Always putting us on hold?? Why does the thought of "COMMITMENT" scare them? Why do they like sleeping with as many girls as poss?
2006-11-05 21:08:22 · 17 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and by the way. i have been seeing the same guy for over 2 years but it feels like im not good enough to be his girl... if he didnt like me then why is he still sleeping with me, he's a good looking guy, he can have lots of women
2006-11-05 21:23:49 · update #1
Because some men are pigs! The very thought of committment, and thus monogamous behaviour, scares the sh** out of some guys. You think that a smart guy would stop, think, and realize that committment means no fears of diseases, a reliable steady supply of sex, and a satisfying relationship................ but sadly,............ most men are still not as evolved as women
2006-11-05 21:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Men don't actually have a fear of commitment. Saying men have a fear of commitment is like saying dogs have a fear of cats. We just don't like commitment. If a guy finds someone he wants to commit to he will do it without hesitation. So if a guy won't commit to you, it's because he isn't that into you. You should move on and find someone who is. They like sleeping with as many girls as possible because sex is fun and they aren't mature enough to think about the consequences yet. Find a guy who isn't like this and date him.
2006-11-05 21:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They're not all bad... you're just going for the wrong ones Hun! You'll find him eventually. (Probably when you've given up, he'll find you!)
There are a lot of guys out there who DO want commitment, The so called "players" just give them all a bad name! Some women can be just as bad tho!
2006-11-05 21:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls do the same. Tupac had a name for gold diggers: B*TCH.
This is sad and it is going to happen no matter what people believe.
They call it "sowing their oats."
They are not scared of commitment they just want to have fun before settling down,but some never do.
2006-11-05 21:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they put us on hold, cause they want to see what you would say after. The thought of commitment scares them, cause they think that its gonna be more you and less of "them". And they like sleeping with as many girls as poss. because it gives them something to brag about to their jack@$$ed friends. But some are not like that, it's your job to find them.
2006-11-05 21:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You use the word "like". That is the problem. He probably does "like" you. Certainly he doesn't mind having sex with you. You want a man who "loves" you.
A man who "loves" you will only want to sleep with you, not hurt you and be committed to you.
Go and find someone better than this half hearted relationship. If he wants to use girls for sex, let him. Just don't let it be you!
2006-11-05 21:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It’s because girls give so much trouble! Though they are sweet creatures but sometime boys need a break from the nagging and stuff.
If you’re good-looking you shouldn’t let your man take advantage of you because of his looks and the fact that he can get many other girls. You should be self-confident that he wouldn’t get anyone like you; you’re unique!
2006-11-05 22:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by ddman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all men are the same - i was the commited one with my ex - it was she that walked away!!
2006-11-05 22:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read "men are from mars and women are from venus". You will soon realise that men and women are not alike.
Good luck.
2006-11-05 21:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Rich T 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not all opf them do that ,,k iam waiting 4 one committed relationship ..but it never came yet ..so u cant blame us alone ..and i will wait till iut comes,..
2006-11-05 21:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by hezaz007 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋