing up.
2006-11-07 04:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? First of all that baby comes first. If this guy is this irresponsable he needs to be out of your life. This kind of crap irritates me because it's the kid that usually suffers the most. Get your business in order and leave him. Find someone better than some sniveling snot monster street thug that probably belongs to a gang and cheats on you. Do you like loosers? Does this joker even have a job? Find yourself a nice guy with a real job. They are out there ya know.
2006-11-07 02:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are directing you anger at the wrong person. If your baby father wants to be with you in a faithful and committed relationship he needs to make it clear to the other girl and do everything in his power to make you feel secure. He can be a good father to your children but will you be a good role model to your children if you allow them to see you stressed out and distrustful of thier father and thier father allowing it?
2006-11-07 02:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Attysholl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u believe in Jesus? if not believe now and turn away from ur sin, i don't need nothing from u but, the only think is that u repent from your ways can u? the kingdom of heaven is near, thank u and have a nice day, we love u. when u done help the poor people please
2006-11-07 02:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by PEDRTC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are holding on to something you don't need. Let go of that zero and take care of yourself and that baby. You don't need disrespect. If he can't choose his woman, maybe you need to choose yourself! Dump that jerk!
2006-11-07 02:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by pureblessingfromabove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him if he treats you this way when you are pregnant with him child how do you think he is going to treat you after you have his kid.
2006-11-07 02:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all can you pay the bills?
2006-11-07 02:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have him.he's using both of you!!
2006-11-07 02:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋