sexual inadequate?
2006-11-05 18:40:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but your relationship is lacking a lot and sounds inadequate, for both of you.
2006-11-05 18:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so let me get this straight, you cheat on him and then wonder why he's pissed?
He wanted a threesome, not for you to go with another man behind his back. There is a huge difference and no it does not make him sexually inadequate!
Sounds like he wanted to spice up your love life and you just threw it all back in his face by sleeping with another guy behind his back! You've broken the trust between you.
I don't even think its about the actually act of sleeping with someone else that he's pissed, its most likely the fact you did it and cant see that it is wrong!
2006-11-05 19:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea. That really depends of your own thinking and mindset of having a 3-some. For me, a 3-some is another step near the edge. I would rather stick with normal sexual intercourse. Have you ever thought about it why is there a need to have 3-some? A 3-some normally satisfies a guy's need and sexual fantasy but not for ladies. So pls think carefully before you've any regrets. There shall be no turning back if things really take place.
2006-11-05 20:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had an affair I would believe that he would be questioning why the threesome. There is already bad water here and the relationship needs to be healthy before you can think of inviting others into it.
2006-11-07 00:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a threesome has everyones consent. You having an affair, was sneaky and did not have everyones consent. There is a lot of difference between the two.
2006-11-05 19:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by PRINCESSKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No his idea of a threesome probably involved you him and another person with all parties fully consenting and aware, you putting it about behind his back probably never really crossed his mind, his request may seem a little out of the ordinary to some but your behaviour was just plain selfish
2006-11-05 19:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no - how would you feel if he had an affair and then called you frigid for being upset by it?
Unless of course you have some kind of strange open relationship type arrangement...
Either way, it doesn't sound like a very healthy scenario for either of you
2006-11-05 18:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you had an affair - if he cant handle that whos fault is it you hooker? deary me.
the threesome thing is probably so he can get some gratification without cheating on you!! just give him a few of your willing friends to even the score
2006-11-05 19:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,,he is pissed because you had an affair,the difference in YOU being with a different man and the both of you being,at the same time, with another person is that HE is present,,it would have included him,without him you just cheated on him.
2006-11-05 18:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether he's sexually inadequate can't be answered here, only you can know that (and any other women he#s slept with)
he sounds to be mentally retarded to me
maybe he should grow up, and accept life as it is
2006-11-05 18:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋