When my boyfriend is in the mood I can have sex like... 3 or more times a day!! seriously- I just LOVE it! The only thing is he is not always in the mood... But if I could I would have sex morning, noon, and night!!! Is this a little too much??
2006-11-06 17:58:29 · 29 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 times a day is quite normal and healthy! Not to worry my dear. But don't be too sad that your bf doesn't have the mood always. Talk to him about and ask him why he isn't in the mood most of the times. Maybe a little conversation helps to settle his moods too, you'll never know a small talk can actually turn into some dirty conversations & do wonders for you.
2006-11-06 18:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say, probably, but then I can only dream of having that much sex with a young good looking woman like you. However, the issue is probably anxiety and depression. It is not hard to turn you life over to pleasure, but pleasure is only one part of life. You need improve your life in other ways.
Often, this type of repetitive behavior pattern can be caused by bouts of boredom and other emotional dead spots in your makeup.
You need to invigorate the other aspects of your emotional life. When you feel bored and emotionally ready to enjoy more stimulation, it is time to consider the options.
For the realization that you need to consider the option, you need to think through the options before you get to the point of needing to make up your mind about what you are doing next.
It is very important that you get a handle on this problem because if you don't you will be driven to behavior that is not pleasant.
So, get some more counseling. And don't feel bad about it. We all wish we could be a person like you or meet one, but we are also capable of being burnt out on the most pleasurable of things. We can all miss the higher pleasures if we misuse the common everyday pleasures.
2006-11-07 02:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys a newer couple? *grins* I ask because if the guy is really good in bed and "tickles" your fancy spot like no one else has been able to before- your desire to have relations with him is explainable.
Understand though that sex may not be the only thing on his mind. He may be more concerned that he's being used for your pleasure if it is a new relationship and may not be shallow like other guys and wants more than just great sex in a relationship. (although it is definately a bonus). remember - they are not sex machines (put in a quarter for an erection)
I say - if your sexual needs aren't being met by him - find a dirty book store and buy something to help meet your needs. It may even put him in the mood especially when you tell him that it is he you're thinking about.
Good luck
2006-11-07 02:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that at all. I am the same way. I still wear my wife out and if she only knew how much I want her she could not handle it. I like the call in sick, turn off the cell phone, Gatorade by the bed kind of sex... This is going to take a while! She is lucky that I have to work for a living or we wouldn't even need clothes... :)
2006-11-07 02:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I say that is always good plus guys like that. Worry about when you are not in the mood, or you don't have any boyfriend to have sex with.
2006-11-07 02:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by ani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Fussy, To me that is to much. Don't get me wrong i love sex to.There's no way i would beable to stay horny all the time.Women are different in many ways'. I say, good for you if you can keep it going then do so.You have to be a young girl with lots of energy to beable to have sex 3 or 4 times aday. Enjoy.
Clowmy
2006-11-07 02:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont' think so it depends on your hormone levels and sex drive in general, I was like that in my early 20's but now I have had kids my drive has dropped a bit.. though not much, if your boyfriend can't keep up with you look at alternatives for releasing yourself.
2006-11-07 02:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The stiff is fortunate to have someone like you who enjoys the art of love making. He is just worn out, and you are killing the poor fellow. He will leave the planet with a smile on his face.
2006-11-07 02:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never too much if the plumbing holds up. 8^)
Just dang... Go easy on the guy when he can't.
Feed him lots of oysters.
Sounds like he is gonna need them with you girl.
You just have a great time.
2006-11-07 02:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOPE! I'm with you on that one... isnt it supposed to be that the guys are always in the mood?
2006-11-07 02:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by pinklipstiiick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋