How come you're cool and funny with regular people but a blabbering clumsy mess with the one you really like?

Answer 1

Because with regular people, you're just relaxed and confident and being yourself, youre cool, then that hot guy/girl comes around and nerves get the better of us. We become unsure of how to act or what to say...we start blabbing to avoid awkward silences...its like being under a spotlight and youre crush the only audience peering at you...

Answer 2

It happens to me too, and the best of us all.

You're probably super duper nervous in front of your uber-crush, and the fear of messing up is making you klutzy and messed up.

But you know what? If the guy is into you too, he'd probably feel the same way too, so he won't notice that you are a clumsy mess
...and it's actually kinda cute to be blabbering BECAUSE you're SO into him that made you lose the grip on yourself.. :D

Answer 3

One word, "CONSCIOUSNESS". Normally, you're conscious when you see the person you really like, try to look cool but end up doing goofy stuff. Well sometimes, being goofy is cute but it will not work all the time with the apple of your eye. He/She may be somewhat find your gestures exaggerated. It may be difficult for you but you should know that the only way to make someone like you is yo be yourself. Don't be conscious enough to make you fall in embarrassment. Instead, do the things you're doing at that moment with calmness to avoid looking like a fool.

Answer 4

Totally know what you mean. That's life. You are relaxed and in your element when you are around the people you feel comfortable with. But when you are with someone you like, one tends to over think a little too much. My advice, (I know it's easier said than done), just relax. It will work out in the end. Failing that, a couple of pints should help...

Answer 5

God has a great sense of humour! No, it's obvious, the more you care, the more you worry about messing up, which in turn gets in the way of being happy and relaxed around them. Focus on relaxing in their company and they'll love you for that, no point in trying too hard, never works. Good luck!

Answer 6

that is definitely normal. because you are often nervous when you are with someone you like. but it is better if you can control it so you wouldn't be too obvious. try to think of the person as a friend if you can do so, you can act naturally as the way you act to regular people around you. hope that helped.

Answer 7

oh god I know what you mean! I find its because my brain is running at a million miles an hour , but find that if I relax and focus on what Im talking about things get easier.

Answer 8

Because you're nervous and afraid to say the wrong thing

Answer 9

tats because its human nature when u r close t some one ur ner ves begin ti tingle .... its all a part oflife..

Answer 10

SHAME, IT'S NATURE