Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

we have argued alot of the times about little things and i have had enough had any1 got any advice

2006-11-05 21:20:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-05 21:18:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 years, my husband is 25 years old then me. And he loves me very much, I was very happy with him until last summer when he was away for one month on a business trip. Then I fell in love with my colleague who was then just joined the company for a couple of month. My colleague is also married, so we had a love affair! Both of us didn’t plan to do it, but it was just happened. My colleague his wife lives in North of country and our company is in South. Therefore, they only see each other during the weekends. Anyway, my husband came back from his trip, I thought I would stop seeing my colleague, but I couldn’t, I am so in love with him!!! Sadly!! However, 4 weeks ago, my colleague resigned after only has been in the company for 6 months!!! No one know the reason, he just said he had family problems etc…I think his wife might found out somehow that we were seeing each other, or ….then he moved back to North, since then, I only had a few e-mails from him. He said he has problems with his aging parents and his children who need more looking after etc…to me, these aren’t real reasons for him to resign, as he had a very well paid position, it is almost impossible to have another same position again in his life ( because his age etc.) the sad thing was he didn’t tell me he was going to leave the company and back to North, didn’t even say ‘good bye’ to me, maybe he didn’t have time, I don’t know… but I miss him badly during last 4 weeks…it became like torture to me, also I have to pretend nothing happened when my husband is around…this love affair just like ‘ The Bridges of Madison County’ what can I do……………….. please help.. thanks

2006-11-05 21:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mums Husbands is a nasty piece of work to say the least, he acts very childish, and petty.
I'm at the stage now where i do not know what to do, i hate argueing with him as it upsets my mum.
He acts like this big hard man, who has to have control over everything, he has only been part of my mum life for about 2 years, i am not the selfish type of person, and i have always wanted my mum to be happy, and have never stood in the way of that.
Has anyone have any Ideas of how i can chill out and calm my temper and anger where he is concerned.
I spend most of my time in my room and only go downstairs to get some food, or do some washing etc...
Please any advise will be much appreciated.
Thank you in advance

2006-11-05 21:14:47 · 24 answers · asked by Angel666 3 in Family

Like boys don come to you

2006-11-05 21:13:12 · 8 answers · asked by Micky 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex of three months from summer of 2005 is still in touch with me via text message. We broke up because he just runs a mile when things get serious with a girl or so he claims. He text me last Monday asking how I was etc. I ignored the text, then last Saturday Night, he text me again, asking why I didnt reply etc. It basically came down to me telling him I have to move on and asked him why he was still in touch. He said he liked me alot and would like to be a with a woman with my personality but gets scary around women when things look serious. I want to text him this morning and say my goodbyes to him because this is really hard for me, still being in touch. He doesnt want committment but I do. Whats the best way of saying goodbye in a text message to him without being harsh?

2006-11-05 21:11:05 · 10 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously, I'm 24- and I've never successfully been able to get over a guy without finding someone new or just moving away. Is there a better way, or do I just need to wait it out and let time do its thing?

2006-11-05 21:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by Kara 3 in Singles & Dating

Always putting us on hold?? Why does the thought of "COMMITMENT" scare them? Why do they like sleeping with as many girls as poss?

2006-11-05 21:08:22 · 17 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend and i started dating his ex-wife was always calling because this or that was broken or she wanted this or that repaired.It was so bad, he would call, i am coming over. He does not show up, an hour later calls. I asked, where are you? well my ex called, she wanted me to come down and check on this or that.I will be there Or, he would come over, we had plans and i would say. should'nt we be getting ready? Well, yes but, my ex called and i need to go down and see what her problem is. It was constant. Finally i told him, why don't you go live with her? All you do is run to her becon call? She treatened to keep their 14 year old son from him. She says she cannot afford to hire a plumber or anyone else yet goes on road trips every week-end and sometimes through the week, out of state trips. I would not mind him helping her once in awhile but when it is constant and then to play the kid card if feel is wrong. Per court order he pays he good money. She needs to manage better.

2006-11-05 21:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by shyone 3 in Singles & Dating

On the weekend I went to my cousins wedding, at the wedding was my first boyfriend from primary school. I have not spoken to him for at least 15 years. He came up to me and he told me things about my life, he knew where I had previously lived, how long I was with my last boyfriend, what our song was in primary school and asked what had happened to the relationship in primary school. The situation for me is I want to know how he came to know this information and if we could keep in touch with each other. Do you think that I should ring him to ask him how he came to get this information and do you think that I should keep in contact with him?

2006-11-05 21:07:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need someone to talk to or someone to give me advice...

I'm 15 and homeschooled, I love it. I get my social activities and my friends from Church. I have a very loving boyfriend, I always want to be with him; I have faith I will be. Please, don't critisize me for believing that at "so young" up until now, it's the only love I know, so maybe I'm being naive. But I believe it.

Lately, I have been having a lot of problems with people at church. On a few occasions, a friend would be having some problems so I would use my cellphone to text with them or we would pass notes during service (usually only when it was something we'd heard before.) And some of my more -brainwashed- friends (They have a very strict way of how church should be) mentioned something and now all they do is make fun of me and won't talk to me.
There are also horribe rumors going around, saying I want to have sex and everything.
They won't even talk to some of my remaining, close friends.

2006-11-05 21:06:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok there is a guy who I like. He ignores me. He asks for my friends emails but not mine. Even if I'm standing right there. And if he needs help with something, he will always ask one of my friends, even if I'm the most convenient one. He will only ask me if thers no one else to go to. He also mutters ********* when he walks past me sometimes, and its obvious he wants me to hear. But I catch him staring at me a lot. Does he like me? If he does, is he worth it?
One thing you need to know about this guy... he is a 'jock'. He acts cool and tough. Do you think this has anything to do with it?

2006-11-05 21:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by Pennexx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you think about 3 girls getting it on. but i am getting married. i see the 2 girls every day. they don't know how i feel, i think?

2006-11-05 21:03:26 · 15 answers · asked by Hotrod Hoender 4 in Singles & Dating

(1) if you ask a guy out for drinks and he says yes, but rather than making a "date" he says, just call me when your in town next(as we live in different towns), is he really interested? ..................

(2) I have met him a few times and we have kissed eachother. he does show all the signs that he likes me, but he still hasnt asked me out on a proper date. its still, give me a call when your next in town. i came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago, could he just be playing it cool because of this?he knows about my past relationship as i met this guy thru my ex. hes not a friend of my ex and i didnt split with my ex for this guy.
this guy has been chasing me for ages, even when i was with my ex.

2006-11-05 21:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 24 married with 3 great childern, ages 4, 6, 7, my husband works graveyard, and well sometimes i just feel like crying or sleeping, i am also scared that about nine months ago my husband cheated on me, so i ve been obsessing over every lil thing that i find different on my body. does evey wife act or think like this if they suspect their husband of going outside their marriage...

2006-11-05 21:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 21:00:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guy for 15 years, but, I know I really love him. I know he has feelings for me too. Any suggestions?

2006-11-05 21:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by serenitie51 3 in Friends

2006-11-05 20:58:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went camping on the weekend with friends,and my ex-girlfriend was there.And now that ive seen her again i started being love sick all over again. i still love her so much but it does not look like she was affected by our relationship at all, although she used to love me just as much.She left me after 2 years because she did not want to be in a relationship anymore. How do i get over the love of my life,im a grown man but feel like crying like a baby the whole day becuase it just feels like we should be together.

2006-11-05 20:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by the one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 20:57:37 · 9 answers · asked by kasid17 1 in Singles & Dating

do i tell him i have caused an abortion before and that i have slept around with several men.anyway am no more into it and i have not had sex with him and i intend not to until he marries me help me

2006-11-05 20:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by abenabox 2 in Singles & Dating

Waiting For Her / Him

2006-11-05 20:52:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Then he checked himself into rehab. My husband, his step-dad won't let him come back because he broke the rules when he lived with us. ??

2006-11-05 20:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by lmjhoosier 1 in Family

My wife and I split up about 4 weeks ago. We have both come to the conclusion that we still very much love each other, miss each other, and want to be together. But, she wants to wait 6 months. I'm stumped.

She tells me I am the one. She says she wants us to be together more than anything. I feel the same way and tell her lets work it out. But we can't seem to agree on the right method.

She believes that pushing it off for 6 months or so, finishing the divorce, and moving on with our lives (accomplishing our life goals, etc), then come back and see "how we feel" then is the best answer. She says that feels "right".

I, on the other hand, believe the opposite. I think that pushing it off for 6 months, ending the marraige, and "getting on with life" would be the death sentence for the relationship. I believe that if we both truly love each other and truly want to be together, that we should work on it as a couple. Marriage counceling, discussions, compromises, etc. Am I wrong?

2006-11-05 20:49:02 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend thinks it's 100% legal and I disagree. I believe it's illegal up to third cousins. Cause if you have a child with your third cousin there can still be problems... Please answer ASAP.

2006-11-05 20:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by Barbie73 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 20:48:08 · 2 answers · asked by msaquariuscg 2 in Weddings

Any advice in how to speak something to turn my bf in bed?
He is really in love, but want to spice things more up...!

2006-11-05 20:45:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met around 4 months back. since then, we have just chatted over the phone. But, recently i proposed her and she accepted (Its, our wish, please no objectiosn to that). Now we were planning to meet, but she is not feeling comfortable in facing me. Why is this so? (please girls answer)
Also we love each other and maybe this will be last time in the year that we might meet, Our parents know about us. I really want to meet her. So how do i help her overcome this fear? She has a fear, that we might land up in a situation that we would like to meet again and again and being in college, she doesn't want to be crazy about me. Already we are so crazy that we can't live without listening to each others voice.
Please help me guys and gals....

2006-11-05 20:39:55 · 19 answers · asked by AB 2 in Singles & Dating

When my guy and i broke up, we saw each other 4 the "last time" and he told me of how i have a choice, either to be with him while his going out wit this other girl or i can leave. I felt so humiliated and insulted. And that he had no respect for woman although i just found that out and all the time weve been dating i never knew he was such a scumbag.
Did i do the wrong thing seeing him for the last time, and am i simply angry or is he really a jerk?

2006-11-05 20:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by Tahisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 20:39:10 · 8 answers · asked by Hmmm 1 in Singles & Dating