Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

My friend, Paul is still very much in love with first girlfriend, Ann. Due to life's events (College, Uni) they lost touch.
In the mean time, Paul and Ann met different people and married.
Paul says that Ann was always at the back of his mind. He divorced his wife and he had few relationships but nothing came out of any. I must say that his relationships failed may be due to the fact that he is still holding on and wanting to be with Ann. He says that Ann is his soul mate and no other woman will do for him.
Now, 30 years later, they met and they both still have strong feelings for each other.
She said to Paul that in 3-5 years time, when her daughters will be in Uni, she will leave her husband to be with Paul.
Paul said Ann wouldn't want them to meet (and have sex) because this will get the ball rolling and then there will be no turning back. He also said that she would agree with him seeing other women for sex only.
Is Ann going to actually leave her husband in the end or is she just giving Paul faux hopes?

2006-11-05 23:37:59 · 19 answers · asked by Me me me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby just told on hisself by showing me a funny site that promotes single women on the side of it & in the area we live which means he set up an account. He said I looked at it but I couldn't get an account & you can check up on me . The old me would of jumped on that but that mess is not worth my energy. I just can't understand why it is important for him to lie like that?

2006-11-05 23:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 23:36:10 · 32 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5 in Singles & Dating

I know i have no right to ask him, but i feel like the hole thing was fake, that he never cared about me at all, i dont want to get back with him, i just want to know wheter i was really wrong about him, so next time i wont fall i the same trap!!!!

How do i know that is want all i my head????? I feel so stupid now!

2006-11-05 23:34:37 · 14 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 23:31:06 · 22 answers · asked by Chowdary 1 in Friends

i went to the store and this guy was looking at me way to long

2006-11-05 23:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

We had already had a superficial relationship back in 2002, and now he is back wanting to live with me and having kids. I have been telling him he is going too fast, asking him to be reasonable, saying we dont know each other so well yet, but he acts like I was saying nothing? Eg. He talks about kids and I say it is too early to talk about it, so next phone call we talk about driving license, and I make a joke telling him my sister only got hers cause he had the test pregnant and they felt sorry to reprove her, then he tells me he wont let me drive when I am pregnant and that he wants to have four children? I tell him it is too early to live together and he tells me he is making plans to spend a week in my house to 'start with'? Now when he calls I make up excuses to let him go cause since he does not hear what I say, why should I bother to say anything? What is there left to do when talking does not work cause the other person ignores what you say?

2006-11-05 23:30:11 · 11 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was cheating on me with a girl he met in a different city. see hes been staying by his friends' place, in a different city, way too much. but i trusted him and thought he was just having fun with the guys since all his friends no longer lived in our area. once he told me about this other girl i got paranoid and went on myspace trying to search under her name and city. i assumed he met her through his friends but i couldnt find anyone like that. uh he told me this girl was an alcoholic and pretty boring. just as i was giving up on my retarded search i found a girl that may have fit these details. she had the first name that he told me, she was in the city that he met 'her', she talked about drinking way too much...shes a journalism major and her site sure did bore me, and her blogs seemed to talk about a guy that wasn't clear about his feelings. the blogs were around the same time my guy was cheating.. i added her. no clue why! the next day she deleted her

2006-11-05 23:29:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 23:28:56 · 4 answers · asked by Sweepy 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I go ahead and get over the fact he hates me so much?

2006-11-05 23:28:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left him in gulf ,to settle in India and take chance of business to settle together in future,he was left in Gulf to earn sufficient by the time and come but didnot because he wasted all that money he earned going with another relation, then I have to force him, because I doubted he had already had a relation ,and when he returned, he used to say U dont have colour and so u dont get job .but I tried to keep him happy for sometime ,but I am now very much interested to earn for my children who r still college ,and he doesnt show interest,now he says if u dont sleep withme I will leave u and get another relation at the age of 60, I am bit tensed with things going in the family instead of supporting and discussing , should I agree with his going out even children say let him go if he not interested in earning or interest in children
he was not so before

2006-11-05 23:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by sharadhamurtikk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What in a Male Persons mind is considered a perfect GF or Wife?

2006-11-05 23:27:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think that people who stick to this are stuck in the past? Some religions or even just people keep this rule and to be honest i think it is dated....what are your opinions?

2006-11-05 23:24:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is about my younger sister. i feel the need to help her as an elder sister. i dont want any guys to take advantage of her.
i know some mite say its her life and i should not interfere but how can i not?? shes only 20 and had a lot of problem with guys.

the thing is that she's a type of person who need a boyfriend.one she breaks off she will have another one within days.. i'm not making her out to be a slut or anything.. i find it very worrying that she is too dependant..
her previous relationships are disasterous. a few dated her for money(she was the one paying for everything during the dates, loan from her but never pays back-besides she dont earn much too)..her previous one was quite abusive. not physically but verbally and i believe it mite lead to physical abuse in the long run ..
and now she is back with one of ex-boyfriend(Bob) who cheated on her with another girl. i'm so pissed off when she told me that she is back with (BOB).

2006-11-05 23:23:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if a guy has been chasing you for ages and ages, and i mean ages, is he interested in you?
how can you tell whether or not thats part of his game?

2006-11-05 23:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked my bf not to see one of his female friend on one occassion because i felt threatened by her. He promised me that he wouldn't see her, and after she left i asked him many times if he ended up seeing her and he lied to my face by denying it. I found out a month later from her that he saw her, so he confessed. Since then he has promised me that he will never lied again, and said that seeing her that one time was important to him... should i believe anything he says?

2006-11-05 23:23:31 · 18 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about online relationships?
What do you think of long distance relationships?
Does anybody have any stories on these kinds of relationships working out? is anybody currently in one? I'm just curious and looking for some inspriation i guess, because i'm in one.
Do they really work? realstically?

2006-11-05 23:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Cultural nuisances , where to look etc

2006-11-05 23:22:43 · 3 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 23:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 23:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by Niranjan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband recently confessed to me that he had lied about some things. One of the things was huge, but the other wasn't. He has lied to me three times, and I wonder what else he has lied to me about. Aside from him being a good father and provider, the only thing he's done wrong is lie to me. Should I do a background check on him, or just hope he'll never lie to me again? I'm worried that he's done things I know nothing about, but I can't really expect him to tell me the truth, now can I?

2006-11-05 23:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by tinkerbell24 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he choose his parents rather than me but he's almost 30's to decide and yet still helping me out on money....

2006-11-05 23:18:47 · 2 answers · asked by mickaela 1 in Singles & Dating

he is an informatician. He is one of Jehovah's witness

2006-11-05 23:18:33 · 3 answers · asked by mwanaleyo 1 in Friends

how can i get a girlfriend in a highschool ?

2006-11-05 23:17:47 · 5 answers · asked by 7antera 1 in Friends

now ive living in NY with my boyfriend for 3years. he's poor in his health thats why his parents who live in foreign send money once a month. my parents want me to go back to my country without my boyfriend. because his parents and my parents almost broke. they don't afford send money. now im still a student to study english and i dont have a job. my boyfriend said if i foud any solutions to work here or pay his medical treatment , we would live here together. but if i go back my country , we can never see each other again...
i seem anxious when we can'nt make ends of meet he said to me. so he think that i feel happy if i leave to my country.
i have no idea what to do... i can't choose a boyfried or parents. how do i pay living cost and his medical treatment? please tell me and help me.

2006-11-05 23:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by meyou 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about online relationships?
What do you think of long distance relationships?
Does anybody have any stories on these kinds of relationships working out? is anybody currently in one? I'm just curious and looking for some inspriation i guess, because i'm in one.

2006-11-05 23:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 23:16:37 · 17 answers · asked by nila n 1 in Friends

I am on a Budget!!

Aged: 17/18
They're not girly girls (as in clubbing, etc) and I don't want bath stuff/body shop items suggested either.
I normally consider presents that are similar.

2006-11-05 23:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by Girl with pink in her hair 3 in Friends

Also, what do girls like in a boy? Girls answer this only

2006-11-05 23:15:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And I dont just mean friends and family but others as well.For example I started a new job two days ago and was asked three times by two boys and one girl.I've started jobs in the past and have been asked the same question several times.

2006-11-05 23:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating