Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

I've lost 42 pounds dieting and exercising so far and I notice I'm not losing the belly fat. It's like a seperate person and it's hanging on for dear life! I'm using the exercise ball and chairs as my surface for the 3 to 400 crunches and elevated situps that I do per day. I have rock hard abs that can be felt when I push on them but the fat oozes off to the side and sloshes back into place afterwards covering up the spots that I pressed on. I can't afford to think about the word surgery let alone actually paying to have it so any other suggestion?

2006-11-05 19:18:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is amazing in so many ways except he has this one problem . his ego! he is an actor and we have been together for 3 years. i have always trusted him up untill the last year. im very intuitive and im trying to learn to trust my gut cause it is seldomly wrong. last year i trusted my gut and i looked at his messages (so unlike me) and i found messages of a sexual nature to and from an actress. i confronted him and he first tried to lie but then admitted it but said nothing had happened and it was his ego blah blah blah! i forgave. like i said he is an actor and he wants it bad and in the begging of the year he was caught doing a publicity stunt with a very well known celebrity and he broke up with me for his career. he tried very hard to get me back and he did. now i found more messages to and from another girl sexual too but also seems more. he said it was nothing just flirtations and he would never be with anyone else and he loves me blah blah. my gut is grumbling. but i love him.

2006-11-05 19:15:48 · 11 answers · asked by serendipity 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 19:15:42 · 3 answers · asked by cj r 2 in Singles & Dating

that would make you fall in love with her, or possibly marry her, or just for a really really long relationship.? I"m not exactly talking about looks from from honesty-romantic- educated, ... etc. etc.

2006-11-05 19:13:37 · 6 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Singles & Dating

Whe all the time a male proposes for sex though the females are also equal interested but in very rare cases they speak of it or proposes why is it so?

2006-11-05 19:13:23 · 6 answers · asked by hm_pearl 3 in Singles & Dating

sometime they made people quarrel and make our community distracted in this kind of atitude?whould you help me so that they will be having the case that can make them stop and have punishment that they have diserve?thank you very much.

2006-11-05 19:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by jingkins24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok-so I met a guy...very cute, about 3 weeks ago when I was out with some mutual friends of ours. I had heard of him before, but neither of us had actually ever met. We ended up talking like crazy that night, and by the time I got home, he found me (throug friends) online and started contacting me. A week later he invited me out with he and his friend. I didn't think much of it initially because he is VERY attractive and is older than I (7 years). After hanging out with him and his friend, we started "hanging out" at least two or three times a week the past 3 weeks. I was sick with mono the last few weeks (he knows), but he has continued to show interest in getting to know me. We have a great time together, go get coffee, talk for hours, go over each others places. A week or so ago he started hugging me goodbye...but I worry he isn't into me because we haven't kissed. I have been sick and hope thats why. He has talked to his friends about me, but I don't know whats been said. Ideas?!

2006-11-05 19:08:55 · 25 answers · asked by ItsAllinTheEyes 1 in Singles & Dating

iam hate to face a problem during the marriege interval,looking to married a wisedom girl...

2006-11-05 19:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by abdul-samad s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We need the toilet fixed and a tradesman just called to arrange a time. Hubby said, " It has to be a weekend." and the tradesman says it can't be done then so my hubby says, " okay then" and hangs up.

Great, so now we have no guy coming out to fix the loo.

How do I fix this? Call the tradesman back and apologise?? what?

2006-11-05 19:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I am young and still very optimistic about finding the right girl. But as I am dating and thinking things are going good or should I say perfect, it sucks to get hurt, especially out of nowhere. Examples. My last two girls friends, I took them out all the time. Atleast once a week or sometimes twice. I bought them stuff. Told them how beautiful they were everyday. I got the first one a $600 ring just for being my girlfriend. Never yelled, fought, or argued. Cause I dont argue, aint nothing worth it. And on the flip side, they would tell me how perfect I was.. how nice I was, they even went as far as saying that they werent good enough for me. Yet I am still the one to get dumped. Now I know Ill eventually find the right girl. But man does it suck when you think you already have. Oh and I am not unattractive at all. And I dont go for drop dead gorgeous girls. As long as their cute its fine. I am not very shallow. I am nice and good lookin and always had a job. So dont assume..

2006-11-05 19:05:12 · 9 answers · asked by Cody B 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there anything wrong with going out with ur ex's best friend?

2006-11-05 19:04:21 · 6 answers · asked by Alkaz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 19:03:13 · 4 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

U no how an angry alchoholic gets when hes drunk? Thats how my boyfriend is only with video games Weve been 2gether 3 months now& it was one of those spark moments I met him@ a dance neither of us planned 2go2 I love him& he loves me but something is bugging me hes very in2 video games& it never used 2b this way but it progressed& he swears& yells at the game& even hits his keyboard& it scares me When I confront him about it he only gets angry@ me His major in college is computer programming so it was understandable at first We do spend alot of time together& a friend said that his only time2 himself was playing video games even when i was in the room Hes told me2 either leave him or get used2 it b/c he liked video games& whenever i want time with him hes always playing games Lately hes gotten really aggravated& sometimes he randomly gets annoyed@ me is this a bad sign? What should I do get him help or douthink our relationship is dying? He says hewants2marryme though so wut do uthink?

2006-11-05 19:01:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. We have a 10 month old daughter together. I really love my husband but he is driving me up the wall with his jealousy issuses. We both have myspace pages and I have friends on mine that I went to school with. He gets mad at every little comment they send me but yet he has girls on his page and I don't trip cause I trust him. I even put up pics of him on my page! I haven't done anything to make him not trust me! I also have two very close friends that are men (whom I grew up with) and I can't even talk to them on the phone much less actually visit them cause he will trip out on me. He questions every move I make and I can't take it any longer. What can I do to make him understand that I am married to HIM cause HE is the one I want to be with!



When it comes to my page....
You can check out my page and if you think that I am doing something wrong, let me know cause I think I'm in the right!
myspace/kristinspassion

2006-11-05 19:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it becuase my mom makes more income that my dad? they are alwayz fighting and constantly yelling at eachother?

2006-11-05 18:57:25 · 15 answers · asked by Andrew N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 18:50:57 · 12 answers · asked by Andrew N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got divorced two years ago and haven't had an intercourse since then.I have a little boy so it is impossible for me to have another man in my life.infact,I don' want to.what is the best way to get a pleasure?will vibrator work as they say?

2006-11-05 18:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by Tukaka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 18:50:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this great friend i met at a party, the attraction was there, we exchanged numbers and have been good friends for quite a few months. He fell for me and still likes me but i don't like him enough to make a relationship worthwhile, and he knows this and still wants to be friends.

The attraction is there, physically he is very attractive and while with my boyfriend i felt like i couldn't trust myself around him. Now i'm single (i got dumped due to there bein another chick).

The thing is, i've been used by every single guy i've slept with. For once, i have a chance to sleep with a guy who actually cares about me. I don't know what it's like to be anything other than an object.

But is this selfish? will i hurt him by sleeping with him yet by not dating him? he was cool with making out infront of his mates for some fun and mentioned it would just make us stronger as i was cautious about it.

I'm not sure what to do, i'm so attracted to him, yet, i don't want to hurt him.

2006-11-05 18:47:34 · 16 answers · asked by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 18:47:21 · 3 answers · asked by Kurtis 2 in Singles & Dating

I am kind of dumb when it comes to this.

2006-11-05 18:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by alwaysthebestanswer 2 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to stop thinking like this? How do I get him to notice me in that way?

2006-11-05 18:46:06 · 10 answers · asked by yowww kelly clarkson 4 in Singles & Dating

to follow up on that questions i asked about " if i was making a mistake", the irony about the whole thing is, when we first met she begged me not to give up on her because she was having some family and friend problems etc, and she thought i was going to back out on her too and i told her i loved her and she could always depend on me to be there for her . and as it turns out, in the end, she was the one that gave up. im the guy that was always there for her and she knew i was a good guy and she could trust me not to never cheat on her and could depend on me, and delt with her sickenesses, mood swings etc...and another guy is having a child with her. something we always talked about having. seems like the other guy always is the one that gets your girl even though you put in all the work and trust in. how ironic is that

2006-11-05 18:42:51 · 4 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 18:42:10 · 14 answers · asked by Vivek s 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do ex wives like to cause so much trouble when it comes to letting the men see their children?

I am an ex wife myself, and I have no problems letting my daughters see their father, I encourage it whole heartdly..........just because it didnt work out with him and I doesnt mean the children should suffer.

I am in a new relationship , well (12 months)........but my new mans ex wife is shocking..........she just wont let him see the kids, she flatly refuses, and you can tell by what they say that she says horrible things about him. We are currently in the middle of getting court orders just so he can have any kind of visitation.

And even though we have been dating for 12 months, she doesnt know about me as yet, as I havnt even met the kids, he has only had very limited time with them this year, a total of 9 days.......I wonder what will happen once she actually finds out hes dating.....lol...(my bad).

2006-11-05 18:41:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for a year I just found out when we had been dating for like a month he dated another girl for like 2 weeks he never told me and I heard about it and asked him he said it never happened but now I know differently I wont get to see him or talk to him till thursday should I break up with him or stay with him what should I say to him.

2006-11-05 18:41:05 · 15 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

Im in a close to three year relationship... Im 25... I want more from my boyfriend and he says he will not be ready for years...

2006-11-05 18:40:30 · 11 answers · asked by Sunshynebeams 3 in Singles & Dating

sexual inadequate?

2006-11-05 18:40:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 18:38:26 · 4 answers · asked by turnertot1992 2 in Singles & Dating

im haveing problems alot i like her but she think she i dont like her

2006-11-05 18:35:56 · 13 answers · asked by watismeaning 2 in Singles & Dating