He said I could choose what we do.
2006-11-06 17:53:46 · 21 answers · asked by Kelly Madison 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhh, I see another person using YA has a sense of humor too.
It is only inappropriate if he didn't offer to buy you a lap dance from a stripper of your choice.
2006-11-08 19:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Save the kinky stuff for later if you honestly want to keep him. Sure you want to impress him with how open and liberated you are, but there are better ways of showing this than to take him to a strip club. Every guy I've ever known wants a woman who's innocent and wholesome on the outside, but turns into a naughty girl behind closed doors. Save the strip club outing until he really gets to know you, otherwise he might think you're too raunchy and easy.
2006-11-07 02:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mmmmm 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what message you are trying to send to this person. If you dig strip clubs and want him to get the idea that you may be an "easy" girl then go for it! Also, this relationship would most likely not last. Although, I am sure you would have a great time.
On the other hand, if this is a potential long term relationship, I would try to find a better location.
2006-11-07 01:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by sundevil21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What was YOUR purpose for wanting to go to a strip club in the first place? What message did you want to send? What reaction would you have if he starting indulging in the activities of the Club and paid little or no attention to you? I personally would have taken that date with you...my horniness would have kicked in...I would have asked you for some sex and if you had refused me, the next date with you would have been at my place and I would of made sure that a female friend of mine would be there and me and her would have sex whether you liked it or not. Playing games works both ways!
2006-11-07 02:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by No shame, No game 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is inappropriate to go to strip club on your third date. Let both of you know each other well for a month or two. Decide yourself and take your own decision and please do not take the decision just because you do not like it and he likes it.
2006-11-07 02:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell you right now: If you're going for shock value, it'll work! Most guys aren't that self-assured, so you'll probably scare him away if he's not either very cool or a badboy. If he is, you two are in for one helluva ride!! I assume you've used the first 2 dates to sort him out, so have fun Wild Child!!!
2006-11-07 02:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Third date... Kinda soon.
But they are fun if the woman is comfortable enough.
Lets face it. It isn't for real and everyone knows it.
But it is a fun game as long as you can see it that way.
It was your choice? That's a new one on me.
Quite a few women I've known ask me what they were like and I just dragged them in. ( I used to be a bouncer in one in college )
A little different but cool...
2006-11-07 01:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can't judge you on what you like to do in your romantic relationships. However, I can tell you I would NEVER take a date to a strip club.
2006-11-07 01:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From your avatar, it looks like you might already be a stripper. So is your question whether or not you should take him to see where you work on your third date? If so, sure!
2006-11-09 09:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't date a guy who takes me to strip club on a date period!
2006-11-07 01:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by dso116 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋