I went camping on the weekend with friends,and my ex-girlfriend was there.And now that ive seen her again i started being love sick all over again. i still love her so much but it does not look like she was affected by our relationship at all, although she used to love me just as much.She left me after 2 years because she did not want to be in a relationship anymore. How do i get over the love of my life,im a grown man but feel like crying like a baby the whole day becuase it just feels like we should be together.
2006-11-05 20:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by the one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very difficult getting over a person, especially when you didn't want it to end. It took me over 2 years to start moving on after XDH called our marriage quits. I never saw it coming, and it hit me hard - but ya' know what?...... it's his loss.
Your Ex GF will figure out her loss eventually. In the meantime, you gotta live for you. Take your time - don't rush into a new relationship until you know you are free of your baggage.
Good Luck fellow traveller on the road of life!
2006-11-05 21:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when i say that you don't love this girl. Do you know why, you met her in camp and all the feelings came back again. Before you went to camp, how did you feel then? You were moving on and BAM! she came back and you begn feeling this way. Its more of ''infatuation/missing all those good times all over again''. Its also obvious that she has moved on as well since she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore.
I suggest you avoid her as much as possible and get involved or make friends with other people so that you won't think too much of her. Love has to be reciprocal for it to work and if she is the one for you, she would come back.
2006-11-05 21:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then go ahead and cry for awhile. And if you rather not have anyone see you because of your pride then go inside a closet and do it. And take it from a girl. When she says that she isn't for a relationship right now, it means that she isn't. Try to accept that as what she wants. Take this time to rediscover yourself and do other things that make you happy. And if your life revolved around her, get a new one. I know i might sound a little harsh, but its true. Good luck! =D
2006-11-05 21:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is natural. But don't over doo.
Just think about the pain you suffered 2 yrs back and feel that thing and recall how you forget her.
If you still love her then love her decision also. If she don't like to talk to you anymore then respect her / or hate her but don't cry for her.
Don't listen sad songs these days..
2006-11-05 21:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by heart_intelligence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to watch your dreams die.
I often think of a line in the song "Relight my Fire".
"I've got to be strong enough to walk on through the night,
there's a new day on the other side.
Got to have hope in my soul,
and keep on walking."
And remember, she did you a favor.
If she didn't let you go, then she would only cause you more pain in the future.
At least she was woman enough to let you go.
Now you are free to find the love that is really yours.
Have faith.
2006-11-05 21:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you should ask her if there is any hope of the two of you getting back together and if she says no then you need to scrape yourself off the floor and move on with your life you'll never be able to get over it until you know exactly where she stands
good luck
2006-11-05 21:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends, Go out on dates, Fill your head with other stuff
2006-11-05 21:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Oops! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an another beauty & roam around your ex.
2006-11-05 21:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by ramasamy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it\'s usefull for a guy to be forsaken and he\'ll understand how much he loves-will be alesson to your futire,forget her practise sport go to meet new people
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2006-11-05 21:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get laid.
you'll feel GREAT.
knock off that crying sh*t too.
2006-11-05 21:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋