What can I do to stop thinking like this? How do I get him to notice me in that way?
2006-11-05 18:46:06 · 10 answers · asked by yowww kelly clarkson 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all you need to think why you think that way.. is it because your personality? or is it because the way you look?? try to fix what you think is not good enough.. but try to be yourself.. you dont wanna change to much of yourself..
I always think that if someone loves me, he have to love for who I am.. not what he wants me to be..
the really important think is be confident about your self, nobody is perfect and will never be.. is not you who judge if you are good enough for someone, is that person who judge are you perfect for him or not.. so just try to be yourself.. if he doesn't appreciate who you really are, then there must be another guy who appreciate more than he does..
2006-11-05 19:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by L-j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appearances can be deceiving. Sometimes the people that appear to have it all together are really pretty hollow on the inside. It's useless to compare yourself to others because you have no idea what is going on in someone else's heart. Don't worry about how you compare to your crush, appreciate yourself for who you are as an individual.
As for him noticing you, you can do things to get his attention but the reality is that you just can't make a person fall in love with you if they are not that into you. You can try to catch his eye by smiling while making eye contact, complimenting him on how well he did something/how great he is at something, asking him for help (even if you don't really need it) - stuff like that.
My advice is not to inflate this guy into something bigger and more important than he really is. Your character and your qualities and your strengths will still be a part of you and you will still have much value as a person whether this guy is interested in your or not. Appreciate yourself and let the guys come to you. Things will happen in due time, just hang in there.
2006-11-06 03:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lyf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you want your dream guy to be everything and perfect, so knowing yourself you aren't any where near perfection, none of are. So stop idolizing and see this person the way you would if not in love.
If you want him to notice you, find a balance between what he loves and your strengths and then show them off in front of him. And do it in the most femanent way possible.
2006-11-06 02:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Trevor L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In order to stop thinking like this you need to ignore reality. Then to get him to notice you, just talk to him and hope you can find something that really interests him and catches his attention.
2006-11-06 02:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think that! MAKE him notice you. don't be shy and hope he see's you! go up to him and get noticed! and you are good enough! you just have to work for it! talk to him and ask him out! just get out of your shell! and flirt! don't think it can't happen! cuz as long as you are there it can! be connfident! and you will win him over~ good luck,girl!
2006-11-06 02:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the decision about whether you are good enough for him. Be honest and you will get your answer soon enough.
2006-11-06 02:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have that kind of mind, trust me u wil not go far. Ignore him. he might come around
2006-11-06 02:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Alkaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. HE IS PROBABLY THINKING THE SAME THING ABOUT YOU!! ASK HIM OUT BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE DOES!
2006-11-06 02:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you don't deserve him. Don't you think he deserves someone with more self esteem? Are you calling him a poor judge of character?
2006-11-06 02:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't act like that. CONFIDENCE IS WHAT MAKES A WOMAN SEXY! I promise!
2006-11-06 02:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋