I asked my bf not to see one of his female friend on one occassion because i felt threatened by her. He promised me that he wouldn't see her, and after she left i asked him many times if he ended up seeing her and he lied to my face by denying it. I found out a month later from her that he saw her, so he confessed. Since then he has promised me that he will never lied again, and said that seeing her that one time was important to him... should i believe anything he says?
2006-11-05 23:23:31 · 18 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. he is likely cheating on you. if you are kool with this, go with it, otherwise, dump him.
2006-11-05 23:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Raff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely cheating on you with this girl. Even if you confront him he will not admit it. Cheaters almost never admit to having affairs. Trust me all the things you just mentioned are signs that he is with this other girl. It's better to leave now before you get more hurt. I predict you probably won't dump him because you probably care too much for him but if you start thinking more with you head rather than your heart you will find later on that getting rid of a cheater is much better than staying with someone who will hurt you and not care about how you feel. Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
2016-05-22 03:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you can look at your relationship and see how good it is. Is this the worst thing he has done? Is he a good boyfriend otherwise? Would you be better off with or without him? Talk to him and ask why it was so important to him to see this girl. Make it clear to him why you did not want him to. In the future, remember that honest comunication can help resolve a lot of problems and misunderstanding. Talk things out rather than giving ultimatums.
2006-11-05 23:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by jicour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely feels anything for you he shouldnt of lied- the reason he probably did was to not hurt your feelings up front. But then again - if hes with you then noone else should matter right? Be wary.
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2006-11-05 23:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by The Kidd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said why he had to see her that one time, was it just as a friend or was it more than that.... if it was so important to him then you should trust that he has finalised whatever it was that he had to say. If he lets you down a second time then you should reconsider whether he can be trusted though.
2006-11-05 23:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by friendly face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lied once, he'll do it again. What about the next time she comes to town? Can you really believe he won't see her again? Move on and be happier. I'm sorry this happened to you.
2006-11-05 23:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he cheated on you, or just hung out with her?
That's an important question. If he cheated, dump him. If not, give him a second chance, but watch him closely. Hold him to his promise.
2006-11-05 23:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once someone lies to you it is hard to trust them again. Is it worth ending the relationship over? Or can you trust him again? Only you can answer that question.
2006-11-05 23:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you trust him or not,if this girl is just a friend then it's your insecurity with the situation that's the problem, you can't really tell another person who they can and can't be friends with even if he is your boyfriend,would you be saying this if it was a male buddy?
2006-11-05 23:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should not quit him until you know the correct reason
why he met her. Between two persons trust is important
before taking any decision think twice and think from his angle too.
2006-11-05 23:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by jagadesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I wouldn´t trust him anymore, he lied to your face!!! if he really felt he needed to see this girl he should have told you and then it would have been up to you if you could live with the reasons (maybe closure of a relationship???) or not...GOOD LUCK
2006-11-05 23:29:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋