I was starting a relationship with this guy and suddently he pulled away, said he couldn't explain at that time and left me with a broken heart, it's been a while now, he's been calling me so we can talk. Should I go?
He has been the love of my life since I was 8, lost him for years and reunited with him when I was 15, and now at 24 this happens please help
2006-11-06 18:04:01 · 12 answers · asked by lysa24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to him...because otherwise you'll always be "what if"...and you don't want to think that...it will ruin your future relationships....just go for it girl!!!...it might be for real this time...
2006-11-06 18:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by YourGSpot.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is two choices don't go and move on, or go to see what he has to say for himself. If you do not go you may regret it later. If you go look him right in the eyes without looking away. It will be harder to lie to you, listen without interruption and most important show no emotion. Never let him see the pain he caused act as if you are happy and carefree. This will really get to him! Have some fun with it
2006-11-07 02:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go and see what he has to say. If you don't you will always wonder. Don't get your hopes up to high though, go to the talk with an open mind and a wall around your heart until you know whats up.
2006-11-07 02:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go. Just at least to find out why he had to go. Maybe he was not ready for a relationship and he knew that so he left. So now bc you both are mature adults he now feels he can have a relationship with you bc he is more mature now. I would go to find out what is up.
2006-11-07 02:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see what he has to say. Maybe he has an explanation to what happened years ago... and if he has a bad one, then maybe he's changed.. You dont want to live your life with knowing what couldve been or what he wanted to say to you. Definately go!
2006-11-07 02:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by pinklipstiiick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go, bring a good friend, and ask them to sit nearby. Listen to what he has to say. If he does not have a good reason, bail. If he does, check it out. Life is short, and you deserve all the best.
2006-11-07 02:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been great if you can talk to him. Better you go. If not your heart will never be at peace and you will regret it all your life
2006-11-07 02:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by SHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol mebe hes just broken up with a flame and is seeking you out to be hes good ole rebound thats always been there waiting for him.. lol hows that sound.... do you like being the 2nd one in his life....or maybe he was in jail all that time and couldnt be with you....
2006-11-07 02:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by c t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he can talk about whatever "it" is now, give him a chance. as i guy i can tell you ive been know to act a little nutty in new relationships, especially if Iwas hurt bad in the last one.
2006-11-07 02:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by foolsowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah absolutely you should go. what do you have to lose? if it falls into place again then it is most likely meant to be. take the chance. you probably at least want to know why he left.
2006-11-07 02:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋